Alex Beattie, Divorce Prep Coach & Founder of The Divorce Planner
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If you're a feminist go get a job and work. You don't want equality. You want dominion over a man . That's not equality. Only in the western hemisphere can someone, usually, a woman break a contract via divorce and be rewarded for breaking that contract. You're part of the problem without a scintilla of awareness or accountability that you're the problem.
Thank you for pointing out another area women get shamed, what they wear! I appreciate you engaging with my content so the algorithm pushes it out to more people. ✌️
Your comment is a great example of the shaming and ridicule women face when speaking out. I appreciate you engaging with my content so the algorithm pushes it out to more people. ✌️
@@TheDivorcePlanner You look like you took a course on body language from Andrew Tate. I don't care if you're man, woman, pizza or tree. Your seating position directly compromises sny message you're trying zo convey. Cut the victim narrative. It's old.
Checking in with your partner and making sure their needs are being met, your needs are being met, and you're still aligned on what your goals are is so important.
@@bsquare6809 The difference in this situation is that when you enter into a marriage, you are entering into a binding agreement, and the terms for marriage and divorce in that state. Educating yourself before signing a contract is always your best bet.
Yeah! So make sure you plan to take him for everything he’s got since you’re worth it! God forbid you go out and get a job to make your own money! You keep on being that strong independent woman who don’t need no man ladies!! 🙄🙄🙄
Both parties should be preparing financially and emotionally before moving forward. With the average cost of a divorce litigation in the United States topping out at 20k, no one should be going into the process without being prepared. Meeting people going through a challenging time in life with empathy and understanding is where it's at.
@@TheDivorcePlanner can you sit there and honestly defend women when the majority try to rake men through the coals? It’s disgusting what women do in family court.
@@dooolaay Your comments don't correlate back to this content. Please share the reputable sources for your position. Including statistics would be helpful. Thank you.
@@Essays4College Making a commitment and signing a legal contract of marriage should be entered into by two people aware of what each other's goals and roles are, and having frank conversations about finances, and understanding what each person's expectations are before marriage is always important. Happy to answer any questions about divorce preparation, financial planning, or unexpected expenses that come up during divorce.
Well, the proof is in the pudding. Statistics show that everyone suffers in divorce. The children are at higher risk of abuse, and much more. This is such nonsense.
No fault divorce is narcissistic and has destroyed our children and moral fiber. Sure those were victims of it can make the best of it, but it is never better. It is not God’s way.
@@ChonkLantern the thing is if people were selfless and love is willing the good of the other as other without what’s in it for me the world will be very different place so the reason things are miserable a lot of times because people are living by TV culture and selfishness and so they ask why marriages had to start falling apart beginning in the 60s and if it’s better for site or not, and we have a bunch of children who are emotional basket cases so yeah I think working it out and being careful who you marry is very important. 50% of our marriage is simply should not end that is an anthropological and sociological and psychological problem.
@@TheDivorcePlanner there are books written about it. There are double blind studies. I don’t have time to go and put the body of knowledge where it’s well known that no-fault divorce has been unmitigated disaster for our society. You prove hasn’t been because by the looks of things are so society is de-stabilized. And Second or Second and children don’t need stepmom in their pretending to be mom because dad needed somebody else or vice versa. Children need their biological family.
@@ValsVersion people who get to the point where divorce is what's next have endured along and difficult road and tried many things. What was your experience is not everyone else's. Leading with empathy and kindness is where it's at. ✌️
Hi! Here's the link to download "24 Questions To Ask A Divorce Attorney or Mediator." The guide is recommended by divorce attorneys and mediators, and is designed to help you make the most of your consultations. Preparing BEFORE those meetings puts you in the best position.  Remember, no one knows your life and your needs better than YOU. With the right preparation, you can tame your financial fears and navigate through your divorce empowered to make smart decisions and get the best outcome. It's my mission to help you to move forward with financial clarity and confidence. Please utilize the wealth of divorce preparation and financial planning resources available on my website. With each resource you explore, you're investing in creating your best next chapter. :) Alex Beattie Divorce Prep Coach forms.wix.com/f/7038637658326696559 (You can also find the link in my bio!)
