“Nun The Wizer" is a thought-provoking podcast that challenges the notion of certainty and expertise. Through engaging discussions, "Nun The Wizer" invites listeners to embrace the wisdom of humility, curiosity and the power of not knowing.
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I too am an adult orphan. The only way I cope well is that I didn't come from a traditional family. My father let my mother run the show. I was not raised patriarchal, I was raised matriarchal. I have more esteem because I don't rely on tradition.
It amazes me how soft the world has become nowadays and now everyone has an excuse for whatever they are feeling shit a whole diagnosis being done now on men feelings we have always excepted women being emotional but I be damn as Man U are going to feminize me and reduce me to some bullshit stop letting these women turn yall into them as a man u keep shit pushing fuk yo feelings because at the end of the day u be the only one dealing with them don’t nobody care but u other than your own mother I have yet to see a woman care much about a man’s feelings that she is in relationship with other than just mutual respect but when she fed up she gone and ain’t no of those diagnosis gone save u from that matter of fact they be weaponized against u💯
Lmfao it’s hilarious because like dang.. it doesn’t take a genius but at the same time with all that women go through and experience, I’m not mad that they tend to overlook or underestimate how much of a change it is for us men as well.
I enjoyed being a fly on the wall for this convo! Good stuff team and much love to Lex for seeing any value and wanting to participate with us 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Damn this is heartbreaking. I was molested by my older brother when I was around 7-8. Still not knowing what sex was or having watched pornography until after the fact. Even though what happened is now apart of my life experience, it took a lot of therapy to understand that what took place didn’t define me nor my self worth. I hope you guys are doing alright🫤 it’s not talked about enough
I was molested by my cousin at about 5 and at about 7 later by the kid of someone who used to work on our houses. I was under the assumptions it was a game. I haven't come forward yet. Its hard brothers
It’s definitely hard and unfortunately for men especially black men, anything abuse against us almost always leads to someone emasculating us. Well at least trying to. Nonetheless this is a safe space man. I’m sorry that you’ve had to endure that 😩
Not true necessarily. There’s a ton of information online, do your due diligence. Ignorance like this is a strong reason why a lot of men do not feel comfortable opening up and sharing their story.
This is completely amazing that they are talking about this. I would never have expected running across this. It takes a lot of courage and those statistics are completely right. I speak from experience.
When something traumatic happens it can go either way. You can almost live in that moment or you can disassociate from the entire experience and act as if it never happened
I was sexually abused at 4 as well. My aunt would babysit me. She was 15 at the time and it felt good. I kept it a secret for many years and I thought that maybe one day the pain would just magically disappear. It wasn’t until I tried EMDR therapy with a professional therapist that I was finally able to completely heal from this.
First of all I am sorry that you too had this terrible experience that I sincerely wouldn’t wish upon anyone.. 🙏🏽 secondly, I’d love to hear more about EMDR? What exactly is that and is it something you’d recommend for everyone who’s experienced this type of abuse?
@@NunTheWizerPod This type of therapy is a type of hypnosis. And the therapist helps you create a safe space in your mind, and you have to recreate the trauma in your mind. You basically relive it, confront it, and then they give you steps to heal emotionally. I tried 6 therapists and non of them offered this service (didn’t even know it existed at the time.) Until the last therapist that I found offered this service to me. It was God sent.
We appreciate you! Thank you 🙏🏽. It hits different from anyone especially when you become an adult but I cannot lie it definitely is a lot more traumatic experiencing SA from a family especially if you haven’t dealt with it and still have to see and be around them 😩