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Hi everyone! Thank you for visiting my channel. My name is Alysha and I am the proud mother of fraternal twin boys, Jacob and Elijah, conceived via IVF in 2018. I started this channel in April 2020 to share my story in the form of hope for anyone out there struggling with infertility. I truly believe that you will be a mommy or a daddy someday if you really want to be. Whether it's through fertility treatments, naturally, or adoption.

I had so much fun sharing my journey to motherhood that I didn't want to stop there. On my channel you will also find family vlogs, shopping hauls, twin survival guides, and hopefully get some inspiration from my cleaning, cooking, and organizational vlogs.

I would love if you stuck around and subscribed to my channel! Let's have some fun!

Love,

Alysha

xoxo

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@MissTiaY
@MissTiaY 12 часов назад
Awww, I love these family vlogs! It looks like they had such a great time! I totally get Elijah...I like farm animals, but the smell is not always pleasant.
@Tu-AnhTW
@Tu-AnhTW 4 дня назад
Your sons are so sweet and adorable Alysha!! Great vlog! 💕
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 3 дня назад
Thank you 🥰
@NataliaNatalia-in2fb
@NataliaNatalia-in2fb 7 дней назад
After Lupron do you have bad headaches for years, bladder issues, poor bone mass, mood down, weak teeth issues 🦷 , bones 🦴 weakness thinning? How Lupron blockers effected your fertility in a long run?
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 7 дней назад
I do wonder if the IVF medication’s put me into early perimenopause. I do have plans to do a video on that. I did hear that Lupron is used on people transitioning from male to female. It kills your testosterone, which is nuts to me. Stay tuned for a video that I will do on that in the near future.
@Tu-AnhTW
@Tu-AnhTW 7 дней назад
Hi Alysha so glad you're back! I messaged you about 2 years ago when I was starting IVF and wanted to make videos like you. i have a son now all thanks to IVF! It took me 2 years but I finally made my first video! you're very inspiring, thank you!!
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 7 дней назад
Yes, I remember you! Thank you and congratulations! I’m a new subscriber now on your channel.
@RachelSmyer
@RachelSmyer 14 дней назад
Gotta love those free events! Aw they got to go in with the goats ❤
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 14 дней назад
The goats were so sweet! We were hoping to see more farm animals than tractors, but it was still fun for the twins!
@fdbrown5850
@fdbrown5850 14 дней назад
Wonderful family trip. So very happy to see you posting often. Thank you for sharing.
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 14 дней назад
Thank you sweetheart! I’m so glad you’re still here! xo
@jessicaandfamily1985
@jessicaandfamily1985 15 дней назад
I love the shots in your videos ❤
@jessicaandfamily1985
@jessicaandfamily1985 15 дней назад
I’m so glad to see you back on RU-vid!
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 14 дней назад
Thanks for encouraging me to come back! ❤
@jamilablessed4548
@jamilablessed4548 15 дней назад
Such a Great Vlog ..❤
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 14 дней назад
Awwww, thanks for watching! 🥰
@seant6731
@seant6731 17 дней назад
Congratulations
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 16 дней назад
Thank you! 😊
@RachelSmyer
@RachelSmyer 19 дней назад
Love that you included your husband in this!
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 19 дней назад
Ian’s a trooper! 😊
@fdbrown5850
@fdbrown5850 19 дней назад
Great Haul. Thank you for sharing.
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 19 дней назад
Thank you! 🥰
@magicalmomlaura
@magicalmomlaura 21 день назад
Hey Alysha! You look great! The boys have grown so much! It sounds like a lot of exciting things and changes happening in your family! Can’t wait to follow along? ❤
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 20 дней назад
Thanks Laura 🥰
@fdbrown5850
@fdbrown5850 21 день назад
Welcome Back. You were missed very much.Thank you for sharing the family updates. I have thought of you often.I will remember your husband in my prayers. I hope he has a speedy recovery. Good luck on your new employment possibilities.
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 21 день назад
It’s so good to hear from you! I definitely missed you too. Thank you for putting Ian in your prayers. Everything will be fine, but a few extra prayers wouldn’t hurt. I’m glad to be back posting again. Definitely missed it.
