NTA i get it i work long shifts in the medical field you need to decompress after work and she needs to ket you have it wether she understands it or not it is a need when your job is physically and emotionally draining...
NTA, your husband is a whiny controlling B, you already had that discussion about getting it. You just followed through with it, I don't think he realized you were serious, and now he just feels salty about it.
17yrs later, and all it took was your dad to see dressed up to realize what he has been missing? Wow, dads a bit slow, huh.. You didnt do or say anything wrong; you should never have to play the house mouse for your divorced parents..
What does the wife do again? This guy has a full time job dealing with death and suffering all day. Then he has to come home, cook, clean, help with homework and watch the kids while she what? Shes a Sahm. Dinner should be ready when he gets home. Kid's homework should be started by the time he gets home. Oh and he's got to make breakfast for the kids and take them to school. And I say this as a woman. What the hell does she do all day? The man just needs 30 minutes of silent meditation after work. I mean damn. He can do bad all by himself. She seems lazy, entitled, and toxic AF.
I dont think so investing in a childs higher education is a very serious investment, the op made a serious plan for all his kids and communicated it from the start. I don't understand why people are always rooting for consequence less decision making. If you have been given an option and dont accept the terms associated with it you simply cant have it. Just as shes free to choose what she does in life the dad is also free to pick and choose what aspects he feels comfortable investing in. Its very entitled to expect your parents to roll over once you are an adult. Hes already fulfilled his responsibility to raise you and as an added bonus wanted to pay for regular University. Its fine if you dont want that but holding it against him is not justified in my books. You cant always get your cake and eat it too. The way op communicated might be harsh but just on a standing point of view, he didn't do anything wrong.
YTA. She picked the school she wanted to go to and reconciled with the fact that you wouldn’t support financially. Her solution to you not paying is financial aid which you still would not help her secure. Regardless, you can’t force your kids to go to the school you want and it would have cost you nothing to fill out the forms she needed.
No he is TA, not because of not providing money. Which she did not ask for. But for refusing to provide the paperwork so she could receive financial aid, the paperwork that proves he wont be financially supporting her education and that her application for financial aid is not a scam from a well off family to game the system.
What… it’s college money set aside for her… so it should be for her to spend on college in anyway she sees fit. Also, depending on the state, you can start your degree with community college then transfer those credits over to a state college. This gives you the degree from a state college at a lesser cost. So not only is he an AH. He’s a moron as well.
No it was a failure to communicate. You're not wrong for not wanting to spend that much money. But at the same time he made them a specifically for you so it's a little gray. And then he didn't bother to give you a price despite knowing that you wanted to purchase them from him. If you both sat down and talked about what she would like out of the pottery cuz you didn't have to make you like a bunch of balls and plates he could have just made you a vase or something. But he chose to make a personalized set of bowls and plates. And I don't like a vase or been a lot less than a full set
No, they're at your house. It's fucking clothes. Yes you may be a minor, but you still have as much of a right as anyone else to where whatever clothes you like. And it's a crop top, it's not like the outfit was something that would be sold at an adult store.
Socially, no. Personally, yes. If random people have an issue with it then thats their problem, but if yoy go to someone elses house and refuse then yes
I love pottery. My family is big into it also. Thats a boat load of money and I would never. I think social media hyping everything up has made a lot of what would be considered cheap no longer cheap. Nta.
@@notthatguy.937 no not for that reason but because most people still feel uncomfortable about men's wearing crop top or makeup. It's not wrong to wear it but still more than compliments he is going to receive a negative response from others.
YTA - this guy is an idiot. If it's a legit community college the highest sucess rate for completely college is community transfers after compling the reg courses at community. she is actually SAVING YOU MONEY STUPID. also he should let her pocket 1/2 of the savings. free and clear.
I agree like he has no right to say that since he works she has to do everything around the house because taking care of a house can be just as terrible as working and it’s not like she’s asking him to do everything just a couple things here and there
NTA. If they both agreed to let her do the housework and let him bring the money then she can't just stop doing it. No one is saying she can't write a book, but if she doesn't make money yet then she can't just ignore her work, unless they both agree.
@@evelynlovesjuno9880sooo? He didn't show up and bondage, his sexist parents just didn't like that he was wearing feminine clothing. He's his own person and can do what he wants. What does it matter that they had people over?
He’s the asshole. Regardless of the reason, she’s in school and trying to learn to better herself. She has supported him by keeping the home and doing everything for years. My husband works full time. I do not work. But I have a chronic pain condition that lands me in bed most of the time, and I have to admit he does the bulk of the chores. But weeks I feel good, I go to the grocery store, I FILL our primary and secondary full freezer with batch meals. I cook and cook. I take on organising projects and do the deep clean of the bathroom and chores he doesn’t get around. I help in other ways, I take the recycling out and sort it and do as much as I can when I can. A marriage is team work and sometimes you have to pick up the slack for whatever reason.
I'm ngl this is not normal unless yall old ash and been together. A relationship is something that is equal, your two people, not one person going to work giving up all your free time to then come up and give up the rest of it so your partner can lounge around all day 😂
It's true that it is just a hobby but the second they do make money and they make stupid money you're going to be the bitch in the relationship at that point
