I just come here to torture myself and to understand (or try actually) what happened that time. This is a discussion between Wendy and Irene, that's it (and i clarified cause Wendy usually will defend the others members and try to talk, even enter in a discussion to defend a member. That's my POV of her). I feel like Wendy rarely gets angry, but when her values are in debate, she will defend her posture no matter what. I mean, she won't put her values aside in a discussion (when those are being in debate) and she'll defend to the end, UNLESS the other person shows her that she's wrong (she's open to see other POV). If the other person is stubborn, she will get tired to the point she won't discuss anymore. And if you keep insisting, that's it. On the other hands, Irene knows "her role", so she expects everyone follow her lead. She expects no resistance of their members and, if something goes wrong, she will deal with everything. Also, this thing of being the "unnie", i feel like she won't tell you something twice (I mean, something really important). Irene will be pushy? like a real mom (LOL), repeating you once and again, she wants to keep the situation under her control. When Wendy gets angry, the other person just disappears in her life, like, she will have respect but no relationship at all. Irene was firm in her posture. However, there's a point when Irene realized she cross a limit, a limit she really thought wasn't that close or even existed. I feel like with this war, they both understand each other in a level that it can't be compared with any of the other members. They both know their boundaries, so they are able to communicate freely cause they both respect their thoughts and understand how the other person is. When you had an argument with friends, sometimes ends in a break up (friendship) and regrets, or just being stubborn/ prideful to admit our mistakes. and sometimes we just apologize for "our mistakes" to keep a friendship. However, we are people, we need to communicate and understand each other, not a relationship where one is like a boss and the other just follow the order like a soldier. are you just taking the blame without prioritizing you and your thoughts? Often, we apologize but is not like a real apologize. I mean, it's like now there's like a ghost/ shadow that makes you feel insecure, to the point you don't really trust the other person. I know it was a bad moment for us and for them too, but i feel that if you are able to endure it, then your relationship is in a superior level. Not everyone is able to accept the good and bad things about the other, we only do with our couple/ family mostly.
It's my first time watching this and "PERSONALLY", I don't like how Irene acted for the whole time😅 she looks so immature.. just please tell me she's still the one who says sorry when she did wrong and not wendy. How come the shippers loves this video? Lol
I saw a post in TikTok and I'm so curious about it (cuz there's no explanation at all) that's why I am here.. some comments in that tiktok post even here saying this is a couple fight but I don't think so, clearly a friends fight.. I don't think couples is in fight for at least a week (if so, that's so immature and they have some toxic relationship) people also thinks this is cute when obviously it looks wendy suffers because to the attitude irene gives her.. do you actually want your fave seeing hurt or ignore by the person she loves just for you to think they are real?
This video proves how professional Wendy is. I feel so hurt seeing her like that. Girl, if ever you are dating someone like that, you deserve better, don't stick to that kind of attitude they're showing you😅
Wendy seems so under when she's with irene! I am now guessing what is happening inside their dorm whenever they're in a fight. If they are in a relationship, poor wendy
It seems to me that they really care for one another. 2020 was a rough year for everyone on the planet, some places and people got hit the worst, but it seems like these two, some 3 years later, have been flying high together. There are times where they seem to be like in their own world. Like a shared glance or secret hand-holding is normal for them, but now we're seeing different levels of affection, subtler in some ways.
Looking back at it, I do think it was some words exchanged between them. Maybe they broke up or something. Maybe they really didn't like each other then. Wendy has said that because they're together all the time, there will be times where they don't really like each other but after a time being apart and reflecting on themselves, then they kinda talk it out and things end up being okay. The other part of the truth in this is: I also think it was stress that Irene is feeling in some of these shots because she's also talked about that year and said that although they were really great numbers-wise, she was questioning SME a lot and some of the decisions they were making for RV were decisions she actually hated. Due to this, it made her not a kind person.
I remember when irene become mc for award show after wendy get the accident in SBS, that show appearing some video about wendy and make irene cry because her sister feeling pain about her accident.
