He says now I'm the best woman he's ever known, that I made him feel like a king, and he wants another chance to be with me to "do it the right way this time". If I made him feel like a king why didn't he make me feel like a queen? My efforts were met with no appreciation, irritability and apathy. I know I was good in the relationship. My only regrets is that I aloud the treatment to stay in my life, and I didn't leave sooner. He has now admitted he projected all his crap onto me. That's what he misses, not me. I just want him to leave me alone.
Here's a crummy thought: Once you are so bitter and "scalded" (great analogy) and cannot receive him the way you wanted to, and did for so long, NOW he changes and you break up because the spark is dead. Then the next woman gets to enjoy those changes, and so on until some other woman down the line finally gets his relationship-ready self. It can be frustrating for the ones he chewed through while he was growing up. Took your innocence, left you jaded then settles with someone who can treat him how he wants to be treated BECAUSE he treats her the way he should have done Girl #1.
I'm scared to even date today at 57 men are not real today. I chose Jesus Christ. Your not tripping. You can lead men to the water 🌊 💦 🌊 but they are not trying to drink it.
Remember energy is not destroyed. I just recategorize whomever In my life whether friendships or not. I don't throw people away. I am not God. I extract what I want and leave the rest in a person. Every animal has a place and a purpose. What is set for destruction only God knows. But I refuse to be anyone's BEAST OF BURDEN
He broke up with me just because I explained what was bothering me. I confirmed that I wouldn't say anything but he told me to talk to him. In the end, I said it. The situation turned out to be my fault.
My energy is such I need to care for myself. Nothing is wrong with a person pursuing their goals. And if the sexes stop belittling each other we all could contribute in the relationship in a more effective manner
Not true. Younger women are generally more physically attractive, more relaxed, and haven't entered peri menopause with hot flushes and a temper through the roof.
I agree! She took my problems I’m so happy, he wanted a weaker woman that won’t speak up and make him be a better version of his self. .. they like submission and submission is okay .but you have to show me something worth being submissive for
