That is very true when you waste your time trying to live for other people if you set a goal or an accomplishment you do it for yourself not anyone else
Verses to reference : Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing. James 1:2-4
Verses to Reference : Matthew 23:11-12 New International Version 11 The greatest among you will be your servant. 12 For those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted. James 2:2-4 New International Version ”Suppose a man comes into your meeting wearing a gold ring and fine clothes, and a poor man in filthy old clothes also comes in. If you show special attention to the man wearing fine clothes and say, “Here’s a good seat for you,” but say to the poor man, “You stand there” or “Sit on the floor by my feet,” have you not discriminated among yourselves and become judges with evil thoughts?“
Verses To Reference : Romans 13:8 ESV Owe no one anything, except to love each other, for the one who loves another has fulfilled the law. Proverbs 22:7 ESV The rich rules over the poor, and the borrower is the slave of the lender.
