Here, let me tell you what it’s like. A refresher course. Take your wife aside and ask her to look into your eyes. And look into her eyes. It feels uncomfortable at first. Just look into each other’s eyes. Then, once you reconnect, ask permission to just kiss, with no expectation of sex. Just kiss each other and see what happens.
This was a great Movie. Their chemistry was so strong and real that they fell madly in love with each other and married. I have always appreciated both of them their acting. They were so young here. But I guess nothing last forever.