Hey, it's Naiya! I talk a lot, so why not share it with the masses hm? I’m 25, with an in depth passion for emotional intelligence, mental health, and more.
I’ve spent years gathering information and experiences that have helped me emerge into the person I am today, and I’d love to potentially help you too!
My page will mostly be covering topics to bring light to different perspectives, but my channel will not strictly be limited to only that type of content!
Disclaimer: I am not a mental health professional! I’m simply sharing what has helped me 🤍
I know this is outside of the context but I’ve seen a couple of your videos and love the rich depth of your thoughts! And in the process, I’ve kinda fallen in love with you! ❤
There is definitely beauty in shutting tf up! What a word girl! Wild this video popped up at this time, because I have been weighing my exhaustion just anticipating having to deal with a difficult person. and it's simply not worth putting myself in a position to deny my character and act out just to match the reactivity. My integrity is worth more than engaging with crazy.
Thought if I spoke up for my needs, I’d liberate myself, only for all these years later realizing I coulda been seen as the person you mentioned at the beginning while I was doing so. 🙃. “Oh no I’m not liking where this is going better do something” to “oh no I’m an asshole”. There is no peace. I’m praying for your circumstance, don’t go from victim to villain like my stupid ass. Stay good, stay you
Thank you for the sweet words, but I’d like to add to what you’ve said if it’s okay! It is liberating to speak up for yourself, as long as you’re respectful… but it also becomes unhealthy when you put yourself in a position to keep speaking up for what you need to those that blatantly do not care instead of walking away. (At least as much as you can walk away depending on the circumstances.) Then it just becomes settling loudly and going through unnecessary hurt on top of what you feel. I can only really speak on that bit since the rest is vague and I don’t want to overstep. Thank you for your prayers, I’ve been in your shoes already though and realized how detrimental it can be so I made the hard choice to completely tear myself apart to rebuild into something better. I hope you know that you can too! :) 🖤
It's essential to distance ourselves from negative influences to protect our well-being. The path to happiness requires cutting ties, allowing us to move forward toward what truly nurtures us. I enjoyed listening to you, and now all that’s left is for you to take care of yourself.
I'm glad i found your channel, I was having this same conversation with my husband just the other day. Your discernment is amazing. Protect your integrity at all costs and endure until the very end. 💯
Thank you! These people are stuck at one end of the scales of life. Using their free will as a weapon. Parasitic in nature, craving a host that will provide even a sliver of energy to be able to feed because they can’t/don’t want to do it themselves. The sad reality of the necessary opposing force in life. I’m grateful for it in a very odd way, I dislike people like that, but if you look at those encounters beyond finding offense; you’ll see things that you need to see through them 🫶🏼
It’s so interesting how things happen! This was supposed to be uploaded so much earlier but my laptop died without me knowing 😂 I’m glad it found you when you needed it :)
this whole weekend, i have been putting the way i spend my time in perspective. i've been working on cutting down the amount of time i'm on my phone, because i was upset at how much time i was sinking into instagram and reddit. my ultimate goal is to transition to a modernized flip phone, buy an MP3 player, read more, crochet more, *create* more... instead of wasting all my time on my phone. i've never really focused on how *i've* felt before. this video was a wakeup call for me; i need to start saying "no" more. i will never know true peace until i prioritize my best interests, my comfort, my success, instead of dedicating myself towards propping everyone else up. this was pretty rambly. i really could go on and on. our time has never been so important, and with everyone and everything vying for our attention, it gets really overwhelming. i hope you have a good night <3.
Awe this is beautiful, thank you for leaving this comment! You and I are in the same boat when it comes to screen time. Today is actually the first day of my new schedule! This gave me a new perspective as well. I’d really benefit from having an mp3 player myself!! You deserve to say no. To be comfortable in it even if others aren’t. This is your life, your time, your path. Live it and love it to the fullest! I hope you have a good day as well 🖤
Hi I just found you and you have a new sub from me. I recently just started a channel myself I hope your channel does well I know it will❤❤ btw great message we deserve better in this world of hate
I have learned to accept what ever it is I feel as " It is what it is." Also to take the feelings as overthinking. I find it good to take several deep breaths and entirely focus on the present moment. One thing I have learned is to never be in the future. Always be in the present no matter the circumstances.
Hello, i apologize for this video being completely unrelated to this video but i stumbled across your tiktok and you are a phenomenal artist when it comes to makeup. Your recent posts with the makeup are amazing, the uncanny valley really got myself unsettled (in a good way!) and your the last of us cosplay was also outstanding! if you have the time, do you think you’ll start a video on how to do both styles of makeup with the last of us/uncanny valley along with where you got your materials? i would love to try and do this for halloween!
