I’m Aishah, a certified integrative somatic practitioner and a thriver of Complex PTSD. I graduated from Mishkah University in Islamic Studies with a BA and also in Social Work, and I wear many hats - from coach and author to non-profit founder.
I believe we are all born pure and my life mission is to help women heal their beautiful seeds- their inner most truest self- so they can build flourishing legacies.
Thank you for being here with me,
With Love and peace,
p.s My most beloved legacy are my two sweet girls and being the wife to a man who loves good boots.
If you are saying he is a muslim serial killer, it will mislead people to think he commited the killing while being a muslim. that is really misleading.
This headline is misleading. I know what story you are going to tell without even watching. You are going to talk about a person of Bani Israil (an Israelite). He first went to a monk. He did not like the reply from monk and killed him. Then he asked a scholar who asked him to go to a particular direction. He died on the way. But as he was seeking truth, he was Forgiven by Allah
Asalam allakom, title is incorrect according to the hadith dear sister the man was a serial killer BEFORE he reverted to Islam. Once he was A MUSLIM he was NOT a killer and passed away shortly after. JazikAllah kharan may Allah bless and reward all muslims. asalam alakom
He was always a believer from I read, hence he went to a monk for to ask for repentance, not conversion. You can argue it's the same thing, but the point of this video wasn't to mislead, it was to bring awareness to another point, lessons are in the video to do with the advice that this man was given from a scholar and a monk.
Yes I agree. Some gossip to vent, others ,cause their jealousy or not knowing how to communicate. For me I hate injustice, when I see narcissistic people I really want to expose them, but I realized it not my job, narcissist will expose themselves. Also it’s hard to maintain ties , when relatives slander you, they only talk to you to get information and gossip more about you. One hard lesson I learned no matter who it is, even if it’s your mother, if they talk about others they will talk about you as well.
This was truly brilliant!!! Really enjoyed it and picked up so many lessons. Loved the whole take on forgiveness and being discerning. This perspective really gave me some relief 😂
The fact that islam teaches peace but Muslims in general only cares about religion. For example they support and protect t*rrorist/rapist and other kind of criminal in the name of religion.
I really appreciate this, I’ve seen some Muslim trauma helpers push not to cut ties, but I literally shut down when I try to talk to my mom, my body has strong reaction to her, it’s hard to speak to someone who has abandoned, slandered and gossiped about you… even threatened me. Every one was like but she is your mother… but when I asked for her help, when she saw I was an abusive relationship, she literally told me , she can’t help me , im on my own with kids. Hopefully one day I will be ready .
I and so many can relate to this. I came across a video from a muslim speaker and remember almost switching it off because I felt there was a lack of insight into how I was feeling and how my own body was reacting to a situation. One of the most important things before deciding to do anything is feeling safe. Safe in our bodies, in our homes. Sometimes that means for our health and sometimes to the extent of our very lives (reference to Gabor Mates Book: When The Body Says No), we have to move away from the triggering situation or person and focus on ourself. This with the intention of bismillah and insha Allah reconciliation with boundaries- for people like our immediate family such as our parents,. I can see this is an important relationship for you , may Allah make it clear and easy for you ameen. The most important thing to remember is that every persons situation is different and to give yourself space doesn't mean being mean, but being kind with limits. I'm not sure if your on my newsletter but I share some more insights on there and regular updates on new videos and my free course. Here is the link to join if you feel it might help: FREE Chapter of my book The Woke Writer book on how to let go: sendfox.com/aishahalam
I'm glad you talked about this phase and this angle of Narcissists, I'm in the state of constant confusion but your words gave me clarity. Jazak'Allah.
Assalamu aleikum sister, I came across your channel yesterday al hamdulillah and immediately subscribed. You're way of speaking is understandable, sympathetic and it feels like you speak freely. I just wanted to say that to you. And lastly, jazakallahu khayran for your work.
So true, the stuck feeling is so exhausting but , you do move through. Sometime knowing they aren't good is enough but we want to make sure, make sure you aren't wrong, make sure they are what they act like. Appreciate the comment sis xx
You are totally right! They fit narcissism category but there’s moments of kindness… it’s like they’re smiles trick you that they’re a good person. Like they’re a good person till they are triggered
Any subtle mental illness is difficult to understand esp when you desperately want them to be normal, desperately want a normal relationship, just normal. To save the relationship. Bc we often love them and can never detatch totally. Go round in circles looking for a solution bc they can't. Even knowing everything are still often in denial. Like any other illness. My best friend, sweetest ever, has the horriblest daughter ever. 😢 Ruined her life.
your right, its hard to see clearly when we have emotional blinders on for the person who we hoped they could be- most of them time who they seemed to be when we first met them. I'm sorry to hear about your best friends daughter, I hope everything works out for her.
