Very well said guys regarding the wedding! I think if they wanted people to pay, they should not have called it a wedding it should have been called a concert or something else. If they planned to charge for this event, they should have done their research or survey with their family and friends to find out who would be willing to pay and if they needed their money, plan your event based on that. He is putting it out there that he has 200k to spend on a wedding, that is not what the average couple can do, they probably live an over the top type lifestyle leaving or giving people the impression that they have it going on and they have it like that. To many, their request for money probably came as a surprise!