That was bone crushingly honest. A potentially big lesson for anyone watching. Us men need to connect more with our vulnerabilities. Brings us closer to ourselves and the people around us.
I am late to the BERNTHAL as podcaster yet will be an avid listener/ watcher/ sharer now. Do you see the way he holds SHIA with his eye contact with no interruptions? That is compassion mastery right there. I have watched these fine actors roles but this was next level. I am going to happily consume THE REAL ONES now!
I REALLY PRAY THAT HES DOING WELL 🙏🏼. I was going to Eurth Cafe in Pasadena and saw him walking. He didn’t look too 3:50 good. I pray his demons leave him alone and be happy with his wife and child
Godbless ya ! You deserve the best !! You are a talented young man !! Enjoy your work !! ! I’m Sure you have more to come! I had to overcome my demons ! Still fighting!! Just like you !! Thanks for sharing !! God bless ya ❤
I dunno, I either think Shia is a sociopath or a psychopath. Clearly a liar and an actor. Why do I feel him talking A LOT, and finding just the right words to say to sound soulful or sorrowful feels like he rehearsed this in his head a lot. That its his way to take control. this whole interview to me sounds like a monologue he’s preforming.
Sober almost 10 months before my birthday, therapy and parenting classes. This interview touched my heart, I still don’t have a lot friends around and get lonely. I focus on my Son and hope someday there is someone there to be around for me
I’ve been there too, abandoned and without help, support, guidance etc. Only one thing got me through, myself and refusing to give up and cave in. You will find the path to better days I can promise you that just as long as you refuse to go down. Temporary pain for long term gain
Part of his problem with modern men is this. Crying woe is me. Be a man, face the bad decisions you’ve made and move on positively. Thats all you can do. In the end you die in your own arms.
I have a lot of respect for Shia. Man has been thru real hardship and endured a lot of trauma and doing his best. Its even harder when no-one cares or shows up for you.
I will write in Portuguese because i need to get this out of my mind i can write in English but I just want do get this out of mind: As vezes você trabalha e trabalha tanto atrás do dinheiro que esquece um pouco de aproveitar oque ele pode te oferecer, você tem tudo, mas ao mesmo tempo não tem nada, você pode conversar com as pessoas, mas nunca vai falar 100% oque realmente sente, as dores, os sofrimentos, eu tenho uma vida muito boa, nunca passei nenhum aperto, ganho muito bem, tenho uma namorada incrível, pais sensacionais, mas as vezes é difícil os pensamentos que vem na cabeça, a cobrança a si próprio, dinheiro, futuro, trabalho, constituir familia, é difícil se expressar, você tem todos, mas continua sempre se sentindo sozinho, você tenta achar dificuldades em tudo, mas não consegue, a preocupação de não ter oque vc quer te consome, mas na verdade você nunca sabe oque você realmente quer, não sabe se é patrimônio, carros, relógios, eu tenho uma vida praticamente perfeita, bons amigos, boa namorada, família boa, nada de drogas, mas não sei … a cobrança de si próprio toma conta da mente, acho que a pior dor é aquela que não sentimos repetidas vezes e sim a que vem esporadicamente
I will always have this memory of when I was dying and feeling confused scared because my sugars were high and I didn’t knew what was going on so they’d end me to the ER my parents weren’t their I was so alone even me dying won’t bring anyone to see me or to be with me and yet they want to check up on me when they want to I swear
The most famous person in the rehab, a world famous actor and NOBODY shows up for him?? 🥹 This poor broken, lonely man. My heart is breaking and I’m so happy he found God. Bless him
he was an abuser and hurt a lot of people, you shouldn’t blame them and i don’t think shia does either. the reason he was there was to be a better man for the people he loved.
Anyone else besides me finds it a bit ironic and kind of funny that the Punisher is interviewing and acting as a shoulder to let men air out their inner demons and know when they made mistakes?
Shia isn't a loser I been thru a lot and love this guy more than ever for changing his life for the better and opening up. You're just projecting ur feelings it's ok buddy we love you also.
When a guy or fren say this things to me when they see a preety girl or a sexy lady " look at that ass!!"....i wud say what if that girl is ur mother,daughter or sister? how do u feel? they just keep silence after that...
my gosh im crying... I lost the love of my life because I wasn't willing to talk about my problems and I left her not because I didn't love her but because I thought it was the right way to protect her because I thought I wasn't good enough, there was a better man waiting for her somewhere, I was sure of that. The last sentence she said was: “One word and I’ll stay with you.” I did not say anything... Now, more than a year later, I also realized that I wasn't interested in anyone else because that was her and there was no one else who was there for me, without me noticing, she was always there. She taught me empathy, unfortunately I only realized that with the last sentence when she was gone. So guys, talk is worth its weight in gold, words are worth more than actions, but combined with actions, words are the way to go in a relationship because a relationship means facing life together and not alone. Shia realized it probl. in the last moment, but he take this moment. love this guy for this.
