Hi! I'm Deniss Pleiner: Mental Health Educator & Speaker, Licensed Therapist, and Group Practice Owner.
Since 2016, I have supported BIPOC Professionals heal generational trauma, manage work and life stress, and navigate difficult family relationships.
I use my experience and education as a therapist to create information and educational videos for you. My aim is to destigmatize and demystify mental health and mental health treatment to empower you to make decisions that feel best for your own mental health.
**Content on this channel is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical/clinical advice, diagnosis, and/or treatment. Information shared is for educational purposes only. It is not therapy. Never disregard professional medical/ clinical advice or delay seeking it because of something you have read or seen on this channel. If you think you may need emergency medical assistance please call your doctor, go to the emergency room, and/or call 911 immediately.**
Haha, oldest child? The oldest child has to do jack shit in my family. They both simply fucked with me, the middle child and completely let the youngest off the hook
Hoarding is not always bad actually. Especially when you live in a country under war conditions. I had a situation when after a missile strike all the ATMs were off and you could only use cash at the stores. So you could not buy food if you had no cash.
I hate my dad for being absent though out my teenage years but showed up once i a blue moon i have that gap in my heart though out my life i talk to him about 6 times long gap in between now i can express my thoughts so im triying my best to fix the pain which is still impossible im 19 btw he is selfish i hate him but i care about him 😢
I am a little anxious about going into therapy today to break up with my therapist. I have been feeling alright for a long time, but embarrassed to tell her that I don’t want to keep talking and talking about the same things. Plus, I feel less anxious and I feel I have make a lot of progress and brought attention to myself for the first time in my life. And, it has been thanks to her. But, right now, I finta have much to talk about anymore 😕
You look like kikoil. I want kikoil to be healed . I dont know where kikoil is. We lost in touch. I wish your video and healing works reach her energetically and guide her. Arigato Gosaimsau :)
Girl thank you for this❤ I will definitely be trying these tips. I struggle with anxiety and procrastination so I am excited to combat it with these helpful tips.
You are correct. It is lonely, difficult, and scary, and it really helps having practical activities we can use along the way. I hope I can get the little guy to let go of his hurt. Thank you!❤
Thank you, I've just found you. I'm an adult student back in college. Always had issues with anxiety and procrastination but never admitted it. Really appreciate your helpful hints!!! 😊
(FACTS OVA FEELINGS). One of the Biggest Mistakes tha Experts On Ancestral Trauma Makes is tha They Think Cleaning Ancestral Trauma is just about Letting Go of and Resolving it is Equality about Consciously Discovering Owning and Integrating the Positives Within Ur Famileye Lines
I don't mind doing the work but I am not sure what the work is supposed to be. 4 months in and have no idea of how to help myself. Been to therapy different times throughout the years and it is pretty much just a venting session.
This is so good. I'm 50 recently divorced and doing a lot of inner work just evaluating life and feelings. I love to journal. I like to write letters as needed in my journal. I never thought about play it seems like I grew up fast after my brother was born. I was Mama's big helper. I crochet, but I want to play with paints. I don't remember to much painting growing up. Probably because it was messy. I'm going to play with paints:)
My father left my mother when she was pregnant with my youngest sister. He got with another woman who could get him drugs. He's an alcoholic. He was barely there later on in life as we were growing up. My sisters have moved on and don't care about him now ( there in their 30s) but me being almost 40 it still haunts me. And makes me upset.
