We are from NY, living in Miami now and still having sex. Bringing listeners some Dirty Martini 🍸Discussions.
Cindy is Dominican decent born in the Bronx but raised in Miami. She is married with two daughters loves salsa and bachata music. She will bring the voice of reason to listeners and puts the dirty in the dirty martini discussions.
Candy was born and raised in the South Bronx and is a first generation Dominican American. She’s been residing in South Florida for the past twenty years and looks forward to bringing followers of our work her sense of humor, joy and insight.
Sasha was born in Queens, New York and now living in Miami. She’s engaged, has 2 beautiful kids and of course her 4 fur babies. She’s excited to bring to her listeners the unfiltered version, no sugar coating just saying it the way it is but of course, with a smile in her face.
This truly an important topic because many experienced anxiety at different stages of growth and it’s always in our head. Even when there’s legit issues, managing those issues start in your head.
@@sexwithoutthecitypodcast good or bad is not relevant. Our thoughts while masturbation is rather simple for the most part we don’t complicate sexual events. Big brain for the most part especially when younger shuts down and the other brain is on a mission and the target is locked in and we are ready to fire. In short don’t ask me to think about anything when I am being a savage. Either I am beating myself up or I am beat that’s kitty up either way I am focused on the sweetness of that moment. Let me ask you this, if you are having a good you absolutely love the taste of when eating it are you thinking about the ingredients, the effects after or the taste in the moment of enjoyment? Don’t ruin the moment enjoy the moment
Question, is it an attraction or emotional journey when being with the same person. It seems society is developing a desirable taste for the same person oppose to a platonic loving and long term relationship, investments of relationships besides procreation and love should or has to be for the future of mankind morally I supposed. However the Industrial Revolution, ie social media has given us less freedom and we have become slaves to it causing regression. So are we choosing our own desires or is it a system?
I think that the way we were brought up has a lot to do with our choices. We were very restricted growing up so we became rebels. The emotional journey with the same sex is different for everyone and at the time we explored same sexual relationships, social media was not a thing yet so it was definitely not because of society.
Great episode! ❤ Such a interesting topic to talk about. I feel the same way. I stay away from social media every once in awhile because too many girls inboxes me on Instagram for no reason out of nowhere everyday asking me out and this happens to the point where I'm scared to respond Lol.