This is indeed very heartwarming and very wonderful and very beautiful and very helpful and this brings back such great memories of when I use to be a 90s kid and an early 2000s kid and I am a new subscriber as well:).
@@dailydedication2663 Hi! Here's the link to download "24 Questions To Ask A Divorce Attorney or Mediator." The guide is recommended by divorce attorneys and mediators, and is designed to help you make the most of your consultations. Preparing BEFORE those meetings puts you in the best position.  Remember, no one knows your life and your needs better than YOU. With the right preparation, you can tame your financial fears and navigate through your divorce empowered to make smart decisions and get the best outcome. It's my mission to help you to move forward with financial clarity and confidence. Please utilize the wealth of divorce preparation and financial planning resources available on my website. With each resource you explore, you're investing in creating your best next chapter. :) Alex Beattie Divorce Prep Coach forms.wix.com/f/7038637658326696559 (You can also find the link in my bio!)
@@dailydedication2663 Hi! Here's the link to download "24 Questions To Ask A Divorce Attorney or Mediator." The guide is recommended by divorce attorneys and mediators, and is designed to help you make the most of your consultations. Preparing BEFORE those meetings puts you in the best position.  Remember, no one knows your life and your needs better than YOU. With the right preparation, you can tame your financial fears and navigate through your divorce empowered to make smart decisions and get the best outcome. It's my mission to help you to move forward with financial clarity and confidence. Please utilize the wealth of divorce preparation and financial planning resources available on my website. With each resource you explore, you're investing in creating your best next chapter. :) Alex Beattie Divorce Prep Coach forms.wix.com/f/7038637658326696559 (You can also find the link in my bio!)
No one loves Divorce. Everyone is thrown challenges in life. People lose jobs, get sick and sometimes relationships end. Navigating big life changes with respect, dignity, and education is where it's at. ✌️
I'm so sorry to hear that! Having hard conversations about roles and expectations before marriage goes a long way to assessing if you are in alignment.
Obviously, there are exceptions (like people being in danger), but I would like to see the actual general data on this... I think this is the crap divorcees tell themselves to sleep at night. Maybe that sounds harsh, but hear me out. Sure, an incompatible marriage can be stressful on a child. On the other hand, one divorce also exponentially increases your odds of future divorces. My parents divorced, but my parents just continued to have strings of other failed relationships and marriages just to both end up single and alone over and over to this day. I went from suffering one traumatic divorce just to experience SIX more between them. The animosity between their actions remains, their unresolved flaws remain, and the children still struggle and have been stressed through it all. The same story goes for my spouse & their divorced parents. Would we have been better to have one home and 2 arguing parents or endless broken homes and decades of broken hearts? I think people go through bad phases and jump ship far too quickly. Sometimes, the problem isn't just your spouse, maybe there is more personal work to do, or more time to put in because some phases of life are just so hard and once you get through it, you can reconnect again. Everyone is always worried about their own individual happiness, but in a true marriage, you are a team. In life you aren't always happy, there are ebbs & flows. A divorce however, is a conscious choice to permanently destroy the foundation that your children stand on, purely for chasing your own fleeting "happiness," and that child "half you and half them" becomes ripped in half, accordingly. Their faith in love and others will, from that point on, be also "conflicted and negative." You transfer your pain to them to carry.
@Bananas904 What "flies" would someone be trying to catch on a Divorce channel? This is my honest perspective from a divorced child. Sorry if you wanted a high five.
The beauty of life is you get to make decisions that align with your intentions and values, and others get to choose what works for them for themselves. People who get to the point where a divorce is what next have usually endured along in difficult road and tried many things. ✌️
I used to agree. 19 yrs he was abusive in every way you can imagine. Not only did i try to shield the kids from it and him, but after i finally got free, i refused to say anything bad about their father. Now my daughter thinks im the botch who hurt her dad, has bought into his paranoia of accusations of my infidelity (never happened) and he's convinced her HEs the victim. Be honest with your kids. Always tell them the unvarnished truth; don't sugar coat it. If i hadn't i might still have my daughter instead of watching from a distance as a paranoid narcissist with BPD convinces her hes a fucking saint and waiting for the hammer to drop which will ruin her life. Fuck this new age "kindness" and forgiveness bs. Destroy your abuser, with prejudice, before they destroy your children's lives.. No Mercy
The real question is, if you were unhappy or had a hint of unhappiness or had any doubt then why did you have the child in the first place. I can tell you from personal experience that is the worst question to hear your child ask your spouse who is asking for a divorce.
