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Yes there's been a shift and it's coming from the younger generation..I have been starting to see more WMBW couples in my city and I have a few coworkers who are young BW and they had white BF'S and my younger cousin recently married a WM so things are definitely going beyond just BMWW couples even though they are more prevalent
I think it's G God's will that white men amd black women are getting married now. I dated a Caucasian man but it was friendship and not romantic but we g genuinely cared for each other. I hope you guys and your wives stay together and be happy ❤.
Yes, and I wouldn't date inside my race because quite frankly I'm "ONLY" attracted to white males. This is something I've felt my whole life. Nothing can change that. So I'm happy just being me😁😊✨
In 1986 I was in the military and met and eventually married my first soulmate who just happened to be black and from Harlem, New York. We met and were married in the heart of Alabama in the 80s. We were together 36 years and she passed away from complications of systemic lupus. I was her caregiver for the last 15 years. Taking care of her was the hardest thing I've ever done, but she was worth every second. After a period of grieving I met and married my second soulmate who just happens to be from Nairobi Kenya. When we met, we discovered that we've lived within two blocks of each other for 15 years and have never seen each other. She was married for 26 years and spent the last 2 1/2 years taking care of her husband passed away from cancer. I never even realized I was attracted to black women until my late wife walked in the door friends, house, October 31, 1986. She was 6'1" and beautiful. Besides being tall and beautiful, she was extremely smart, which was the first thing that attracted me to her. After years as a cardiac intensive care, nurse, when her health declined, she went back to school and became an attorney. Now I'm married to a wonderful woman from Kenya who is teaching me about a completely different culture. That's why I tell people I'm living the dream.
Yes. In 1986 I was in the US Army stationed at Fort Rucker, Alabama (yes, the heart of Dixie) where I met and eventually married my first soulmate who just happened to be black and from Harlem, New York. We were together 36 years and she passed away from complications of systemic lupus. I was her caregiver for the last 15 years. Taking care of her was the hardest most emotional thing I've ever done, but she was worth every second. After a period of grieving I met and married my second soulmate who just happens to be from Nairobi Kenya. When we met, we discovered that we've lived within two blocks of each other for 15 years and have never seen each other. She was married for 26 years and spent the last 2 1/2 years taking care of her husband who passed away from cancer. I never even realized I was attracted to black women until my late wife walked in the door of my best friend's house (now my brother-in-law) on October 31, 1986. She was 6'1" and beautiful. We got a lot of funny looks when we were walking in the mall together in Dothan AL, hand-in-hand, partly because of our racial difference but also because I'm 5'10" and she was 6'1".
The problem is that there are people who don't like interracial relationships, and both of you have to understand this. Right? Absolutely not! The way it, unfortunately, is? Yes!!! So be courageous and go for it!!!
This was a great conversation. I appreciate the open mindedness and honesty of you both. It's beautiful to see people simply enjoying life with the ones they love. I apologize for the shallow people that can not see beyond their own perceptions of initial sight. It's inspiring to see people overcoming social norms to be their best selves.
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The fact of the matter is American black women are racist and they do not like to date white men or any other man who is not black the rise in interracial relationships that are with black women are actually women from Africa and other countries who are far more open-minded and receptive of different races than black American women so that is actually the facts
My current girlfriend lives in Clarkston in eastern Washington! Personally, I don't care wtf anyone thinks about us, her, as a black woman and, me, as a white man being together! I'm not dating them! I'm dating her! As for what my immediate circle thought about my first black girlfriend? It bothered the snot outta me! My mom and, brother were, to my surprise, rather bigoted to her! I remember grabbing her hands, pulling her tightly to me and, planting a long, slow, deep, passionate tongue-kiss that told them, pretty much, to kiss my @$$!! Then, we walked out! I didn't return for 4 days because of that!!
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I love, love, loved this interview! Thank you both for seeing us as just women. Not a statistic or stereotype. It’s pressure all around to just fit in! It can feel very lonely. I appreciate the advocacy. It’s hard being strong all the time. We need a soft place to land.
