AMA | I’m live on this channel daily-ish 5pm MT. Family court veteran and survivor. Yes, I'm Parker's dad... and Hayden's and Blaine's and London's. I documented what happened to us and the "family" court jailed me for being a good dad. My kids are grown now and doing well. I do not talk about their private lives and that includes their relationships with other people. I'm finally starting to rebuild my life. Media requests: crankmycat@gmail.com Ethereum Tip Jar: 0xdc976e770afa70Bb773E178b7507330FFbeaF460
She just refuse's to give Parker àny credit for his feelings. À 14yr old should be able to PICK WHO HE WANTS TO LIVE WITH. i let all my 3 sons pick their father when we divorced for the 3d time. Not all at one time but when they wanted to. Just worked on "lets just take care of the kids first." Everything worked out in the end. I sense you are still carrying alot of amnositity against Candance & hubby. Looks like she out to destroy you & she did by trying to bankrupt you with😮 constant incourt maneuvers &everything going thru the court to control you & kids & to really run up those bills. Hope you have been able to recoup some monies. Your lawyer sold you out. You've had a rough haul. No wonder you moved to Florida & now to Montana trying to rebuild a new life & to renew your body, mind & spirit. Think you suffer from PTSD & DEPRESSION AS i do thus the need to isolate as i do. All my boys came back to me eventually & now i have all granddaughters. See how everything comes back together. Just take it one day at a time. Good karma will find you in your journey. Your story would make a good movie on your experiences & struggles within the court system. Kat Kat
Personally, i perceive this as the final flailings and throes of a demon losing control over its host. Similar to a vice, when you're breaking free from its clutches, the rehetoric and justifications to return intensifies. This woman is methodically switching from tactic to tactic in order to get what she wants. It's so remarkably evil. The demon realizes the current strategy isnt working, and you can see in real time her awful mindset switch courses and attempt something new. Amazing to see this spectrum of maliciousness. Truly one of the most cathartic videos to have ever been uploaded. God bless you and your son Caleb.
The manipulation and gas-lighting is just awful. That Step Dad should know better, never let the mother force the child to call you Dad. The child has a Dad. He can settle for Step-Dad. I did. I wouldn't want it any other way. Caleb if you ever read this, you're a gentleman and a scholar.
Parker, that's inspiring. You truly are an American civil disobedience. The fact that you can petition your government for matters of redress of grievance, you have freedom of speech, freedom of the press freedom of religion and their freedom to peaceably assemble is so fundamental. To our public, thank you.Parker thank you
Honestly in my opinion this is not a positive way to review this video...the father should had recorded the whole interaction until the point where the kid is expressing gis fears and the morher using force...then file a complaint with the officers on the scene to bring it up in court. As you hear her towards the end of the video she was willing to file vogus charges(she said i will file anything to keep his father from leaving with their son. I believe in the kids having rights but not to the point if the kids is expressing fear. This should had never been fone this way. The father shoyld had recorded to the point of her physically forcing and the kid expressing fear and then told the kid to calm down and wait until the cops decided what would be the best cours of action. She seems to always say things in a negative way about the father and his life views because at that time it isn't relevant. But i understand her she was like a lioness wanting to have her cubs with her but it shouldn't had went down that way .. not in front of him(the kid)... Do voth the mom and father were wrong...this is my opinion and my views. Is not a professional suggestion or professional lawful facts
You know, stuff that is abuse can cause Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. Complex Post Traumatic Stress Acute Stress Disorder Reactive Attachment Disorder, Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, Autism Spectrum Disorder Anxiety And Depression, Major Depressive Disorder, Schizophrenia. Adjustment Disorder. Those disorders can happen if abuse increases. And abuse would be people who have Oppositional Defiant Disorder, Disruptive Mood, Dysregulation Disorder, Antisocial Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, Histronic Personality Disorder, And Narcissistic Personality Disorder, it’s what I found more of this year in 2024 than last year in 2023. Because I heard so many Children, Teenagers, and Even Young Adults who are not even 25 years old caught so much hell in their families and they dealt with Child Abuse and Neglect, and Abandonment. This has Affected they’re lives for years. Some of them were Alive and Some of them Died because of that, and it’s was just an awful situation, and I feel bad for them.
I am obviously very late to watching this, but in that moment, the boy became a man, and he and his father should be proud. Glad to see the fathers update that he has found a solid life and job and is doing well, good luck to both of you.
@@travisking9895 what is he teaching his son - just run away when things get tough. You don’t have to follow legal precedent. Who knows what crap the father put into the kids head. An adult would sit down and discuss what is going on that would make him feel he wants to live with his father and give the mother an opportunity to state her case and maybe refute some of the things the father has said to brainwash a 14 year old kid. The only reason he backed up his son because he knew it pissed off the mother. If the mother was smart he should then give him all the kids not just the 14 year old who is now the easiest to deal with. I bet the father would change his mind really quick.
