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Wow this was so informative and healing! It truly blessed me. Thank you ladies for this very candid and vulnerable segment. As a parent and a child this has given me so much insight. Praying you both continue to do the work of the Lord that much more healing and freedom comes to Gods people in Jesus name Amen 🙏🏽♥️
No kidding. Now I constantly second guess myself because he had me so conditioned. Towards the end of that toxic relationship I almost felt like maybe his crazy is rubbing off on me. I started thinking maybe he's right. Then I remembered he's an insecure jackass and I deserve WAY BETTER. 🖤 we broke up and got back together 3x. He didn't leave me alone until I threatened his livelihood and freedom. After that, not a peep! 😂
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i'm so sorry you're experiencing this :( it is very painful but awareness is key and i hope through every episode you feel hopeful that it is possible to end the cycle
It’s so true,when going through a divorce/breakup its like a death in your life, but the person is still alive and walking around. So you don’t truly get to mourn the situation. After a five-year relationship, it took me at least three years and Jesus to truly get over it. 54:04
why not just use the reason its called gaslighting? A guy turns down the gas lights in his hous gradually, but tells his wife that they are still the same, distorting her view on reality.
The sky? You mean the oxygen and particles between the earth’s crust and its atmosphere? It’s not blue. Our perception of it makes it appear blue because our eyes see blue easiest. It’s actually a rainbow all the time. Just not enough water for you to see it. 😊
guys... the example she gives is supposed to be obvious, one of the aspects of gaslighting is that usually it's too intricate to pinpoint and tell people how it's happening. her using an obvious example is to show that ultimately it's just lying to people until they feel crazy about it. for the sake of awareness, people that haven't experienced it need to be told simply that it's just lying about things in hopes that you cave and believe it.
Oh my God people that’s her analogy or whatever it’s called and it’s a simple way to understand what gaslighting is it’s nothing to do with what fucking color of the sky is. It has to deal with the lying even know there’s proof, and that you’re caught and you still continue to lie about it and try to make the other person feel crazy… that’s literally what gaslighting is like. When you try to tell somebody hate you cheated on me. Here’s proof they say oh no that’s not me in the video. Oh no that girl just fell on me you’re crazy we weren’t doing anything at all.
I found in my life experience that most men know right away if they want to be in a relationship with you. If they keep you in the dark, it means that you were just a convenience for them until their right one shows up.
According to NASA, "Blue light is scattered more than the other colors because it travels as shorter, smaller waves. This is why we see a blue sky most of the time."
This is not gaslighting at all. Real gaslighting is subtle and often malicious. You literally alter a person's memories and perception of reality. Just saying 'the sky is green' does nothing, because you can look outside and see the sky is not green (unless it is at that moment for some weird reason). But when someone truly gaslights you, you may not be able to pierce the deception AT ALL. You will believe you said things you didn't say or performed actions that you did not do and didn't even happen and that past events and facts have been rewritten in your own mind.
people can totally be convinced that the sky is green. it's possible to alter someone's reality to that point, to where the words themselves are wrong. any justification to further the lie will be used, to the foundation of everything you understand. the fact that you can go and still look at the blue sky doesn't matter anymore, because you now just think the word for the sky should be green. if the gaslighter has their sights set on even the most obvious things, it doesn't matter to them, they will try.
People are really willing to suffer in a relationship rather, then face the fact that it has already ended… what I learned in my time is let go and let time heal.but you don’t know that until you heal 😅
So many elements of your story parallel mine, and your experience down to your BFs bewildering behavior and refusal to be with your family. My trip with my BF was terrible. He was so cold and distant. I'm in a week of our break-up and feel like the whole thing has been a mirage and a mind-bend.
im so sorry you experienced that :( its valid how you feel and very normal the withdraws after the breakup, keep going and im cheering you on in this healing, it gets better i promise!