@crystalbee9706
@crystalbee9706 21 день назад
Breakfast looked great.
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 21 день назад
Who doesn't love bacon, right? Thanks for watching!
@RachelSmyer
@RachelSmyer 21 день назад
Alyshaaaa, hey girl! I always love the little mothers day crafts the kids do, it's always so sweet! Their answers for you were so stinkin cute ❤ Loved hearing how different their personalities are! Will be praying for your husband and for your journey into finding work in the field you love ❤️
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 21 день назад
Hey girl, heyyyyy! Thank you for your kind words. xo
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 21 день назад
I sent you an email, let me know what you think!
@user-cy7sw9on9n
@user-cy7sw9on9n 21 день назад
So glad to see you guys back
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 21 день назад
Thanks for watching! Looking forward to being active here again. I missed it!
@annanowa-matsu
@annanowa-matsu Месяц назад
Seems you came to a great doctors just in time. As many tests to help and support in the IVF there are these days, the most important is that you and your husband have beautiful children by now! Congratulations! ❤
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY Месяц назад
Thank you for your kind words! ☺️
@bumblebea1773
@bumblebea1773 Месяц назад
Thank you so much for your story. It’s beautiful to hear ALL of our opinions during delicate times. Your family is lovely ❤
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY Месяц назад
Thank you! 🥰
@joychinemerem6277
@joychinemerem6277 2 месяца назад
OMG...I cried watching ...pls help with d suppliments u were taking for egg quality ....and how many milligram of each of d injections were u taking during ur stimulation pls I beg u in d name of God pls help me
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 2 месяца назад
Oh you sound worried, I’m sorry. I took some drops of Vitamin D I got through my acupuncture clinic. It was so long ago that I don’t remember the dose, it was really high though. I would recommend taking a prenatal vitamin now (it has plenty of vitamin D), and getting lots of sunshine. Good luck on your journey to baby! Everything will be ok.
@dentistsu29
@dentistsu29 2 месяца назад
Thank you for sharing your story! This was helpful. I’ll be undergoing an FET for the first time this month and I’m excited (45 years old with normal AMH levels - surprisingly). Nervous that my doctor told me that he’ll be transferring two embryos! Crossing my fingers for success. I don’t care if both stick just want a healthy baby (or two) 😊
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 2 месяца назад
I’m so excited for you!!!
@aliceneal8666
@aliceneal8666 2 месяца назад
Was it 20k they charged to insurance or was your meds 20k out of pocket 😮
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 2 месяца назад
Out of pocket. My insurance didn’t cover any fertility. But we did get a substantial health expense tax right off.
@jamgyal5475
@jamgyal5475 3 месяца назад
Hi did you do egg retrieval after your myomectomy or before ?
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 3 месяца назад
Hi 👋🏾. I did egg retrieval about a year or so after my myomectomy. However, a few fibroids did grow back. But it did not affect our successful transfer.
@NigerianBeautyQueen
@NigerianBeautyQueen 3 месяца назад
38 is an old lady?? 😢
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 3 месяца назад
That’s what they call 35 and older having babies. 😭
@Kathryn1988
@Kathryn1988 4 месяца назад
Thanks for sharing! ❤ Jesus loves you guys!
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 4 месяца назад
Thank you 😊
@asadurrohman9206
@asadurrohman9206 4 месяца назад
A beautiful video.❤
@radhachokshi589
@radhachokshi589 4 месяца назад
Thank you for sharing, what was your embryo's grade?
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 4 месяца назад
You’re so welcome! Our clinic graded on a 1,2,3,4 scale. 1 being the highest. My twins were both grade 2 embryos.
@Sabbrinaa3
@Sabbrinaa3 5 месяцев назад
Was there anything you did after/before the transfer? Diet? Thank you
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 5 месяцев назад
Hi! 👋🏾 I did a video on prepping for my FET that you can find under my IVF playlist. I really wanted to lose weight and change my diet, but I wasn’t successful with sticking to it. I did add and avoid some things though. Check out the video when you have time!
