This is very interesting! I’m autistic and don’t really perceive attractiveness. I can’t tell faces (and often therefore people) apart. I worry I’m ugly, but I don’t know what ugly looks like.
Ill save y'all some money. Give ChatGPT a detailed description of your skin tone, eye color, and hair color, and ask it to do a color analysis for you.
I'm glad I stumbled upon this video because I'm also trying to improve my appearance. However, I noticed you didn’t go further into discussing your insecurity about your race/ethnicity. You mentioned having a hard time seeing yourself as attractive because you were darker in a predominantly white area. I wish you had highlighted that attractiveness is perceived differently across various ethnicities, and it's hard to gauge when comparing yourself to white peers. I also wish you had mentioned that, in America, there seems to be a bias where attractiveness is often equated with a person's proximity to whiteness-whether in looks, personality, etc. I'm not going to lie; this was a surface-level take. However, I do appreciate the video as a whole, as it motivated me to continue my goal of fixing my hair to feel more attractive.
It's because India send there brightest to universities here in America. India is 1.5 billion people. They form groups that can be very aggressive and cutthroat in business, this can be attribute from the cast system mentally that some of them come from. Many financial top Indians invest in local business, they need people to run them so they exploit their own people, the ones with no education, by paying them less than minimum wage to low skill jobs. The Petals and the hospitality industry in the 60's is great example how they can dominate in an industry quickly not just with smarts but with hard work. Indian people especially their children born here are very friendly however, dealing with an India born in Indian will try to grind you like crazy in business. BTW I've dated India women. They will put family and their community over country or any other community. I find nothing wrong with that.
If they could do it everybody can do it Education is the answer. People here are so complacent here. You have to go for it. No one will give it to you.
People can work their way into at least being a 5 or 6/10 just from becoming fit & having a nice body. Even if their face is ugly or height is short if theyre a man Face is basically unchangeable. Haircut can help like you addressed. Clothing is just to flaunt money & compliment your body. Its not anywhere near as important as you face & your body shape Men should aim to be 10-15% body fat & have an atheltic build. Women should aim to be 15-25% body fat & have an athletic build as well with big glute muscles People are shallow & always will be shallow bc we are apes & shallow people picked better genes to reproduce with & those genes survived to today. We are the sons & daughters of generations of shallow humans & we inherited their inclinations for physical beauty above nearly all else
I lived for 40 years in Washington DC and although it has become considerably more expensive than when I first arrived it is still probably the best alternative to New York City. One can actually live decently there. In NYC one is constantly making compromises that affect the quality of life.
I think beauty does lie in th eye of the beholder. Its just that the beholders are more similar than we would like to admit. (There is an objective element tho, the average of two faces was almost always preferred over the original faces in a study i learned about in school)
The answer is very simple. They lie about their resume credentials and join Indian consulting companies that land jobs for them and provide them job specific training to match the resume they fabricated. Don’t believe me? Ask your fellow Indian and tell me I’m lying. Or, you can google all the Indian run consulting companies that were raided and shut down by the government for fraud.
"1 last video before I go to bed" I finished the video 20 mins ago I have just been staring in the mirror, send help the siccors on my desk looking tempting af rn
Girls who find having intellectual role models unattractive just make screening them out a lot easier. Also, I know it's Blaine's job to get you the most matches, but the fact that all her critiques and suggestions for optimizing a profile involve tamping down your actual interests and personality in favor of general likeability says a lot about why dating apps need to die.
