The baby mother 'controversy' is fake outrage in my opinion. If youre of carribean heritage, why are you offended by the term? ''Ah who dat??'', ''Ah Jason baby madda''. What is the issue? Its not Jasons girlfriend. Its not Jasons wife. Ah Jason BABY MADDA! lol. Our community is too often focused on things that dont need focusing on. If you dont wanna be a baby mother/father, get married! Problem solved.
When me and my children's Dad we're together I would buy the gifts for birthdays and Christmas and put from Mum and Dad, when we separated I was able to get child maintenance from him. What I would do Is save the money so that when their birthday came around I could give them some and say it's from Dad and when Christmas came I would give them the rest saying that's from Dad.
@@mimi-mx9ni WOW!! Seriously salute you 🫡 That’s very unselfish, caring and putting the children first without shaming Dad We appreciate you 🙏🏾🙏🏾 (And these stories MUST & WILL be told / expressed too)
I wasn't even going to comment but this is not it..... who cares about a man and woman's role. Fact is, she told him that the child is his and he loved the child. he found out that the child is not his AND to top it off she said she don't even know who the father is. Are you taking to biscuit???? And then want to cry a river and people forget the man even exists. Nah... this ain't it, will never be it because people want to shame men when they are not around but when they are and things like this happen they are looked over
Lovely seeing you all so evolved talking about a valuable subject, this was really well structured and lots of of gems and take aways for mums as well as sometimes we forget the importance of Dad’s influence. Really funny too 😂 it’s not soft parenting it’s healthy parenting. As much as they are our kids they are also their own person living and experiencing the human experience ❤
Definitely in agreement with our children are living their own human experiences. And thank you for listening. We want to listen to each other, learn, share and understand 😉
When you own it make sure you move like you own it because the pain of yesterday lingers into today. So anything can be a trigger and bring both of us back to the past.