@Sabbrinaa3
@Sabbrinaa3 5 месяцев назад
@@AlyshawithaY thank you.
@kalesprings2032
@kalesprings2032 5 месяцев назад
Thank you for sharing and congratulations!
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 5 месяцев назад
Thank you! 😊
@issiehanley
@issiehanley 6 месяцев назад
this thanksgiving just hit different. such wholesome feels, what a vibe from this one🫶
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 5 месяцев назад
Awww cool! I like that!
@RachelSmyer
@RachelSmyer 6 месяцев назад
Glad you guys had a great Thanksgiving with family! Great job with painting the furniture ❤ Aw what a sweet family outing as well, the railway museum looks super cute
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 6 месяцев назад
Thanks Rachel! I hope you had a great Thanksgiving as well! 🥰
@aliciarantz
@aliciarantz 6 месяцев назад
Yay, new video! 😃 Glad y’all had a great time!!!!
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 6 месяцев назад
Thanks Alicia! How was your 🦃 day?
@aliciarantz
@aliciarantz 6 месяцев назад
@@AlyshawithaY It was very nice, actually! Thank you for asking! Although, I’m so bored of traditional thanksgiving foods, so I didn’t enjoy the food very much 😂 but hanging out with family was fun!! 🥰 Gonna have to figure out a new menu for next year because the turkey-stuffing-mashed potato-corn-cranberry sauce thing is not it for me anymore!! Then, I usually do Mexican food at Christmas, but I think I’m going to stray from that this year and have some soul food for a change. So I’ll be looking forward to that. What are cooking for Christmas? 🎄
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 6 месяцев назад
@@aliciarantz ooooh girl, that sounds amazing! Guess we’re coming to your house this year for Christmas! 🤣 I actually haven’t thought that far. Going to families for Christmas day. Ian usually makes scallop potatoes to bring along. I don’t cook that holiday. Christmas Eve we get together with a different side of the family and usually go out but we are thinking about hosting maybe a brunch? We haven’t completely thought it through yet. I hope you vlog your Christmas. Soul food sounds so good right now. I would love to see how you do it. 😋
@fdbrown5850
@fdbrown5850 6 месяцев назад
You couldn't imagine how excited I am to see you all back.Thank you for sharing your thanksgiving,. Everything looks wonderful and delicious.My thanksgiving was good. My children came over and we had so much fun. It was a good day.Again thank you for a beautiful and fun video. Hope to see you all soon.
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 6 месяцев назад
I am so glad you had a wonderful Thanksgiving with your kiddos! So great to hear from you as well! 😘
@fdbrown5850
@fdbrown5850 6 месяцев назад
@@AlyshawithaY It’s always a treat watching your videos. Take care , blessings and stay safe.
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 6 месяцев назад
I hope everyone had an amazing Thanksgiving. What did you do?
@jessicaandfamily1985
@jessicaandfamily1985 6 месяцев назад
We had a quiet day at home. Your mother-in-law’s pies look 😋
@diamondtv521
@diamondtv521 6 месяцев назад
Did you do genetic testing?
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 6 месяцев назад
We chose not to. I did a video on why not. You can find it under my IVF playlist if you’d like to watch. 👍🏾
@diamondtv521
@diamondtv521 6 месяцев назад
@@AlyshawithaY I will. Thank you
@Akshata7864
@Akshata7864 7 месяцев назад
Ur story is inspiring to me. Always have hope. So much positivity here. My FET is due from past 3 years. Its all about our financial condition. We are unable to visit hospital. The charges are too high. 😭😭😭 hoping to see doctor and have healthy baby. Please pray for me ....please please need blessings. I am feeling low and depressed. Please pray for me to get pregnant with healthy baby. Prayers for me please please please
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 7 месяцев назад
I will pray for you!
@wm3668
@wm3668 7 месяцев назад
Thank you so much for sharing your story❤ I too have low amh and just turned 46😬 but i am trying to stay positive even though the odds against me. I start ivf treatments next month. Wishing everyone a successful journey!
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 7 месяцев назад
Dreams can come true. Best of luck to you. Keep me posted!
