i swear i could be in the deepest trance of wondering where i went wrong with a decision i made 10 years ago and then my enfp friend just reality checks me. intj-a
As an infp, if I wanna be friends with you I'd either write my number on a piece of paper, throw it over my shoulder praying it goes in your direction and bugger off or go up to you, say the most cheesy ass pickup line and then stare for a few seconds and leave awkwardly
What? Am I the only infp who has it easy making friends but just can't for the life of me keep them? I'm always willing to help strangers and thats make it easy to aproach and get along with new people. It's after that I just dont know how to keep in contact without feeling like anxious about becoming annoying to them
As a male intj I have enfj bff, enfp little sis and a friend in class enfp "classmate". I say they are all good but some differences of giving a vibe to me like: -My ENFP sister when I go home because her school is in the morning(6am-11:30am) I'm in the eve(12:30pm-6pm) when I go home she always gives me a hug and I acting like I don't like lol, She listening to my stories, theories, philosophy, everything I know and read from a book -My ENFP classmate/friend in class we talk alot and I give her answers sometimes, she is now doing assignment and projects I help here and she also help me get out of my comfort zone in class, also.. I actually have male friend at class only 2 and I'm really close to her -My ENFJ bestfriend is my friend since 5 or 6y/o I don't forget how we met and how we become so come(it's embarrassing) We always hangout(we don't friend with benefits no!) I'm laughing with her, she's so kind that's why she has so much friends... I like her as a friend but she's also kinda attractive sometimes😅 She just charming and kind yk And also I don't see my self having a gf or wife or bf even tho I'm bi😅
Me: I run away or peek glances at them and make myself present at where they are just to look at them and hear their voice and feel their laughter like butterflies in my stomach and music to my ears
I have a friend who’s ENTP, one of my friendships that go back to elementary. I’d sayyyy, we’re chaotic. Best duo 💯 We’re sending death threats to each other via English teacher (she chill ‘bout it)
I'm an infj and with a staring problem actually. Storytime: When I was first introduced to my best friend (an infp) I thought she looked very anxious and tried figuring out how I could help without seeming pushy or like too much. And then she just started crying, because she hates eye contact and I had just stared at her intensely for ten minutes straight without saying anything. And I just panicked and yk took her out for a breather and just continued staring worried and she just sort of screech-sobbed and asked me to stop and I panicked even more. And then I apologized and went back to my 'four seconds-glance away' rule aaand took her out for a coffee. Now we're besties.
I am an INFP, and I make friends easily but I can't keep them, coz what do you mean we have to talk everyday. I can approach anyone and talk to them for hours if it's about something I like, like kdramas, after that we are done. 😅
so true, tho that was the old me, I have learned to at least reply one or two but I still find it difficult to automatically ask them back, like how about you? And as an infp it is making me down sometimes as I worry if those people I've talked to find me rude or something like that as I opt to awkwardness (i just dont know what to say dafak 👹) rather than prolonging the conversation as they are expecting me to.
