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Damn… Throw enough shit against the wall and I guess something will stick. If you were listening to this ass clown, then you have probably said “I’m an abuser”. It’s gonna hit all of us in one way or the other because we are all fallen in one way or another. Emotional abuse does not exist people. Yes, words hurt but we need to be careful about labeling What is “abuse”.
The title is misleading. He didn’t address what to do if someone else misdirects blame to you at all. Not a bad video, just misleading title. Click bait?
I just found these videos… you still have amazing insight… I have some of your books, a few signed by you!but I just have to say that I am doing well now!! Against all odds… because I was someone who was told that I will NOT get healthy… but I did!!! Took decades, but I have come out the other side! You all were right; there truly was another light at the end of the tunnel!! Thanks again, for all your support & the support of the staff at The Centre.😊
Hey! I’m not sure if you remember me… I came to The Center nearly 20yrs ago, very very sick. The people there were an amazing step in my journey to recovery… I am now doing so well; I have a wonderful husband, a beautiful home, & living my dream of having a parrot sanctuary! If you read this Dr Jantz, I am so thankful for all your help, & support from the team I had on my case… it’s been a long time since I’ve been sick (eating disorders/addiction) & although it took a toll on my body…for example, I have a permanent ileostomy (emergency surgery had to remove my entire colon) but I’ve never been happier or healthier than I am now😊I’m a walking miracle! So thank you to Dr Jantz, & the whole team at The Center!!
Do you have a video about how to address the emotional abuse with the perpetrator in a dating relationship? I’d like to hear what steps can be taken before ending the relationship, example of how to tell them because “abuse” can be a trigger word…is there a nicer way to put it to them so it doesn’t automatically trigger them and stands a greater chance of being received in a way that could inspire change/empathy, what does the change work look like for them….if they’re asking what I require for them to do in order to stay, are there concrete steps I could give and also a general timeframe of how long that work could take?what are some sample boundaries that should be in place and if they’re broken, what consequences should be given and how to know when to cut ties completely?
I’m not an assertive boundary setter but I do give them and the person steamrolls over them enough that I then have to ask for space and I get the “brain scramble” that emotional abuse can cause so when they ask me how much space I need I can’t tell them because I can’t even think in the moment….but I know it’s painful to just leave someone hanging. Is me doing that still participating in emotional abuse and if not, how can I distinguish them to the other person so they don’t use that as a way to dismiss my credibility and honesty in trying to work out conflicts? I don’t act this way with other people, just with this person because he has these patterns from an abusive home that create chaos when “working out” conflict. I can’t think of a better way because I know the second I go back to talk, if I don’t have exactly what I need to say and a clear goal and personal inner strength with a clear mind, then I cannot withstand the conversation without being damaged by this person and nothing will be resolved. It takes time to “reset” and heal after an episode with this person and I’m finding I cannot go back in any pre-determined amount of time. I don’t want to cause harm by making them wait either. Any advice? I’d love it if you did a video for people who find themselves having to resort to this and what alternative options there are and boundary examples that prevent the need for this. Especially helpful statements about not being ready, not having the answers they need and needing to take a longer break….but still validating that it is hard on them and not exactly fair, but just what I’m working with in my own capacity at this moment in my life. We are both trauma survivors and still in healing and it’s clear to me we are not healed enough to withstand some of the conflicts and natural pain that can be caused in relationships and to me that means we shouldn’t be in one, but he wants to compromise and find a way to adjust terms of the relationship that can make it easier. I would do that if I thought there was a way, but I see no way. Also, if the person is a good candidate to learn to stop the emotional abuse behaviors, what is the faster timeframe that could happen? What are good boundaries in the meantime? How rare is it for people to change these things?
After what happened to me at The Center a Place Of Hope, After spending almost $40k, I have decided to take my own life, After the persecution I have been under since Day 1 at the Center. You have blood on your hands. I have no Hope. I will be dead by tomorrow. Not that you care. I failed life rehab. I suffer with severe PTSD. I received no Hope. My life will ended by morning. Best, Melanie Olmsted.
I have been raped twice, I had to forage through desert forest to keep off the main road in Beruit, I saved 5 children, cut clothes off for bandages, and stop the bleeding from 4 year old boy who had his arm blown off, I got the arm. And waiting for hours for ambulances to come. Do you care about me now. No. I'm hopeless, worthless, I got to live, but I don't think the boy did. But I can't talk anything in group, because it's two triggering. I'm also in a group with all ED ladies, but I don't have an ED. So I just sit there. You don't care about my trauma. Nobody at the Center does. What is the proportional
I am client currently at the Center, which was the worst mistake of my life. I whore shamed, threatened by neighbors in James Place, and for the first time I am terrified to sleep in my housing. If you want me to air the dirty laundry place I will use names. I paid $6850 to stay 4 extra days to heal. After what happened to me today, I had suicidal ideation for the first time. I have been brave enough to smile and shake your hand in the hallway. But nobody cares about me, my chronic illness, my safety or apparently my feelings. Is this the experience you want from me. I was told by Lisa, the people who come from the other coast, have to handle time change they value the most. That's a lie. I'm here until Saturday. I want to be in my wise mind. But cares human life. After what happened to me today. Compliments, Melanie Olmsted My ptsd, trauma, depression Anxiety are worse now than I started. But you don't care either, you teach the Golden Rule, but it goes over everyone's head. My paid cash for me to be here, and her retirement investments and wants to sue. But that's my decision, my boundary.
Congratulations! I am so happy for your healing and I pray you will continue walk in this peace as you serve Jesus in this short life! I had never heard of scrupulosity: a psychological disorder primarily characterized by pathological guilt or obsession associated with moral or religious issues that is often accompanied by compulsive moral or religious observance and is highly distressing and maladaptive. Praise God you are free of this!
my spiritual mentor keeps viewing my trauma as selfishness or victim mentality. she keeps remind me of that lies whenever I get flashbacks.I am dying inside.
Have been married to narcissistic wife for 50 years . She does not talk unless it's she have to. I have been positive , she negative . What ever i do is not good enough . The story i could tell you . Let this be a warning to other people , and yes mentally and physically take it out of you think you
One of my friend was extremely toxic, and when I refused to let him control me. He turned all my friends against me. They are on his side now and don't speak to me. A price I was willing to pay to get my "peace of my mind" back. 😂
Hey Gregory, My friend was in Emotionally abusive relationship with her husband for 32 years. We were vortual friends, she fainted talking to me on whatsapp and her husband accused me that it was some how my fault & I gave ger stress. My friend did not bother to intervene or stop her husband she just ghosted me after her husband sent me a threatning message from her cell. At that time, I was hospitalized for my RA diagnosis. It has been 3 years and I am traumatized. I still get nightmares about that incident. I don't know know what did I do to deserve this. I always cared and loved for her. She just left me hanging in mid air wothout answers. Any advice to help me just move on? It has been 3 years & I still feel numb. RA is triggered by stress and I have been under so much stress because she ghosted me, it has taken a serious toll on me not just emotionally but physically as well. I am the only one left to suffer with consequences. Thanks.
1 Overbearing Opinion Power/ Control 2 Always Right! Know it all I told you so!!! 3 put down artist! Comparison! Critical 4 Stand up Comic! Sarcasm, Deflection 5 Guilt Giver!create a sense of Shame! Start Doibting yourself! ❤Motivated through Guilt! ❤️ Always Apologizing! 6 Historian! Never forgives/forgets! 7 Silent treatment ❤️ Ignoring you!! 8 Victim Mentality/ selfish self absorbed it’s all about me!! No Empathy!!❤️