@theeeeaa5874
@theeeeaa5874 7 месяцев назад
@RachelSmyer
@RachelSmyer 8 месяцев назад
Alyshaaaa, I've missed you!! It's insane how much groceries costs these days. That sucks that you gotta still go back to the grocery store another day in the week after getting all of that. The harry potter pjs oml 😍😅
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 8 месяцев назад
Hey Rachel! 👋🏾 I’ve been ok not going to the grocery store so far, but will likely by this weekend. Yes, prices are nuts! The jammers are super comfortable!
@fdbrown5850
@fdbrown5850 8 месяцев назад
I thought you were using your camera. You must have an amazing phone. Welcome back. It’s good to see you and the family. I love a good haul. One of my favorite kind of videos. Since the weather is turning I have been looking for lounging dresses for in the house. The stores don’t have any but online the prices are crazy. It’s very good to see you all back. See you next video.
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 8 месяцев назад
Hi 👋🏾! Oh that’s good to know that you couldn’t tell the difference. I think I’m gonna hold off until Christmas time to get a new camera. In the meantime, I’m due for an iPhone upgrade, so I’m going to just Vlog using my phone camera. Thanks for watching, I love hauls too. More to come. I got this black cotton lounge dress from Costco and I wore it out. I was hoping they had more, but couldn’t find any. It was great to see your comment and I hope you’re doing wonderful.
@fdbrown5850
@fdbrown5850 8 месяцев назад
@@AlyshawithaY I'm okay.Thanks for asking. Let me know if you like your new detergent. We have been keeping close eyes on targets detergent sales . You buy a certain amount of fabric care or detergent and get a gift card. That has been a great way to get gift cards for future detergent purchases.I love the tide with bleach.I really like that about target. them running sales on different things and offering gift cards. I think its a great idea to keep videoing on your phone until Christmas. Your phone does a great job.
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 8 месяцев назад
Happy Tuesday! Let me know if you can tell that I used my iPhone and not my camera in this video. I still haven’t gotten a camera to replace my broken one :(. Glad you’re here! Be sure to say hi!
@dajanelainechukdong1086
@dajanelainechukdong1086 8 месяцев назад
What clinic did you use ? Thanks for sharing :)
@Nicole-lh5fw
@Nicole-lh5fw 8 месяцев назад
I just found your video and found it super relatable and it made me hopeful. I was curious if you did PGT testing on the embryos? I am 40 and about to start my second cycle of IVF retrieval and debating wether or not to test them.
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 8 месяцев назад
I’m glad you’re here! Good luck with your 2nd retrieval. I hope your first round was successful. We did not test our embryos. I did a video on why we chose not to. You can find it under my IVF playlist.
@adrienne9757
@adrienne9757 8 месяцев назад
I just watched your plantation vid. Thank you for sharing. And I am so happy for your success. ❤
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 8 месяцев назад
Thank you! 🥰
@adrienne9757
@adrienne9757 8 месяцев назад
@@AlyshawithaY Your so welcome 💋 💜
@fmfm9507
@fmfm9507 8 месяцев назад
Hi.. m almost 42 n I did my ivf in 2018 n got 7 eggs n only one made it to A grade embryo n went for ohs testing n came back with chromosomal anyployde … n we decided not to go for transfer … so a year later went for another ivf n got 2 eggs n all went in vain .. so can I ask why did you want to go for pgs testing … now m considering going for ivf . Last chance..I have multiple fibroids.. should I remove them .. pray that I get pregnant .. thanksb
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 8 месяцев назад
I am sorry this has been a tough road for you. I had assumed that PGT would be highly recommended by our clinic, but it wasn’t for our situation. My doctor suggested a myomectomy which I did. However, a few fibroids did grow back. But they did not interfere with transfer. That is something that you need to discuss with your doctor. I cannot give you the answer for that. I really hope your next round works out and that you get pregnant and have a healthy baby.
@fmfm9507
@fmfm9507 8 месяцев назад
@@AlyshawithaY thanks a lot for replying. You have a beautiful family . N wish I have twins some day .. IA … 🥰
@AlyshawithaY
@AlyshawithaY 8 месяцев назад
Thank you! 🥰