Hey, I'm Anna, a wife, a mother, founder of Claimed and a Feminine Embodiment Coach.
My passion and superpower is helping single successful women attract and keep committed masculine man. On this channel we talk about personal development, redefining female success, embodying femininity, attracting amazing masculine men and sustaining great relationships.
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I'm a man. My ex was super masculine, she had a very demanding mother and was very masculine in the way she approached our relationship. Always trying to compete with me as to who's is bigger. Horrible. Have since done shadow work to grow more into my masculine side and wow. I could never date like her again. Polarity is so important. Otherwise it's just constant repelling. Who wants that?
will also add if someone is booty calling you continually after you have made it clear you dont want. BLOCK HIM. you will not manipulate him by telling him your boundaries or by silent treatment or whatever else into being a decent man who wants real commitment. if he wanted that he wouldnt be acting this way. get him out of your life and move on. thats better advice than anything you will hear here and it is FREE. time spent on the wrong man is time robbed from the right man. dont waste yours!
how to be a feminine woman 1. never get mad or be emotionally present 2. use emotionally neutral therapy speak instead of saying honestly saying when someones disrespect rightfully hurts and pisses you off 3. talk to men condescendingly like theyre a small child instead of being direct. handle them with gloves like they are a delicate egg that could crack at any moment if you dont constantly coddle them and tell them how great they are while theyre breaking your boundaries and being a dick. ironically this is supposed to be a strong masculine man? but you have to speak to him like youre a kindergarten teacher telling your student not to go poopy in the sandpit. I was looking for examples of women setting boundaries because I struggle with that, and unfortunately your garbage came up. a grifter grifting vulnerable lonely women out of their hard earned cash. the last thing I need. lady, you can shove this crap where the sun dont shine
Wow. Thank you for this. So basically, if feminists want to change the patriarchy, they need to focus on changing what women look for in a partner. I highly recommend videos by Karen Straughan
I won't let myself be any woman's emotional tampon. I've got better things to do than to waste my time on women who just want to cry on my shoulder and then toss me away. If it ever happens, it'll only be one time. I won't allow there to be a second one. I'll be firm with her and let her know that I'm not someone you can just run to for comfort and then ditch. Hell no! I don't care how she reacts. I won't let her reaction lower my guard, either.
Women have the power . . they can promote and continue the gender wars, or they can choose to stop the wars. Even when approaching men that respond with hostility, just move on and remain positive - men will respond positively to your positivity. Men don’t want to have hostile relations with women . . . not most men. But men dare not approach women now at all, because of the anti-male culture in US. They risk being reported for harassment, or worse. Rejection too, of the worst kind. It is women that can either keep the war going or call an end to it.
As a man I found this episode incredibly disturbing, and scary. Approaching women is so dangerous these days. Melanie says how the men she coaches are so afraid to approach because they don't want to appear creepy. There's a reason for that. Too many women are ready, willing, and able to get a guy into serious trouble (even prison time) simply for saying, "Hi". Having to read "the clues" from a woman is just too fraught with possible misinterpretation. In particular, "no doesn't always mean no" is so scary and intimidating I can't even fathom it. MGTOW exists for a reason. Modern women's attitudes toward men have led to men deciding it's just not worth it. The potential downsides far outweigh the upsides. I disagree with Melanie: I think there is a world of difference between male and female intuition. And women in particular seem to find it incredibly frustrating when a man doesn't intuit what they're signaling. Men would be completely happy if women would just say how they feel at a particular moment, but women won't do that because they demand that the guy be able to read their signals, and if they can't then obviously he isn't the right guy. I realise your course tries to help women to embrace their femininity, which hopefully would lead to them not being "that girl" but, unfortunately, you can't coach the vast numbers of women who might benefit from it. I have no idea if your course does, or has, helped 'feminazies, but there are a lot of them out there. Just my immediate off-the-top observations.
I'm in a good relationship i do love him and he loves me but now its been a month and I'm feeling like i don't love him but i don't want to let him go i don't want to hurt him i feel like if i leave this relationship I'll regret my whole life for hurting him and i destroyed something beautiful i don't want to run i don't want to end this relationship i want to fix it but i don't know how . I'm a overthinker when i overthink a lot about this i feel like I'm not worth it I don't deserve him and sometimes it feels like I'm not attracted to him anymore ........ But i do think that this is the boredom of our relationship it's a healthy and stable relationship but i can't live with all this overthinking it just depressed me ....... Please help me Please
Thank you for demonstrating this! I just tried it and it feels so good and natural. I’ve made being feminine wrong and I’ve been transforming this over the past few years. Still on my path. This helps.
Maybe if he is the right man for you, he will not mind our questions or being needy? How did women in previous generations manage to attract good men? There was no internet, no dating gurus yet they were super feminine and men courted them and married. What's wrong with being exclusive with a man (not sleeping with him but seeing only him and if after 3 or 6 months still no ring, then tell him that you will keep your options open). Otherwise, if he knows that you're dating other men (even with no sex policy) his focus will be on other women & you both lose on creating an emotional bond. Also if you date around when he wants you to be exclusive show him that you don't like him that much or play games. What do you think of that option?
I just found your video, and I have a situation where it takes it one step further. I dated a Doctor Who lived on a sailboat who grew up with a very controlling mother, and he said his dad basically got screwed even though I think he had a choice. He then went on to get married and have children and went through a horrible divorce. where he ended up paying her $12,000 a month in child support and alimony. One of the very first things he brought up when we started dating was how I felt about splitting everything. Obviously he’s a doctor and makes a heck of a lot more than I do, but I have no problem doing what I can. My point is women bring so much more to the table than just financial. He wanted me to split the bill yet he wanted a woman who is in her feminine. He clearly was making me pay the price for his very narrow view of women, and was very angry at what he had to pay to his ex and I can’t help but wonder if that didn’t seep into his very early on conversation about splitting everything. Your thoughts?
its dumb to choose for financial reasons. This is why there is so many single mothers out there. Choose a partner that is a stand up guy and will look after you and your child. Or get a job and quit going for losers that just want you for your body.
