Veteran relationship and dating coach Deborrah Cooper live streams dating, life, and relationships advice shows weekly. Deb has provided street smart insight, advice and education for women on dating, relationships, and the games men play. Since 1992 she has also coached women on developing self-esteem and setting boundaries, navigating work politics, surviving family conflicts, getting up on game, friendship drama, and living your best life. Learn more about the host and this show by visiting Debsterism.Com.
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Nice vid as a Leo ♌️🦁i hate clingy men cause they never want to loose me and im not even dating them so block delete byeeee cause they definitely not worth my time😒😳
1:21:08 that’s an easy answer when your poor and on top of that can’t find a job it can make you depressed and stuck in a loop of you don’t seek help it makes it even harder if you don’t seek counseling You Can be aggressive doesn’t make it right but that’s the pattern I’ve noticed
23:19 highly disappointed in space ghost purp i used to Listen to him when i was in my late teens back in 2012-2013 period I never heard him behave this way before highly disappointing He sounds like an incel you can’t compare one woman you had a bad experience with to every single black woman and you’re black non mixed yourself? Scary 😱
I grew up in a large family, 6 siblings, not fun, I decided early never would have kids, at age 20 had severe medical issue arise, this ended my ability to have kids, never successful at dating, stopped at 46, accepted being single was what was best for me, now SWM, 68, and see being single and without kids was the right path, it was not planned, it just worked out
Girl please. It's not a health or cleanliness issue. Pulling back the foreskin and cleaning with soap and water is all that is necessary. Same as a woman. There is nothing so nasty about the human body that water and soap won't rectify.
Wow! You know the thing! This is exactly how my 52 yr old husband makes me feel. He met me a strong independent focused confident woman who had my life all together, and this man constantly makes me feel like I'm not enough because whenever we go out he is ALWAYS looking at younger women even! I have come to the realization that he wants to break me down and make me have no self esteem in myself or too have issues with my younger sisters out there.
10:00 one of my cousins got circumcised as an adult and I heard through the grapevine (his mom), that it hurt like hell. I think he was experiencing medical issues, which is why they recommended it. I agree. Altering his body for a significant other isn't a good idea
14:27,ive seen this TOOOO many times...this is elementary im speaking of when taking or picking up my son🤦🏾♀️,body con dresses super tight,cheeks out,spandex up the crack of their behind showing every dent😢
Agreed. Cheap stingy men feel entitled to get the same benefits from women that men get who treat women well. The entitlement of broke men is astounding
Edit: When you eat refined carbohydrates, or carbohydrates in general, the pancreas signals the kidneys to hold onto salt. The reason why, is because the body needs a lot of water in order to process those carbohydrates. On a low-carb diet, salt isn't a problem because you just pee it out. I'm a big fan of you and glad you're doing better.
1:02:55+/- OMG, SOOO true!! Instead of improving, they just spread disappointing s3x and say, "This has never happened before" until they find a W with low enough self esteem to put up with it.
So women like bro g lied to. Got it 🤦🏾♀️😩. She knew she was gaining weight. Women need to stop being delusional and getting mad at truth. I wouldn’t trust my husband for lying about something so obvious 😂
Lying? lololol What it IS actually: avoiding drama created by a woman too stupid to know you don't ask people questions you can't handle the answer to. But if a woman asks a stupid question and sets herself up to be lied to, said men should oblige her and lie straight to her face.
Have a female family member who has always been dumb with men..has been the one paying for everything(bills,dates,trips,etc),all while her princess "boyfriend" claims to be out doing doordash(has no steady job as a main income),but here is the kicker..she already has 1 son from a dusty...she feels he is a great candidate to get PREGNANT by..my mammy mom should be screaming at her but she baby crazy(i am one and done lol),so she puts on a happy front for it all..cant make this stuff up👀🤦🏾♀️
I agree with you saying men tell on themselves... They really do. It's just that most women choose to ignore red flags & create this fantasy about them... Usually out of desperation (whether ppl wanna admit it or not). It's pathetic smh Thanks for this red flags live 🫶🏼
You are so funny!!! “That was an interesting study into stupid people” Laughing because I relate to the study subjects - despite being on this channel for many years! But I have finally learned! This show was good- thank you so much!
Those aren't really red flags - those are more akin to "stupid decisions." Red flags are signs shown early when you first meet someone that let you know said someone is not wrapped too tight or continued association with them will be high risk for one's mental, financial, emotional and physical health.
When married after giving birth my husband used to snatch my arms from around our baby . He was angry at me for loving my child. I left after he pushed me into a wall. It was 3 and 1/2 years of marriage and mistreatment.🚩
Oh yes there are probably zillions, plus what would bother one person might not be so red to another. But the relationship will still be full of drama - some women just have a higher tolerance for it than others.
