I help women struggling in their relationship and dating women be in their Happily Ever After! Divorced [by choice] and remarried [but almost failed], navigating "blended family'" life with my SOULMATE. My first coaching gig was at the age of 16 in Gymnastics. I came back to coaching 5 years ago and now specialize in Relationship Strategy and Love After Divorce. I hold a certificate in relationship coaching from IAP Career College and am a member of the IAPO International Association of Professional Relationship Coaches. When I'm not obsessing over love, I focus on creating a non-toxic lifestyle for my family and owning my title as plant-based mom :) If you haven't already, please subscribe to my channel! M. xo
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And if your husband has decided there's nothing he needs to change? He's just fine, doesn't need therapy, and the only problem in our relationship is that I'm unhappy? What then?
@@ipaycloseattention That’s tough ❤️ I always recommend women remove the focus from what their man is willing or unwilling to do and just focus on their own relationship skills. When you change, other people change.
Sadly I never once snooped on my exs phone or RU-vid channel but as I started suspecting his bad habits I found he was watching videos on how to impress and except a crushes rejection but also how to not get caught cheating, and I caught a glimpse of his phone one day and saw the name of the woman he cheated on me with still talking to her and when o confronted him he just responded like “Are you sure it was her?” Like I don’t know her name
@@b.radleypro.369I appreciate you sharing and I’m so sorry you went through this… As you experienced, cheaters usually get caught even without you having to overtly snoop. Sending love your way ❤️
@@mireillenicolecoaching I understand, but I have never heard of or seen people who say they focus on male victims of narcissistic abuse. And the downside to that is: if you ''exclusively'' focus on women as being the victims, which I assume are women who've been or still are victims of narcissistic abuse by their male partners, then that makes it seem as though the position of victim is by definition allocated to a women and the position of abuser/narcissist therefore defacto a male. The dichotomy of victim and abuser should never be pre-established on the basis of sex or gender. There exist Male and Female abusers/narcissists. And there are also Female as well as Male victims of narcissistic abuse.
@@ajcics That’s tough, I appreciate you sharing this ❤️ Detaching will definitely help and it may also be worth exploring if she has any unmet needs in the relationship to see if that “fixes” the narcissism.
In my personal experience, a lot of strong women are extremely self focused, to the point that they sacrifice the together/partnership part of the relationship. I can’t really say how many dates I had where the woman didn’t even bother to put down her phone and have a long conversation. It’s not really intimidation, it’s more of just not being fruitful or enjoyable, and this coming from someone who is currently married to a strong woman making six figures a year
@@nodishtoodeep3053 I appreciate this perspective, thanks for sharing! Sounds like you found one that was fruitful and enjoyable to be with and commit to!! ❤️🔥
@@mireillenicolecoaching Yeah, it was kind of out of the blue, I had to go overseas to find her. We met at a conference at a Japanese university for business
@@mireillenicolecoaching no. In the first 10sec, you said your husband gaslit you and that you are a relationship coach. Do you have the credentials to be a relationship coach or are you 'self-taught'?
That’s a lie here I am searching how to get over a divorce and i come across videos like yours not all man are the same here I am hurt trying to stay sane but this video is a lie 👎
I agree.thank you so much. What he wouldnt do would hurt me so much.and what he did in the past would affect our present and my peace and moods. Ur video was so so helpful and this is a journey am working on my self.❤❤❤❤
@@ashleykhanyisa6632 Hey Ashley, I’m so glad this was helpful! Thanks for watching and commenting ❤️ Excited for your journey and what’s to come for you!!!
@@rachellebayard8548 Hi Rachelle, very true! ❤️ I say when the kids are affected it’s even more important to work on the skills and approaches I share on my channel here and in my programs.
@@suef1379 Hi Sue, it doesn’t have to take years when listening and empathy are done correctly ❤️ That’s where women get stuck… but, when fixed, the shifts can happen quickly!!
hello there I found some issues while researching your RU-vid channel and videos, due to which you are not getting the desired video views and subscribers. I can show you the issues if you want.
I'm a guy and had two co workers complain to me for 10 hours a day. I had to quit my job, the lead just laughed. Plus he'd be upset with me for telling him about it
But they're gonna lie more about it if you go soft, so stay calm. I say one should reflect what they really feel. The worst part is, you trust them when they pretend to genuinely applogize and but through time you will see a very unsatisfactory change on their pattern or they become very good at hiding.
Soft does not mean weak, in this case. Done right, it is VERY powerful 🔥 The "softness" simply means you don’t go in with daggers that will get his defenses up! Thanks so much for watching and commenting!!
♥ Download my free "Emotional Detachment" cheat sheet to learn how to stop feeling overwhelmed by your partner's moods or action: bit.ly/emotionallydetach
♥ Download my free "Emotional Detachment" cheat sheet to learn how to stop feeling overwhelmed by your partner's moods or action: bit.ly/emotionallydetach
Hey Marie-Josee! The exact biological process is too complex for me to explain but the simple act of living and breathing creates free radicals 🤯 Even though we need air to live, a small percentage of oxygen turns into free radicals in the body. This is totally normal and natural! The problem is when we overburden our systems with free radicals above and beyond what it was designed to handle ❤️
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I appreciate that so much!!! Looks like you have some great content on your channel ❤️🔥 Subscribed and looking forward to checking out your videos!!! So glad we connected on here 😃
1. Overthinking 2. Unprepared, lazy, expecting the man to do all the work 3. Lack of communication skills 4. Pursuing the wrong men, friend zoning the right ones 5. Chasing butterflies instead of logic There, translated from womanese. These aren't mistakes, these are features of the way women operate around men.
Interesting, this is a big part of the belief I strive to dismantle with my channel 😉 What makes you say these are about the person’s character vs behaviour?