Hi there! Thank you so much, that’s okay. I appreciate your interaction 🫶🏼 I’ll be posting makeup tutorial videos during October! :) runner tutorial is already recorded 👹
Give gentle reminders, and then focus on your ability to do what you tell others. Otherwise you’re focusing/obsessing over the negative as well, indirectly 🫶🏼
girl you are glowing! ✨🌟 found this to be very encouraging to my soul 💛 so much truth in this message! thank you for sharing! you made me giggle multiple times lol also wanted to share - i looked up bee symbolism and here’s what one website said: “The bee symbol is commonly associated with life, creativity, hard work, community, success, prosperity, and abundance. In religious history, they represent the human soul.” maybe the bee was just vibing with your energy 😌🐝
Why thank you 🥰 I try to keep things pretty serious but I can’t help but be silly, especially when I trip up in my words LMAO but aweee thank you for sharing that. Bees have been flying right up to my face and leaving the past couple days 😂🖤🖤
@@FloraEnigma i am in awe idk what to say except thank you and keep up the content you and the videos you make have comforted me so far. I hope to learn more on how to take better care of myself and my emotions. :)
Thank you! Very sweet comment. It definitely was hard but I’m happy to see that I do have a life beyond what’s happened to me. I’m glad I can be a source of comfort. Thank you for being here 🖤🖤
Thank you for this video. I was thinking about making a RU-vid channel, and watching this video confirmed I am on the right path. I subscribe to your channel. I look forward to more videos. Take care
The reality is nobody cares about you. I had to learn that the hard way. I lost my best friend, the girl, the job and you know what? I'm doing much better off without them. I have a new job and new friends :)
@@FortressBros oh love. People do care, the right ones do! Most of all, I hope you care about you first and foremost :) I’m glad you’re experiencing new things!
facts on facts, queen! 👑 a lot of this message is synchronous my next scheduled community post 💗 opposition is inevitable at every stage but we are destined for greatness so we continue rising above it 🥰 you are so appreciated!
Its gettong harder and harder to br happuy when everything is so expensive and the stress of realizing we are gonna work forever because rulers decided to make it more hard and expensive.
@@A.HWasRight I feel this heavily. The goal isn’t to be happy constantly, that would just be a bunch of toxic positivity and perfectionism. It’s so very hard out here in terms of societal constraints, personal restrictions in life, etc. My goal personally is to try my best to not make things any harder for myself through the hardships. Trying my best to implement some good into this experience even when I can’t find any, try to make it myself. That will look very different for everyone and it’s much easier said than done. Manifesting and all of the glorified western beliefs of ways towards gravitating onto better only go so far. It’s okay to be having a hard time. It’s okay to not be happy and to be feeling overwhelmed. I just hope you’ll be kind to yourself and others through it
Thank you for the message, You have put into words what I have felt I deserve but allowed myself to be used and it’s said so gently that I hear it and want better.
Okay first of all, you’re absolutely beautiful!! Loving the hair! Other than that honestly, I think that most people are scared to open up their feelings in fear of getting hurt. We’re all beautiful souls looking for ways not to get hurt. And that’s okay. We’ll all find it ❤️
@@AnhedonicButterfly thank you so much! And I agree to an extent, there must be balance for us to recognize and realistically distinguish between humanity and what opposes it. Hot wouldn’t be hot without cold. So on and so forth. The scales of life must have both ends and everything in between. Some have the potential to be beautiful souls but choose to tarnish themselves and others knowingly or unknowingly. Some are just empty shells that act as examples and walking lessons. It may sound grim but I don’t think we’re all supposed to find it, that would be a bit too perfect for beings with free will
@@FloraEnigma You’re super intelligent!! Thank you so much for giving me new perspectives on life. Sometimes you wonder what you’re here for but then you start to understand. Perhaps not all of us will figure it out though. Just like you said :) thank you very much!! And you’re welcome. Learned something new today. Will keep your words in mind ❤️
such a good conversation. it takes courage to speak about what you’ve been through. i can relate to a lot of what you’ve shared. life is meant to be so much more than just survival. what a beautiful thing to desire & actively strive for better in your future and for the future of your children. thank you for opening up and sharing what you’ve learned along the way 💙 you inspire me Flora 💗 p.s. your thumbnails are always so cool!! i love your style!!
@@maxynemae 🥹🫶🏼 I love hearing from you, thank you so much. I’m sorry you’ve gone through similar. It’s such a tough experience at times, it is indeed so much more than survival! Recognizing that is the first step that I’m glad we’re both taking. And thank you so much! I love getting creative with them, during the wait times for upload I just let myself roam free to create them 😂🖤
@@FloraEnigma i’m sorry you did too love. i know it ain’t easy but the fact that we are facing & overcoming the circumstances we were given is a testament to how strong we are 💜 yess girl!! i love it 😄 your personality shines through in your creativity and i’m so here for it 🥰
