When I was younger, I could understand why people didn’t like me. I was overweight, my clothes never fit right, I didn’t know how to interact with people, always said the wrong thing. Now, I understand why people don’t like me, but it’s for a different reason. I’ve found myself, I’m talented, successful, I’ve grown into my features, lost the weight, found clothes that flatter my body, I always know what to say and how to say it. Moral of the story: people will dislike you no matter what. Let them envy you and your glow up. Let them cast their evil eyes. They’ve got nothing on you.
Based on what you said your suppose to believe everyone is suppose to like you sounds like a Japanese person in japan thinking to be like everyone else
We live in someone else's dream. The wealthy have projected this life, and we live in it. I personally hate every bit of it. But, I have my own projection and it is is inclusive, meaning everyone has a place.
I think people don't like you for this simple reason- You are not fulfilling a void in THEIR life. They are seeking YOUR validation or compliance to a certain insecurity, but you are focused on your own path.
First person to like before worrying who like you is YOURSELF. If you dont like yourself it effects your self esteem , ability to have conversations and Yes, its very easy for others to see. Lastly dont think its about wealth or being successful. I look at this entire issue as Me, Myself and I. Thats what made successful, own everything i want , have any girl i want and buy anything i want. True happiness in life , dont depend on friends.
Thanks for another video to help us feel connected on our journeys. Thanks for sharing from a place of authenticity! Appreciate you sharing your thoughts here.
My belief is, if you don't like me. Fuck off! Problem Solved. If someone doesn't like you it's not your problem . It's their problem Hall of Famer Michael Strahan said it best.
My sister doesn't like me because I'm shy and quiet with social anxiety and she can be pretty mean to me, it hurts so much but I still love her 🙁 btw, thanks so much ❤your video made me feel more confident and learn how to not care if I'm not liked
"No one will ever do or say anything that is not a direct reflection of how they feel about themselves in a moment." Choose peers who support you. Move away from those who do not. Those who do not support you are going to do nothing but get in your way and discourage you as you chase your dreams.
Is it just me? People don't want to hear this message about this. They dont even care. Why would one not want to click on this title? It is research. It goes against what RU-vidrs have been yelling to all of the people searching "how to start a youtube channel?" All of the tips and tricks and data crunching....... Checking your Analytics is comparable to looking at a stock portfolio like a hawk every day. It can drive ya nuts. The impact of the view counts, likes, and shares..... Lol! 7:26 i spoke too soon. Now yiu are talkjng about the same thing with statistics
The day I discoveren true freedom was the day I didn't gave a s*it anymore how people are judging me. Most people enter a room or place and ask themselves the question; "how am I expected to behave?" I just stay the same old same old, I have my norms and values (I'm a decent social person) and nobody is able to make me put on a dog and pony show.
the best way I've found to make friends and meet new people is doing things I am interested in and curious about - going to events, classes etc. I've been able to build new connections that way :)
sometimes friday nights are quite busy so I would allow extra time for takeaway on weekends. For example last night I had to wait 20 minutes for my pizza (collection) BUT usually on a weekday it could be a 5 minute wait. You never know.
I absolutely love that you called it an 'escape plan' and am glad you brought up how working for free occasionally or while starting out is a good stepping stone but not a place you want to stay forever. Good stuff! Thanks!
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I struggle with the whole "personal brand" thing. People don't like me. They never have. I do my best to be charming and likeable; let my true self off the chain so to speak, and they just want to question my motives. They're so skeptical. Maybe I'm making it too obvious that I want to make money. Anyway, awesome video brother 👍 I think I learned something today, so that's invaluable.
Hey! Glad you learned something. If I were in your shoes, I would reconsider the statement "People don't like me. They never have". It sounds very absolute. I've never heard or seen of you, so based on that fact alone, your statement is false. How could I not like you if I've never come across you? Making the assumption that nobody likes you ensures you'll never find the people that do. It's a safety mechanism. Sort of like, "oh, well only people that get really lucky get to have a life they enjoy living, and I'm not lucky, so I'll just continue being unsatisfied and not even try to make a change because life isn't fair" - and then people wonder why their life isn't satisfying. Plenty of people don't like me... but plenty of people like me too. If you just put yourself out there (and be real), the ones that like you will come and stick around. The ones that don't like you will also make their presence known, usually a lot louder than the ones that do like you... but that's just part of the game. Wishing you joy my friend!
@@thedavidboland --- Dude, you are so frickin awesome. You have such a profound introspective that speaks to me on a very personal level. Thank you so much for talking to me, I will read that reply over and over, because you are absolutely 100% correct. I'm an alcoholic, but I'm trying to do better. I just want one person to understand me, and my neighbor seems to be trying, but I really want a sexy woman to try and do the same. My self talk is probably cutting me off from that. Man, thank you so much for your content, I really like it.👍
Are you going to Heaven when you die? If you believe that Jesus Christ was born, suffered and died on the Cross, and that God Almighty raised Him back up to Life three days later - and if you Trust that His Sacrifice alone paid for all your past, present and future Sins - then you will go to Heaven when you die! This is the Good News of The Gospel!
@@thedavidboland That’s great I am so glad for you! Thankyou so much for allowing my comment on your channel- if you haven’t already I hope so much that you will believe on Jesus Christ so you go to Heaven when you die as well!
I like to be left alone to do my stuff and that is actually difficult to do. It happens in the cracks between work and offending a lot of people for not visiting.
I'm with you brother, I don't even know what to say because I feel like you just said it all. greetings from Montevideo Uruguay, thanks for this! you're wise.
I wasn't ready to stop traveling, but covid made that decision for me. It completely ruined my life. I spent years living in a vehicle, until I was ready to finally travel overseas, full time. Sold almost everything I owned and lived out of a 34-liter backpack. I made it 14 months overseas and was making huge strides, until the world fell apart and I was forced to return to a life I didn't want, and that didn't want me. Everything has been complete shit since May 2020. I went from having a purpose, a direction and an identity, to having nothing but debt, chaos and suffocation.
