My husband married me and convert to Muslim after few times he froce me agree for 4 wives. I don't agree for it be said talak to me and still leving same house and try to convince me. Parallel he have affair with Indonesian girl through Instagram. When I caught him he said she is her sister he put his hand on kuran and said she is my sister. I tried to said him its haram if you want to marry with someone you have to tell his parents and marry her but he still talking her and other side I don't have parents so he married me in masjid without inform his parents and now he told me i i don't want you. If you agree for my other marriage then i will be with you. He speaks bad word and slap me very often. I don't know what should I do.
Asalaam alaikum, Do you have a Wali, and also, can you get in contact with the Imam that married you, as well as The local Imam, to seek counseling and assistance? Sister , it is very important that you get help from the Imam so that you are treated with justice and not abused ( through domestic violence). Please seek help from Allah (SWA) first with thikr and Dua ( supplication). Ask him to protect you and rectify your situation. ( make istikhara and ask Allah to guide you to make the best decision about your marriage). At the same time, seek help from your local Imam and also the Imam that married both of you if this is not the same . If you have a Wali, then contact him also. If you have brothers, siblings, or other family members that can help you move out and find a place to stay, if it comes to that, then do so.( if you come to the decision ( after, dua/ prayer , istikhara, talking to the Imam with your husband present of course, seeking counseling with a member from your family and a member from his family to at least see if you both can save your marriage and be just , kind and merciful to each other) that the marriage will not work out, then unfortunately, divorce might be the only option and you probably will need to separate to avoid any physical abuse and mental abuse. That is why I said to the suggestion of planning to move out if you finally decide that divorce is the best choice under the circumstances.
No offence to anyone but sister Naima Robert in this video addresses issues and their solutions like a kind mother teaches her children with soft words! 😊
I thank Allah, that I saw this video. I fight with my husband for no reason he always keep quiet or sometimes he argue but every time it’s my fault I agree may Allah forgive me I will ask my husband for forgiveness insha Allah I will not fight from next time
This is why I question certain brothers They’ve gotten married have many children yet can’t stand being around his wife of children, which he had 9mths after his bday anniversary valentines and Eid! Every excuse not to be with them gym male only sports events, boys night out finds extra any work every school vacations ships them off to the in laws I mention time is short this addiction of selfishness social life needs to be corrected
Very sad story may allah bless the families and grant jannah to those passed away ameen. May allah grant kind spouses and thank you to the sister naima may allah grant her success ameen
Alhumdulillah my partner is a blessing for me ❤ I don't what good deed end me up with him. Always treating me a like queen and our love will keep growing stronger INSHA ALLAH. He is the reason I adjust in every circumstances and situations with him. If I ever have a daughter I would want a husband for her like her father and If I ever had a son I would love him to be exactly like his father ❤ MASHA ALLAH infinity ♾️
They are but marriage is something else. Even Allah called it "مِّيثَاقًا غَلِيظًا", the connection, the responsibility, the love just everything about it is on a different level.
Assalamoalaikoun suster i appreciate you bt everyone situation is nt the same.What abt if you have a husband who us alcohilic,who beats you everyday,who diesnt care abt you,nt onky this bt accept that others give you pain and make you feek low.?
Walaikumasalam sister, this situation is very unfortunate and I am very saddened to hear that you are going through this. Dear sister, make dua to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'Ala to aid you with this and if he is harming you- this is something serious and a relationship I would not recommend you be in as he is beating you, making you feel low, and drinking. Please speak with sisters at your local masjid as well as reach out to the imam regarding your situation as what your husband is doing is haram and your safety is 10000% more important than anything else. I am not aware of your situation or the cultural circumstances, but I will make dua for you and I hope that Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'Ala makes it easy for you and guides you to a solution and the straight path, Ameen. <3 Stay strong dear sister. <3 I love you lots. <3
Ameen get help sister if you are being abused your family should know if they cam help then take it and the local masjid will help don't be ashamed or feel guilty about getting help.
I guess the point is really not taking blessings from Allah for granted. May Allah help you to solve your issue, every human being deserve respect, kindness and love.
He must be a very god fearing and gentle soul and a very good husband that's why this sister is so attached to him . May Allah have mercy upon her husband