I asked my husband 2 year into marriage if he was absolutely sure he was still happy and absolutely sure he wanted a child. He had always said his dream was to be a father. He assured he he was certain he wanted a baby and would be there for us. I was pregnant soon after. When I was 6 month pregnant he started having an affair. I didn't find out about the affair until a few weeks after our son was born.
Most people do not go into a marriage, thinking it's going to end. Sometimes people grow apart, and that's OK. Everyone gets thrown challenges in life. ✌️
Two happy people, and by extension happy kids, is the goal. Sometimes relationships end, and that's OK. Navigating those changes respectfully is always the best path.
Everyone gets thrown challenges in life. People get sick, loose jobs, and sometimes relationships end. Learning how to navigate big life challenges thoughtfully and respectfully sets an example for your children,
@@TheDivorcePlanner nope. Selfish narcissist bahavior that effects the kids. Society proves me right. Put your spin on it to justify your poor decisions or just don't have kids.
You are completely wrong sir, kids need to know what it's like to stick together through good and bad and how to work through problems instead of giving up
No. I have had 2 different sets of coworkers who were siblings so from 2 different households. They said their parents were violent and always drinking and physically fighting and the dads would also get drunk and hurt the kids too as well as mom. They all wished their parents would have divorced. Also if I stuck with my own ex husband then I'd have been the one married to him when he caught an incurable std because he is a cheater. He gave his 2nd wife and std when she was pregnant
People endure along and difficult road and try lots of things before arriving at the decision that divorce is the right next step. Sometimes relationships end, and that's OK. Doing so in a respectful manner is always the goal.
People who get to the point where divorce is what's next have endure and difficult road and tried many things. Life is about navigating ups and downs. Sometimesrelationships end, and that's OK. Teaching children how to do so with dignity, integrity and respect is always your best bet.
People who get to the point where divorce is what's next have usually endured a long and difficult road and tried many things. Empathy and kindness for those navigating tough times in life is where it's at. ✌️
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Equity should always be the name of the game. As for negatively portraying one gender as spiteful, it's an old trope. More often than not both parties just want to move forward to create and live their happiest next chapter. ✌️
Man are usually many years ahead and are hiding assets as much as they can. Courts should be more on the women side and heavily punish man or the other side for hiding assets. Not only giving them 50% if you prove hidden assets. Hidden assets when proven should be 80-100% awarded to the other party.
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This is a false and antiquated narrative. Divorce isn't about one gender versus the other, it's about an equitable split so both people can go on to live happy lives. Anyone who gets to a point where divorce is what's next has endured along and difficult road. This is a safe and shame free space. ✌️
So many things out on the Internet to help with the divorce there’s too many broken men and women out here divorce is not theanswer. Fight for your wife fight for your children fight for your husband there’s exceptions where no one should be a physically abusive relationship and things of that nature but if you see hope go to counseling. Try to stay away from talking to relatives since they will likely have a biased opinion. Communication is key. If you are fighting for your marriage and suddenly you find out your husband has a separate account just in case it doesn’t work out with you. It will definitely add to the problems. It’s not easy, but nobody will understand but you and him if you guys can be honest with each other that is the start of something new relationships are always changing you, learn to grow with each other. Nothing is perfect. The next marriage will not be perfect being alone will not be perfect. If you can respect each other and listen to each other 😍 there’s hope.
People who get to this point have endured long and difficult road and tried many different things. Everyone gets thrown challenges in life - people lose jobs, fall ill, and sometimes relationships ends. Helping people navigate tough times with understanding and empathy is where it's at. ✌️
People who get to this point have endured a long and difficult road and tried many things. Sometimes relationships end, and that's OK. Everyone gets thrown challenges in life. Helping people navigate difficult times with understanding and empathy is where it's at. ✌️
@@maddymcclarey4679 I hear you. Sometimes relationships end, and that's OK. Life is about change. Everyone gets thrown big challenges, and divorce is one of those things. Well, divorce is the end of one thing, it's the beginning of a new chapter. Sending you good vibes. ✌️
