Great video, very helpful for me to brainstorm behaviours by the management bullies who are perpetuating aged bulling on my partner. This will help greatly for discussions with our lawyer. Very concise thank you.
I'm being bullied at work by the manager and coworker. They both are very close. I dred going to work. It's getting a toll on my health and my emotions I getting anxieties and depression very badly. 😢
Love this! Only 3 months into my job and a co worker tried to intimidate my work ethic in front of other workers. An hour later she was doing her fake thing being all nice. I’m older than her and much more experienced in life. I’m gonna continue to put her in her place.
It's a USA cultural norm to give undeserved respect to people who were in the military. I won't do that anymore. A person high on the scale of psychopathy is nothing more that that.
5:42 - “… Only the target gets the unrealistic deadline. Everyone else gets ample time to learn what to do and to finish the project…”. Yes . Spot on .
The Gatekeeper . I had an experience where I had to talk to my doctor. And his receptionist decided and declared to me : “… No he will not speak to you or write a letter …”. then went ahead trying to give me medical advice herself.
4:25 - “… Beware of the hugger!…”. My goodness! I know “… the hugger…”. I have had this experience and I was wondering why she hugged me when I thought that we were just going to shake hands after being introduced. Definitely turned out to be smarmy and a two headed snake
I stood up to a colleague who was behaving unprofessionally to the group (not to me personally) and her supporters turned on me. This made me the bad person (think in groups/out groups - sort of) which changed the focus. Now they focused on me and what i said when i called for accountability and the original behaviour that kicked it off got forgotten. She got away with it.
He said she said bullying is basically the one that encourages smear campaigns. And the smear campaigns can make the target look like the screaming meemie type by trying to manipulate you to react first They wanted to ruin my life, career and spirit by playing the victim
I had a supervisor who always told me “bad news” just as I am about to go to a vacation or just as the work day/week was over! I knew that wasn’t a coincidence.they want me to think and worry about it the whole time I was away!
Thank you so much for this video; I needed it. I am currently being bullied by my director and VP of surgical service. It was so bad I stopped my college education for 2 months. Regaining perspective is so vital in the workforce. My boss told me she does not know how I am attending college because I can't properly communicate. I now know that the behavior displayed is narcissistic by reading a book on Dark Psychology. This podcast confirms my thoughts.
I injured my wrist on the job . Had surgery when I came back to work on light- duty. Everything changed New employees and Managers. We had meeting on a Friday with in 3 weeks beback to work on light duty 2 write-up and notice of seperation. I refused to sign any of them. I'm glad I hired a workcomp lawyer a day after my injury. I refuse to sign any of the paperwork they presented me with. Your story is almost actually what I experienced.
I had a coworker who bullied with sarcastic compliments. He'd pick something about me that he found weak and would say the opposite about me very sarcastically, like saying I had 'superior intelligence' and stuff, I didn't even say a lot or act cocky. I couldn't call him on it because he only said "good" things.
before u quit ur job use all ur sick time. tell ur doctor ur havng a mental health crisis and to give u a note saying you will be away due to medical illness. your employer has no right to your details of why your away for medical reasons. give them as many notes as the require that ur away due to medical illness and fk ur department they can find sum1 to get the work done
I learned working in the hospital that it is the cast of mean girls. The bullying is insane and wears you down. I dont know why this is like that rither. We are there to help people
Fantastic episode. So many great points and I have seen similar in my research on toxic leaders. I really liked the piece on how HR are unfortunately having to be toxin handlers. I appreciated the optimism at the end, I feel the same Teresa! There is hope for better workplaces in the future. Thank you!
The statement Namie made in this video made about not being able to explain the situation DISPASSIONATELY is such a good observation of the bullying phenomenon .
if sum1 bullys u at work, get revenge and be petty and be a fkn asshole to them. everyone quietly quits and does nothing. DONT BE THAT PERSON. be a quiet dick to them. steal their phone and throw it away. break their monitor. throw their lunch away. fuck these asshole bullys. dont be a quiet quitter. GET THEM BACK! stand up for yourself please!
Your organization was doxxed and then bullying me after I joined your support group. I was being cyberstalked and I continued to be bullied online. It has ruined my life. Probably ended my life. I hope your organization stops participating in this behavior. It’s illegal. My account was deleted and therefore the evidence of what I experienced deleted as well . My home was burglarized over 30 times. I was terrorized.
I was also eventually assaulted at my home due to the cyberstalking and fake information that had been circulating. I have been in total isolation for 7 years. Nobody to speak to . No help. They also lied to my police and district attorney. The money I spent on coaches and therapists - defrauded as well - as the hacktivist continues to slander and terrorize me. Don’t except doxxed information. It’s beyond my scope of understanding that any professional organization would do that . I’m going to have to spend thousands now on attorney fees to get somewhere with this - much of my personal and sentimental items stolen from my home - my dad died during the harassment. They stole the things he gave me. I also was not able to see him due to circumstances around the harassment. I also had nobody to take me to the hospital during a medical emergency because of the isolation. I have a disability now because of the lack of immediate medical care. I’m really angry at everyone associated with your organization. This would have been an obvious police matter.
I don't know what happened. Neither WBI nor I have ever participated in terrorizing anyone. I avoid social media, given its penchant for the negative ordeals like yours that are commonplace. Are you referring to SafeHarbor? In fact, I have been personally stalked and vilified by an online bully. Ironic, eh? Please use the contact form at the WBI site to reach confidentially and safely to describe your ordeal. But please know that your life has not ended, nor will it.
I am talking about SafeHarbor - and I was gaslighted and bullied in that space - I had someone cyberstalking me and they had made alarming accusations. I will use this form to describe further what I experienced.
My boss is the constant critic. He invited me on a walk around the park to threaten to fire me and belittle my time management skills, I only wish I filmed it. I will secretly record next time.
This is super helpful and perfectly describes the situation I was in recently at a workplace, luckily I quit my job after 3 monhs. After a sick leave period, they tried to lured me back in under false pretenses...but by then I was starting a new job, I rejected they're offer to come back and told them I was happy with my new role. Keep up the good job helping those unfortunate to be the target of bullies at the workplace..
I would say our social has become more psychopathic I've seen almost a whole town bully one person, just because her mother's Abu sed a ki leer decided to lie about her ,
To effectively address this issue, we must eliminate the influence of financial gain. As long as corporate corruption and monetary incentives persist, true resolution will remain out of reach. Strengthening the enforcement and scrutiny of financial transactions is essential to ensuring that individuals are neither motivated nor swayed by unethical behavior.
How many attempts at communism does it take to realize it will never work? Go to cuba if you need to see for yourself. Allan is a great guy and it is shameful what Nz allows to happen to him.
