A weekly show hosted by longtime friends Jordan, Damon, and Tony, explores the complexities of the Black and Queer experience. Through personal stories, dynamic guests, and curious conversations, this series offers a nuanced understanding of identity, race, and sexuality that goes beyond the surface level, with a touch of humor and a fearless willingness to challenge the norm.
Good Convo. But the fact that an actual doctor with this much knowledge of fiber, microbiome , etc.. Would actually recommend people use an antiperspirant astonishes me. Like i dont even know what to say. Thats about as toxic to the human body as you can get. It literally causes cancer. But other than that lol. great convo lol
omg.. so he knows that Talc causes cancer but he is still recommending antiperspirant? ok yeah im gonna just tell myself that he misspoke.. he really meant to say deodorant .. but it came out antiperspirant lol
Hi from Barbados. Being a more conservative and much smaller society conversations are not often a thing. I do think there are some people (well many)for whom masculine attraction is just a thing for them and it doesn't from a place of "femme phobia" or internalized homophobia or any of that. Everyone is built differently and that is ok. As long as we treat each other with kindness that is all that should matter.
Kentaji Jackson is a Supreme Court Justice, Kamala a vice president is running for president- Oprah is a billionaire- Beyonce is talented way beyond infinity- Never discount a BLACK woman!
📽 What question I have as an actor and for Lee is what's his imput or surface level about a gay striving too and playing only gay roles vs all roles. Like what your focus is and is it even worth it especially going too college at for acting and especially when your out of state from California. Tbh I was living out in California but I messed up my chance through being with law enforcement etc..
Scare you to spirituality using Jesus this is the problem with most Christians who would rather use a fear based approach to scare you into believing in Jesus……
Thank you for bringing such an important topic to the conversation. Black Women are not being taking serious in today’s society. Not too long ago YT individuals doubted Beyonce for dropping out a country album. I work with so many black women some who come from other places and barely speak English and I see the treatment they get it’s truely upsetting. So thank you for bringing this up!
speaking of sexual compatibility I have been a hardcore vers out of relationships but when I get in one for some reason I become the bottom. It's been 4 relationships but I always become the bottom. I dont know if I should praise that or what..idk..
🏳️🌈 In the gay world my ex was sent a fake grindr and jackd profile. He's so blind too say that his best friend set up these images and trying too break us up. Then he tries too trap me during sex like yeah yeah this the beyonce mind and mentality I want too see (were both verse) but lastly I bottomed majority of the time until the end when he started too give me sloppy toppy etc. Then I told my manager some tea and she said.."you know what" I would get online for real and shove it in their face type of vibe. And I did. And now he's too blindy too saying I see you got online and now I feel like an idiot etc yada yada. We lasted 2 years and some change. I'm like your going too believe your friends over me? 😢
Thanks for answering my question about the go go dancer. We're no longer together because of some more drama like people or his friend made a fake grindr and jackd and said it was me and me being insecure etc etc etc but thank you.
Doctor / men should not play the role of a woman in sex/ you bottom is not a vergina/ do not use it for that/ first advice/ you bottom is an exit for shit not an entrance for the penis/ do not nis use you body parts/
Years ago, when I was going to get tested, I had a clinic provider. Tell me that being undetectable was basically being functionally cured he likened it to the fountain of youth, saying you simply have to drink the water every day.
I am a NYC native born and raised but very new to the BIPOC Queer scene. I agree with Tony, coming into spaces to create friendships is not easy. Friend groups can be very cliquey and closed off. It’s interesting how NYC is viewed as an abundant place for connections but coming from someone who has been here forever I def wouldn’t say so.
Love hearing the perspective from someone who is born and raised here and also new to the Queer scene. The journey is different for everyone, not all experiences are the same, even in a city that encourages freedom in a lot of ways.
i love and appreciate this podcast sooo much! As a 19 year old black gay im learning so much from yall and its all helping me better myself and become the baddest in the cityyy😝lol but yuh thank youuu so muchh!
This made our hearts smile! We love hearing this and are living for your journey towards becoming a better you and the baddest in the city ;) We love and appreciate you - keep shinning baby!
Tony, my birthday twin! Always coming with the research and a tune! You better sing! You just give me LIFE! I spent the first 3 minutes of this video singing Toni Braxton Making Me High and I got my life! Ok, back to the video!❤❤❤
Actually the community has become more toxic and aggressive towards people and individuals who dont follow the "queer code" but are gay and lesbian so thays ironic. HE lies. And i saod HE im not changing it
Can you guys do an episode as it pertains to the disparity in how straight men interact with pretty gay boys juxtaposed to how they interact with masculine-presenting gay men? I find as a pretty gay boy that straight men refrain from interacting and socializing with me for fear that i might bite their dick off perhaps? While they seem to be more comfortable interacting and socializing with straight-presenting gay men (who they may or may not know is gay). I think it is an interesting convo... <3
I have been watching your podcasts for a while now, but just today it hit me, “ why am I not a subscriber, so now I am. I really enjoy the topics you guys cover. 😂
I’m curious about this algorithm as well. I could be biased, but in my opinion, this show is one of the most valuable and informative for US. If I were 14 years old again, I would love to be able to listen Damon, Tony, and Jordan. I would’ve grown into a sickening BQ much sooner😂 but seriously, y’all are doing the lord’s work, because there are still not enough channels where we can get content that on not hot topics and sensationalism. ❤❤❤