I used to write poetry with rhynes that helped me get it off my chest. I started to feel relief and progress but tyen after i had to brrak up with my girlfriend who i did love, i fell down very hard but i haven't given up on the possibility of healing. I still struggle and new flashbacks made me feel conflicted with where i exist in the family dynamic. I got overwhelmed but i still aspire to progress in my healing. Luckily i can talk to my mom. She is being accountable and asking questions. I am happy that i can get there with my mom. I love her. I don't know if i can date again but i am willing to step out in faith. God does give good suggestions fir healing. I am an art lover since i was a kid, drawing helped me deal with neglect from my parents. I highly advise to do painting or drawing. Don't worry about being a master, enjoy being you and gave fun. God bless this channel and i hope others heal like i am in the process of doing :)
I was anxiously attached to someone i left them i never gave them space and lack boundaries they used to get of i finally left my bestie and abused become soo toxic to her and even when i hirted her i selfharmed myself many times and same with my male friendship he want relationships and i want friendship later with oarents permission i want to give him relationships 🙂 i left him whne i amde mistake he gave me wnd cahnce and i harmed myself there too becoz i made mistakes i keep on doing this i used to say i will go i was needy clingy and terrible to him think i dont deserve him even i cahnged myself alote for him😀 i syarted hating myself i said him i becoming toxic to you please tell me this that as a self centred person now he left me i am feeling like i always played with him ..❤ i love him but its okay i need to change myself
Blame parents for everything trend. Keeps one from growing up. That’s the benefit. Will where you be in 1,5, 10 yrs w this mindset??Same place. Big money nowadays. You’re being played by another social trend to divide people. Learn communication and conflict resolution skills so you are strong and empowered instead.
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As a shamanic trauma healer, I meet a lot of clients who have done tons of inner child work but will still find themselves being triggered, not feeling enough & experiencing a range of blocks obviously all due to childhood trauma. When I journey into a clients energy field there are fragments of the inner child that are trapped into shadow dimensions & underworld dimensions that can’t be accessed through mental & emotional exercises. All of the mental & emotional exercises are absolutely necessary but there will be fragments that remain untouched leaving us feeling incomplete 🙏🏽😇
This is the absolute first time I've watched a video that speaks to my exact experience. I've found it confusing and difficult to find answers because I'm a Caucasian who grew up in Mexico and moved back to Canada as an adult. I've gone down psychology rabbit holes looking for answers to the struggles I've had in the workplace and in my relationships. Of course I found many, many answers. But this. This video spoke to every single beat I've experienced over the course of my adult life and career. Thank you for creating this channel. I'm so glad I found it.
At 4 or 5 years old in the Philippines, my mother left to move to the united states to situate before we moved all together. Also costwise she had to come to the us to get a job in order to save money for the cost for all of us to move. This i do not blame my mom but it took a big toll on me growing up and as an adult. From what i know, that age is crucial to dvlevelopment. So as a adult, 50 now. I still struggle and i know its from that time of my life. Anytime i encounter a high stress situation, i feel my inner child comes out and i feel so overwhelmed, and cant cope. I want to repair this.
Ella conoció a su padre biológico. Su madre consiguió una pareja cuando ella tenía 2 años y le cambiaron el apellido para que llevara el del nuevo relacionamiento de la madre. Ella tuvo momentos de conflicto constante con su madre hasta que ella cumplió 41 años. Y justamente cuando ella estaba bien cerquita a cumplir 42 años, ella logró hacer trabajo consciente y colocarse en el lugar de hija. Ella entendió que debía honrar a su madre y a su padre (biológico) y a la figura paterna que su mamá le proporcionó. Ella logró perdonar completamente a ellos tres, cambiar su vida, vivir una vida plena familiar a partir de ese momento, porque ella empezó a visualizar a esas tres personas: su madre, su padre biológico y el ex esposo de su madre que le dio el apellido como superiores a ella. Ella los empezó a ver superiores. Ella les agradeció en su corazón por la vida y por el amor que ellos le dieron. Ella dejó de opinar sobre la vida de ellos o tener algún tipo de juicio. Ella dejó de hablar con su madre sobre el ex esposo de su madre, porque la madre tenía la costumbre de confidenciarles cosas negativas de ese relacionamiento. Ella empezó a ver lo positivo de su relación con el ex compañero de su madre, al cual ella llamaba de papá. Ella dejó de hablar con la gente sobre el abandono de su padre biológico y sobre cualquier tipo de situación familiar, ya que eso le podía causar mal estar. Ella empezó a honrar esas figuras de su vida. Ella les dio el lugar a esas figuras, sin voltearse para ellas. Esas figuras estaban detrás de ella. Esas personas la impulsaban a fluir para delante, a fluir hacia el éxito a ir libre por la vida. Esas figuras estaban detrás de ella, eran mayores que ella. Ella las reconocía. Ella las perdonó. Ella los incluía en su vida. La vida de ella cambió para siempre. Ella logró reconocer a su hijo. Ella logró completar su retrato familiar. Ella logró ser madre.