@@duanedrummond5100 You have no idea what happened before this was filmed, and neither do I, but you seem to think you do. You seem convinced the father is "putting crap in his head", that he only backed his son to piss off the mother, that the father has brainwashed the son. I don't know what you based all that off, but it's certainly not based on anything that was filmed. If I had to guess, you had a terrible father, and you're projecting that onto this situation. If that's the case, I'm sorry you went through that. As for "running away when things get tough", it seems like the boy is running away from an abusive household, and fortunately for him he has a father to go to. So it really seems like you have it all backwards.
@@travisking9895 first off talking about my home life has nothing to do with this situation - my father is a great man and father and it kind of a cheap and immature shot to even bring anything to do with my family. I could infer from what you wrote is you were part of an abusive family this is how you know how the boy is film. Of course none of us know what goes on behind close doors and we only infer from what we see in the video but I have friends who have gone through this type of thing so from my experience usually one parent try’s to control the other specifically with kids and usually the father with the mother as this is her most vulnerable side. So let’s leave it that we don’t really know what’s going on and we each have our own opinions right or wrong - but that is what is great about this forum we have the right to add out comments and have sparing debates. Cheers.
Calling “STEP DAD” “DADDY” in front of the ACTUAL DAD, calling REAL DAD “CALEB” shows her character and ALL YOU NEED TO KNOW… GOD I ABSOLUTELY HATE WOMEN WHO USE THEIR KIDS AS PAWNS!!!
For the kid to be this adamant not to go back to that house, there is serious abuse going on there. I had a girlfriend who had 3 kids, they were terrified of that woman. MOMMIE DEAREST.
I hate the way this woman lied to the police about the dad not letting the kid out of the truck and threatening them that the police would do things that were not even police matters. Everything she wanted and said the police would do never happened. Good for the cops and good for the kid. She did her best to manipulate everyone around her. Also funny how she allegedly was going to give a 14 year old a sports car. Sure, right, just more lies.
This disgusting cop has a savior complex but is too idiotic to make any sense or help anyone. I can literally barely keep watching this video I hope he’s embarrassed by myself all these years later. Vile!
I’d originally watched this video 11 years ago when you posted it and it really spoke to me because I was in the same predicament, eventually after a while I moved in with my dad. I had finally done it, I left my mother’s house. Worked and studied and busted my ass, finally landed a good job out here In midland and then this video pops back up on my algorithm, and upon further inspection, I realized… that house is right down the street from my tias, who also lives in midland. Small world sometimes… hope Parker’s doin great wherever he is 💪🏾 from one kid in a broken family to another.
You are on your own in this world. From day 1 do not ever believe in anything. Stay clear, observe reality, see people for what they are, including those "closest " to you. Never become a slave to your mind.
Caleb, i get the sense that you miss your family thus the need to isolate to mask your pain. Then chg course to isolate in Montana. I can understand your quest to reðefine who you are thus getting sober & getting in shape & getting back to nature. As an older 78yr old female vet, i think you suffer from depression & PTSD As i do. I too isolate & put distance from family. I turn to music to calm me from my panic attacks & anxiety. I see you rebuilding & redefining your life in a positive way.& recognize that your divorce literally destroyed you financially, emotionally & spiritually. She certainly set out to destroy you & did. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned & as JJ says, "you've got to love your kids more than you hate your X"! YOU DID but she didn't hence she couldn't sit down & try to work things out in a fair & reasonabĺe way thus saving ÀLL the courtroom drama & expense. Sounds like she never worked outside the home. Wish you peace & harmony in your journey to a new beginning. Kat
Kat, you nailed it with PTSD, destroying me financially, etc, with one exception. I don’t isolate from my kids. I isolate their current lives from the internet mess that I created out of desperation all those years ago. I am trying to rebuild my life for my sake, but also to set an example to my kids and others to show them that they can also get through life’s curve balls, if they’ll just put their minds to it. Thank you for your kind words.
There should be clear differences between discipline and abuse in the law. Parker's case is plain abuse. You should never have to feel afraid of your parent/s or guardian/s and teenagers should always have a say in where they are living, especially if they do not feel comfortable around the people there.
Is it just me or is it always the narcissistic parents who try to manipulate the reasons behind their kids actions, switch up their parenting in front of other people and never own up to their mistakes.
She keeps doing the opiate rub on her nose lol. Yes I know from experience. She obviously has no allergies going on. Let that child go with his Daddy. If you want what is best for your child then do what makes him happy. He is old enough to say where he wants to live. I have been this child and when my mom took me it ruined my childhood. I wanted to stay with my Daddy. I had a social security check attached to me and she did not want my Daddy to have it.
This destroyed my family. I’ve been trying to warn people about the dangers of family court. I just appreciate that people are can still have sympathy for us.
I know of a situation that should have been like this with an abusive father. Not a single family member stepped up and the mom said she was "too scared to get a divorce". Well enjoy the rest of your miserable life with your abusive husband, knowing that the serious mental issues and trauma of your children are partially your fault 😒 I know this because it's been 20 years. If I wasn't a kid at the time, I would've called cps and the police
