I thank God that he's given you two wisdom to work out these ideas together to please each other according to Gods will, that's great, we know all things work out to the good, he knows your hearts! Of course you know that! May God answer your questions and concerns "clearly" with confirmation in Jesus name amen!
Congrats on the move! Besides the weather Illinois has a lot of issues. Tennessee is booming and I wish you luck there. We’re trying to move as well! Either Houston Texas or Tampa Florida.