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I don't know what to do it's been more than a year and I still can't move on and can't get him out of my mind and I can't even share my problems with anyone
Blocking from Social Media, Phone, eMail??? Why would you keep the door open for someone who doesn't give two S%^&S about you? Yes, block them, move on, and find somebody that appreciates and cares about you! You deserve better, you deserve to be loved.
But the more I date. The more I see I can't find that person. It makes me think my last was the one I really loved even though she cheated on me and betrayed me. 7 plus years wasted. I am losing hope.
It is over. I blocked him. He is with other women. No discussions here. I wish him the best but he will never see me again and I live in Moscow, so it is HUGE. He can mess his new girl around but I hope he can find peace, but I have my self-respect and I walk away. 😊
My partner and I are in a committed relationship, we've been following each other on Instagram, messaging and video chatting on there for a year. And now I noticed my partner unfollowed me on instagram, while we still talk to each other on there but hasn't accepted my following request. I'm so confused and I want to know why.
This is very true and insightful. It depends on the intensity of the relationship and the connection between the two people. I’ve had 2 year relationships that took me 2 weeks to get over. I once dated a man who I only went on 4 dates with before he left to go back home to another country….it took me years to forget him. I’m currently going through a breakup with a very special person. We were together for 1.5 years but continued to be in touch for a few months after during the breakup. It has been complicated and hard to let him go because of how special he has been in my life but sometimes we have to accept and let go of what’s in the past. I wonder if one day we will meet again but I can’t hold on to that and heal at the same time. For now I have to let go. 😢
Question what if your ex really embarrassed you around your business peers several years ago and now follows and comments on your LinkedIn page. She can't be trusted with my future why would I not block her?
We had a bad row , break up...She blocked me, i went round there to talk she said go away its over , i asked her to unblock me she said no..Then she unblocks me on a friday , night i normally go out.? I messaged her she ignored me !? I got in in the evening well 2 in morning and i had a go at her online for blocking me she said , 'just because she blocked me doesnt mean she wanted to talk to me it was over and i should leave her alone ? I was still unblocked for 3 days , i liked one of her posts she deleted post. Then i was blocked again ! I been blocked now for 4 weeks ?? Whats everyones thoughts ? She said shrs not seeing anyone ..??
I just blocked him and I have blocked him before and he was scolding me because he freaked out that when he couldn’t see my name anymore but either way I don’t need him period
What If she blocked me on Facebook but still kept the relationship going on the phone? She won't give me clarity and it ruined the relationship because I won't let it go.. she lied when I asked about it and said she deleted her social media
She acted distant then disappeared for no reason and i found out she was spending time with someone else, the twist is she dumped him to and went off social media, so i don't know if i should unblock her and check out. Even though i felt a relief after blocking her but still couldn't move on
am really talking to the wrong person I got blocked by my ex twice and even my ex knows how I feel I still get blocked and my friend she got blocked too we were shocked because he didn't even read the second messages before i got blocked he say " i have better friends and i feel better without you" I didn't do anything wrong with my ex he was the one who show he's attitude hurts my feelings after what he saying those things to me
Best way for me to get closure is to go to a psychotherapist and just talk it and cry it out and get angry until I’m sick and tired of hearing myself talk and until I get some Epiphany and realize victimize myself, where I was victimized, and what I’ve learned from it. Journaling also helps with theapps out there that check in on your emotional regulation throughout the day. It’s really nice to be able to talk into those apps and journal and track your progress. Also, joining support groups, Either online or in person. Volunteering for whatever event that you love to do to help others as a way to get out of your own way. Distraction isn’t entirely good from grieving, but when too much grieving goes on, it turns into rumination, which is bad for us. There is a balance.
sooo we were dating for two months, but not yet in a relationship. I was having the time of my life, and to my knowledge, she did aswell. But when I was on a trip abroad for a month, she ended it. We decided to talk in person after I got back. However, when I got back weeks later and texted her I still wanted to talk to her, she said she was busy and said she would let me know when she has time. This is over a month ago, and I'm still dwelling on it, I just cannot handle that I havent gotten to talk to her about it and given a good reason why.
I blocked my ex on instagram after she’s had me blocked for 3 months since the break up recently! She kept playing peekaboo, blocking unblocking. I’ve taken that power away from her by blocking! If she truly wants to know what’s going on in my life, she can pick up the phone!
Wow! These comments really go against Nancy’s advice. I have some advice: blocking them, is not out of hate, or throwing shade, it’s to show grace and closure, to someone you really loved, and that you know it’s over, and to carry on into a new chapter of your life. Showing dignity, to a relationship that you know has died, but there was real love.
She blocked me everywhere, i tried to contact her 4 times in 2 months that's until yesterday when i wrote an email with new mail id because i was blocked on my mail id , she replied move on so i blocked her everywhere so that i can finally start moving on but man it hurts ,it hurts a lot
U are skipping the point we didn't want go block them they didn't want us and we don't want to see them and vice versa anymore u want me be mature and call.
Although I’m really mad with my ex and I would like to know a few things but I feel if I do.. it could result in a restraining order and could get me in trouble at work… it’s not worth the risk what so ever.
I broke with my gf, I take full responsability for what happened, and even if it feels like shit to be in this situation theres no denying that it changed me for the better, Ive learnt a lot. All I know is meeting her, was a blessing of life, a calling from god to do what Im supposed to do which is being the best man that I can be, for myself first, for her even if I ever wont see her again, for the people arround me, this is the thought that helps me feel good, and its pretty much the thing anyone can and should do aftear a breakup, and its simply to get better, improve as a person, do the best possible thing. Anything else thinking about getting your ex back, trying to get a new partner, experimenting with the wrong things (drugs, alcohol, partying) that wont do no good, thats worthless. So everyone out there whos going thru pain because of a breakup get strong, get better wake up everyday go after your dreams, work hard, eventually you will feel good, I think its the best medicine.
If you know you messed up in the relationship and the secure attachment member has decided to end the relationship. Is no contact still the best way to go with this or what would you say the best way to win them back would be? Knowing that you want to actually make it work and are willing to put in the work.
I did it just because she wouldn't leave me alone not to play games... had to block her baby daddy too... he was also threatening me... people are pathetic... and trust me... they will miss you... but that is not the goal... the goal is to move on to bigger and better things 🤙
Blocking someone who isn’t right for you is a very healthy way to move forward, what did people do before mobile phones/social media? They simply walked away or didn’t answer the house phone etc, implement blocking to move forward. Its only an APP on YOUR phone. TAKE CONTROL.
The way ive been i needed to block them. I was constantly checking their socials and waiting for them to reach out during no contact. I was torturing myself and needed to create space to heal. Will I unblock them? Possibly depending on how I feel when I reach a neutral place when I think about her. The fact of the matter is that she hurt me and Im trying to learn lessons, stick up for myself and heal. This seemed like a good step in that direction. I dont hate her even with how she hurt me. But I gave her a good amount of time to make amends and she didn’t. So in gone now. It was painful but I just had to be done with it and heal
I blocked my ex not because i wanted her to feel bad about her actions, but i love her soo much that it's very much painful for me to move on and yeah i haven't deleted any single pictures or video of her with me because even though we broke up i have good memories with her which i cannot forgot and if she's reading this i hope you have a better life and prosperity ❤
