You have a great amount of insight for someone with BPD . I have CPTSD as it looks a bit like BPD although I don’t have the narcissistic core and lack of insight or splitting/dichotomous thinking that characterises it. I was in Aberdeen when I got given a book on DBT mindfulness by a psychiatrist but mindfulness and grieving my childhood losses has helped me. Though I still have massive addiction issues . I can tell by the accent your Scottish, same here I’m from the borders, Melrose but lived in Aberdeen for years. I hope you find a path and tools that work for you. For me the only thing that keeps me from sinking into suicidal depression ect is my passion for sport / boxing at the moment. I had a severe nervous breakdown in Aberdeen due to my alcoholism coupled with trauma bad mix 😵 take it easy mate as long as you learn to be okay with you, the right people will come to you.

I love you, thank you.

You are a really genuine person thank youuu so honest ❤❤❤ luv you

you should try to ask the questions YOU want to ask!! It feels great to be loved for who you really are (I know its hard) I LOVE YOU <3 <3 <3 ps: they probably deal with a lot of the same issues thus why you attracted them

this is so coolllll love you

Hello, firsr of all, thank you for your video. I wish you all the best in your recovery. I have one question, are you doing dbt therapy? Or what therapy are ypu doing? Hugs!!!

I am so glad i stumbled onto your channel earlier today, fell i can totally relate to you so you have earned another subscription👍

Thanks for sharing

very good my dear nice sharing keep it up God bless you

Hey. I had a depression, social anxiety and anxious attachment type. When I tried to be more active, I made a huge tone of mistakes. I can't take my actions and awkward words back, but I have no regrets. Because I finally felt alive and that I do exist, and that my actions have consequences. I felt empty my whole life, and everything including my goals and hobbies was a burden. And I felt happy, only when I found something pleasant and deep out of my responsibility zone. Now I'm working on my fear of abandonment, and it's much easier when you have many connections. You don't need to have a huge circle of friends, but just being among people really helps. When you know how to make friends. And it's much easier than it seems. You don't need to be interesting. You can talk about nonsense, but if you have a spirit, nice aura or something, people will like you anyway. If you don't exist in the relationship, they will not be able to like you. If you're having a good time, they will be too. Despair is an absence of hope. You don't have a hope if you don't know what to do next to solve your problems. And if the only thing you have in your life is problems, then you'll have no energy. Concentrate on things that you like, that light you up, try to understand what you are and what you want. Goals, ambitions, aspirations, love for someone or something are what makes you alive. I hope that you will find your way too.

So grateful for you sharing your thoughts, especially at such a difficult time for you. I would never be able to sit in front of a camera and share my thoughts like you do, so bravo. I think you maybe just need the right kind of connections, on your terms perhaps? Time does have a habit of bringing people into your life quite unexpectedly. I look forward to seeing more of your videos in the future, take care.

Thank you so so much for this video I relate a lot to what you are feeling. I’m doing really bad right now and I can’t even describe how much comfort this video brought me ❤️❤️❤️ thank you for making the emotions more bearable, I hope everything gets better for you, I believe in you so much (´｡• ᵕ •｡`) ♡

We miss you do you have tiktok please 😊

Nice video.

Beautiful 🙂

I love your sketches!

Beautiful progress!

Hey you’re nice and i think you can totally get back on track keep going :)

I got obsessed with personality types too once and realized I wasn't getting anything done xD

9 seconds in what a fucking introduction. not making fun of you. I am also quiet BPD :)

I'm 53 and still learning who I am, I get such a lovely vibe from you, and congratulations on all your milestones not matter how small they seem, and if u falter don't worry 😉 ♥

Hi your video popped up on my screen and so pleased I clicked on it, will check out your other vids 🙂

Yay for houseplants and gardening! Those help me so much. Thanks for sharing 🙂

Keep working on things -- your honesty and willingness to discuss BPD is impressive! I'm not sure if I would have the courage to do a youtube video like this, or any youtube.... Also, your video did come up in my feed!

PS: It is in my youtube algorithm ;-)

Hi Oliver! I hope you are well, this video did pop up as a recommended video for me due to my previous searches about BPD. I don't ever leave comments on videos because I don't feel like I have anything important to say, but I did just want to say thank you for sharing your experiences with quiet BPD. I have never really related to someone else's feelings / experiences before, so I just wanted to say hope you are doing well and thank you for being vulnerable and sharing how BPD affects you, ot has really helped me :-)

DBT dialectical behavioral therapy is the best treatment for BPD. Check it out. They have DBT groups.

You seem like a top guy.I appreciaye your perspective on your illness and you articulate it pretty well, which is something that can be done in the calm moments.Right now I'm learning about the overlap between ADHD and BPD.G;ad your new theraqpost is more helpful xx

thank you for this video.

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I did get this on the algorithm and thank you for sharing. I don't hear a lot about quiet BPD but I can be both quiet and not quiet at times.

I hope youre doing well oliver!thank you for sharing

Thank you Oliver. I really found some good information from your videos. I am sure what ever you pick to do it will be a blessing for you and others. Your honesty is so refreshing again thank you.

I really hope you're doing good brother,I appreciate your strength and I'm inspired, keep pushing forward 💪🏾

Great job Oliver!! I got this on the algorithms.

I relate to every single word you said. Having BPD is really lonely, but we aren't alone.

Hi Oliver! You are so brave. I also have quiet bpd. It makes life a quiet rollercoaster 🎢

You know, people make us feel bad because we have such deep emotions at first meeting somebody but truth is it can be beautiful because a lot of people don't experience this spectrum of emotions and will never understand. Unfortunately, these emotions hurt us especially BECAUSE we are misunderstood. Thank you for sharing. 🧡🤗 I also have quiet BPD and nobody believes me... Also was thinking of sharing this with the public, but I am so afraid of what people will think. We need to normalize the subject of 'I have a mental illness' and I'm glad you're doing this. Edit: I wanted to write let's be friends, but I feel like that would hurt us both. So I just hope my comment find a path trough your beautiful mind :)

So brave!! Good for you to let us in and share your feelings. Also a quiet BPD... very similar symptoms. Youre (we) not alone. Stand strong. Keep things light in your head, or better still get out of it. ❤️❤️🇨🇦

Oliver, do you have instagram? I would like to talk to you and share a bit of my story, if you don't mind.

Thanks for sharing. That’s really helpful to here what’s been going on and your recommendations 😎

the youtube algohrithm hit buddy i'm sorry

The music piece you selected works really well with the video, I really enjoyed watching it. Wow, your art and sketches are really good. You are multi talented! Thank you for the shout out. :)

I can relate to much of what you said. When I was young I did not have the insight you have. Thank you for sharing your experiences.

Love it, especially watercolor ones! Another Studio Ghibli fan here 💚

@EarthDoros for some reason I can't see your comment here, but I read some of what you wrote in the notifications, good luck with your therapy!

Just a heads up it showed up in my search RU-vid areas offerings about BPD. You're doing something right :-)

You have such an important message to share and a nice, honest presentation. You are very articulate and organized. I wish you success with this platform. I’m so glad to see an update. Hoping it will be a weekly thing, but understand you might not want to do that. I was wondering about your animation and drawings maybe you can share on your channel?

I love you!!! I have BPD too and i found your quiet bpd video really valuable! Do you game btw? Id love to game with you, you seem really friendly Sincerely fucked up, quiet BPD girl 😂