Thank you so much for worrying, it truly means a lot. I recently moved and I’ve been so caught up with rent and work I’ve put aside my hobbies. But I think I’ll start again very soon! If you have any requests I’ll happily do them! :)
me when i try to open up to my own fucking boyfriend and i get ignored while he’s clearly active on ig and when he finally comes back he tries to make it about him and expects me to comfort him ;-;
Damn this song makes me think of my dad, especially the first part, he’s always telling me I’m wrong or what to do and won’t let me just try to get better by myself. I totally relate to the 2nd and 3rd part bc with my SH problems and everything I do is because I sh, I’m precious bc I SH and can’t take care of myself ( literally their words)
Me when I'm venting about something and that one mf immediately turns the attention to themselves. (It's okay if you're saying you can relate but stop making it a fucking competition, just because you might've 'had it worse' doesn't mean shit, it could still hurt the person venting about it, and you comparing thr trauma might make it worse.)
THIS. Relating and expressing how you felt the same way in a different situation is fine but once you start comparing and trying to one up the other person that’s like. What are you doing??
@@vampy3246 Yeah!! And it could make the person you're venting to feel like their problems aren't enough to be complaining or to be upset about and just end up not talk about it at all.
TW: vent, abuse this hits harder when your brother suddenly went from gay to transphobic and homophobic while you're an enby and he always had a changing view of my abuser, especially now, but we've been getting in a lot of fights lately, and he said that he wasn't abusing me and that was just "kids being kids" and that i'm a jerk for not forgiving my abuser when i finally could say that it was abuse after a year without feeling like I'm faking it AND HE SAYS THAT?! HE ALSO BELIEVES HE'S SUPERIOR AND ALWAYS MAKES EVERY CONVERSATION ABOUT HIM BEING SUPERIOR TO YOUNGER HIM AND HE EVEN SAID THAT MY ABUSER WAS JUST A KID BEING A KID AFTER I BRIEFLY MENTIONED MY SUICIDAL THOUGHTS?! AND THE FACT THAT HE WITNESSED ALL OF THE ABUSE AND STILL CHOOSES TO SAY THAT?! EVER SINCE HE BECAME HOMOPHOBIC AND STUFF WE GOT INTO FIGHTS AND RIGHT AFTER WE MAKE PEACE HE SAYS SHIT ABOUT MY ABUSER AND TRANSPHOBIC/HOMOPHOBIC SHIT THAT JUST MAKES US FIGHT AGAIN I'M SO TIRED HOW DO I STOP TALKING TO HIM
Bro what. What is wrong with him. How do you just switch up like that??? That’s INSANE. Like sure kids are kids duh but there’s a certain line that I’m sure the abuser crossed for you to question if it’s abuse or not. And for your own brother to side with the abuser is crazy. I think the best thing to do atp is to distance yourself from him because hearing that every time you talk must be EXHAUSTING
I know like-no one really cares but I'm trying to quit drinking so I can play sports and because it's generally just bad for me, but...I think it's gonna be a challenge. Wish me luck LMAO P.S. this song is relatable 😭😭 especially the "I figured out as I got older that life just sucks when you get sober"/"I figured out as I got sober that life just sucks when you get older" part
I’m glad you’re trying to make that change for yourself and I hope it goes well! 😋 distractions are always helpful but it’s gonna be rocky regardless of how you see it. But you got this in the BAG
This reminds me of when I was at a restaurant with my mom and she literally yelled at the table next to us. I have a phobia of being stared at and EVERYONE IN THE RESTAURANT WAS STARING AT ME AND MY FAMILY! I just hated being there. This is why I don’t like my mom…
I FUCKING HATE it when I'm venting and then someone cuts me off and talks about their experiences or makes trauma into a competition. Everyone who does that can go to hell.
I agree. I do that to an extent. I don’t try to one up them I tell them a similar experience so we can relate on it but like. Trying to one up someone especially while venting like?? WHAY ARE YOU TRUING TO WIN LMFAO
@@galileahernandez9595 he would hold money against band members and say things like “good luck feeding your kids” he also used racial slurs towards them and made questionable jokes. There’s more but I haven’t gone too deep into his lore
he has on the bands spotify bio thing that he’s getting treatment and he’s trying to be a better person, recently he sold merch and is donating all the earnings to a trans rights organization