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This was such a fun conversation! Thank you so much for having me on the channel Mike. You do good things. Looking forward to a future collaboration. ❤
You both brought up something that I didn't fully realize until now!! The bar at the checkout counter being placed between her groceries and mine! Like holy crap, Batman!! It dawned on me, just as you two mentioned it!! We, my girlfriend, a DROP-DEAD GORGEOUS, most intensely beautiful black girl. Who was the twin sister of the guy on the opposing track team.my high school just beat, weeks before! In a huge part due to my intense desire to show "Stretch Armstrong" that I can whuup his @$$ on the track!! (When I crossed the finish line IN FIRST PLACE, I put 3 meters between us!! HA-HA!! LOL) Her name was Shanya Jackson. Well, I looked at her in total disbelief! So, I removed it. ONLY FOR THE WOMAN, A MIDDLE-AGED WHITE LADY, TO PUT IT BACK! So, I go: "Ahhh, miss. We're together, here! Okay? So, would you mind removing it, please." Now, mind you, I said it as tactfully as I can. Well, apparently, she was still caught back in the STUPID-@$$, "Jim Crow" South, over here!! Because she gave me such a condescending look that made my damn blood boil!! That's when I lost it!! Here's what I said. " Lookie-here, 'MADAM!' This is 1987, not 1867, okay? The damn Civil War has ended a century plus, ago! And, obviously, we're not in the South where the dumb-@$$ Jim Crow laws were highly prevalent, okay!?? Now, since you're a racist bit**! We're not ever going to spend a damn penny here, because of your bigoted bs! Plus, I will spread the word about this racist establishment, far and, wide! I'll go to the media, if necessary! But, I will make damn sure nobody spends anything in this rathole! Got it, moron!??" I grabbed her hand and STORMED OUT THE DOOR!! I was followed by several dozen people, including some employees!! I don't remember what happened to that store. But, it was the fact that some bimbo just had the gall to humiliate my girlfriend in front of dozens of people, me, included!!! Thank you for bringing that up. Yes. I blew my top. But, to me, you insult my girlfriend; you insult me! Irregardless of race, color, etc.! I will not put up with it, ever!
According to dating stats BW reply to WM the least out of everyone. You think that every racial group is attracted to WM which is false. The yt population is declini ng and you’re more worried about dating? Crazy.
@@markelraya10 on dating platforms wm rarely reach out to good looking black women. That is a fact. Even Amanda knows this because she herself found a way to switch up the algorithms to meet her current financee Michael. Still on dating apps wm reach out more to wf than bw because they feel they will be rejected. That is not always the case. You can never succeed @ any thing if @ first you don't try. There are tons of bw out in this world willing to meet, date & have a genuine relationship with a wm. But I think men need to make the first move 75% of the time because they never know if something great is about to happen in there lives...
I personally would love for hollywood to remake the show "THAT GIRL" & this time star a beautiful slim black woman and a gorgeous looking "brad pitt" type of white guy and set the story in San Francisco this time or L.A. he works for leading newspaper there and she's a interior decorator(that's why San Francisco would be a perfect setting)or even use Seattle. Throw in some best friends and neighbors to banter with & that show would quickly pick up viewers & top nielsen ratings I really would love to see that, it could be called: "This Girl"????????
These White men are NOT RARE but honestly a SINGLE ONE is hard to find when you have higher standards for a mate. I want someone that is an equal, similar interest and I hope you notice most of these couples meet in school and I wascway to busy struggling to pay and attending college so my openess to a long term relationship came later. It is not as easy to connect later in life because fewer are single. It truly seems that that Men with this open minded attitude, intelligence and humor only really exist in the younger than 45 group. IMy life experiences are broader than a small circle, education focused, influenced by various cultures and more European vs rigid American.
Please don't delete these "bad" comments. Address them head on. While you may not change that mind you might change others who read your reply. In addition, we all need to see you defend yourself against ignorance.
I love this podcast...or better yet...I love you guys. But...I grew up in the islands with a loving dad and never knew people were different or even black and white. Moving to the states.... especially the South....first time I heard the word racism.... My paler tone friend tried to explain it to me and I laughed because I thought she was joking. Well...I ended up with fibromyalgia later on....Wow......😮 .some.human behavior is really Ignorant compared to what I was taught. But when I learned about Emit Till and history I know to be safe ...it is best to be a Ninja Warrior....😊....dating anyone can be scary ...
I appreciate this interview. I am a Black woman who was married to a White man. We got married in 2000 and we have two adult sons together. Our marriage did not last, but we transitioned into becoming really good friends, who share children together. But when we were married, there were a fair amount of race related issues that we faced and it was still not normalized to talk about openly... particularly with regards to Black women/White man relationships. Our interracial dynamic is vastly different from Black man/White woman relationships. Most people were just so happy to see us together, they just assumed that us being together solved all the racial issues in our country and we just became a token of progression. But no one knew the unique struggles we had and we didn't know how to articulate them and admit them to ourselves, let alone each other or others (like our elders) to get support. We eventually learned how to speak up and share what our struggles were, but that was after our marriage ended. We became good friends together though, and we talk openly with our sons about our relationship, so they can feel free to share their personal experiences as bi-racial men. We ended up creating quite an eclectic and loving non-conventional family together. But I am so happy there are more Black female/White Male couples talking openly about their relationship now so they can offer support to others 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
Great conversation that is needed, this should have way more views. Great questions from the host and insightful answers from Dr. Weiss. I recognize myself as one of the guys that is afraid of women, I have been aware of being afraid of women since I was 12.
These are two really cool people. No reference to gender or ethnicity. They are just really good people. They are proof that being "woke" is a choice of high quality people. Very good, guys. This is fabulous. Thanks for sharing this talk. 💗
