Two best friends (Sarah and Kaitlyn) who are changing the culture by being honest about typical life struggles. By being real about things we all deal with... yet barely discuss.
By showing that a GOOD life, is not one that looks good, it is one that you are fulfilled and content in REGARDLESS of your circumstances.
Parties, attention, fame, money, amazing looks, an amazing body, a great face, none of those things matter if you are not fulfilled on the inside. You know this! You know that even if everyone is constantly telling you you're the coolest person they know, but you yourself know the truth about your life, it does not even matter.
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we spit real truth, truth that is not found in this confused world in hopes that you would receive the HOPE for your life that is freely yours to take.
Needed this message right here sis❤️🩹Have been dealing with IMMENSELY this past month, and it’s been a struggle.. from the panic attacks, hyperventilating, head, heart, and digestion issues.. But since my last hospital visit I’ve been actively seeking God more and I feel much much better.. and there’s comfort in knowing I’m not alone in this struggle
Yep, almost two years of this and it’s hard. Leaning on and trusting the Lord Jesus more. Focusing on Psalm 23 and 91 recently and speaking it out loud. Rebuking the devil in Jesus’ name and by his blood.
I was a male model and on academic scholarship. Had a high body count... But Less than 100. Met my future wife and just knew. Graduated as an undergrad one weekend got married the next weekend... We chose to be monogamous over 30+ years. Lost her to Alzheimer's. Now i am starting all over again. Fyi Sex is spiritual but note spirit at any level is/are supportive. Shame and other negative feelings are generated by people seaking power for them selves. Blessings to all people on their journey.
Became born again in 1995, got carried away by different kinds of teachings like you can lose your salvation, until recently I believed Jesus Christ alone for salvation, obviously good works follow believing but I had the simplicity of the gospel backwards and lived for 3 decades in and out of backsliding, anxiety and depression until I I recently believed Jesus Christ alone for salvation and its through Gods grace, eternal life is a 100% free gift, out of 100% how much did Jesus pay on the cross? 100% ,therefore you cannot even add 1% to the finished work of the cross.
Thanks to birth trauma my apperance was altered, my chest got deformed (pectus excavatum) since birth, ears also got deformed since birth also I have right smaller eye so not much in looks department, and I have to live with it my entire life, sure there is surgery to fix everything, but I accepted myself the way I'm, it was easy thanks to my family support, I thank them for understanding and accepting me the way I'm. Also I'm a feminine man who has women hormones inside, I can't change my genetics this is who I'm, a feminine man who likes cute things, if you gonna judge me for liking cute things fine with me, I don't really care. I faced the fact that my apperance will never change and I'm okay with it, if there will ever be a woman who accepts me the way I'm I will be happy, but if it won't happen I will be happy as well and live my single life. Learn from me don't question you apperance and live with it, in my case I had to live with it for 30 years and will live my remaining years like this, so live you life happily even if you don't look like all the others, because looks are only temporary with age looks fade away and there is nothing but bad personality left, so yeah looks are not everything, personality is also important.
This video is severely underrated. Humans are not that objective. You stop living your life and get stuck in overanalysis once you start labeling yourself and others. Even a diagnosed narcissist is nothing but a deeply traumatized human being. The key is to always have your boundaries. Just live and stop labeling.
I’m so glad this came on my feed.. I was having a real bad health anxiety low after I was kinda starting to feel better and was feeling so alone and hopeless.. thank you for this.. I KNOW God will heal and deliver me in Jesus name🥹😭🙏
That's a trip that seafood was a trigger for you, because I've had a similar experience with food and just started cutting stuff out of my diet until eating itself had become a anxiety inducing situation that'd avoid. Wow... Thanks for sharing.
In addition to Kaitlyn's words, I strongly recommend David Diga Hernandez's testimony of how the Holy Spirit delivered him from anxiety. You can find the testimony on youtube.
We're all born with different faces, there's someone out there who wishes that they look like you, because they dont even match standards that you do. Life is beautiful my friend, and there are some beautiful people out there who see the beauty in you. Enjoy the beauty thats been gifted to you, because I promise that it is there, cheer up and accept yourself just a little more everyday, you've got this🙌
Sweetheart - I’m so sorry! You deserve so much better. This is not only disrespectful but also degrading - you shouldn’t allow such negative opinions to impact your confidence.
I am so very late on this video but I hope you can respond to this. Everything you have talked about hit hard but in different reasons. I come from a Christian family and going to college I held those beliefs and I would say very early on I knew that hookup culture, partying, etc.. was all bad and just a false feeling to help yourself get that high and validation from other. I’m in my sophomore year and I see so many people going to these party’s, hooking up with multiple people and seeing this makes me sad thinking I am missing out of creating new friendships and relationships. But the more I pray and see more into how the devil does these evil things to entice you, I see that it’s not really enjoyable but very dehumanising. I still struggle to find a Christian girl in college that doesn’t go out and party but I feel that it’s gonna be a 1 in a million to find that.
I disagree, I like labels because it helps identify the barriers in your life and gives you a community of others. Once you know your barriers you can overcome them with skills.
Hi! Could you clarify a bit more about the 'overcome' part? Im not ragebaiting or anything and apologies in advance if the text feels passive-aggressive. I hold an opinion that labels limit you and cause a problem in the long run But if you have a different opinion or experience- I just would like to know why and how
@@ABI-fu8gy for me a label gave me freedom to diffuse who I am with traits related to the label. It was easier to be self aware and cope knowing others are just like me. It gave me community and I felt very seen and understood. It eliminated the shame I felt, like why I am different? Also, hearing other people’s testimonies are so inspiring. It took me three therapists to find the fourth one that would give me a label and openly talk about it and that was when the true healing began for me. I felt very dismissed when I asked about my diagnosis and the therapist says it doesn’t matter.m, Everything is on a spectrum. Well I can tell you It absolutely does matter to me and kindly asked them to please do your job and diagnosis me. It definitely hindered the therapeutic relationship for me because it just made me feel like I was there to vent and not actually learn about my barriers for reaching my full potential. I learned I just don’t like the humanistic approach.
Thank you for sharing this message. You were God's answer to my questions. I'm grateful for your content to come into my life in divine timing and for God's grace it blessed my day today, got me humble and crying to Him because I now finally can see Him for who he is, and his role in my life as a giver and my role as a receiverto open my heart. Thank you again!
Hello. I’m sorry you are going through this but there is always a reason for everything. I just lost my job after 23 yrs with the company. The company closed down. And this was a job that was God ordained for me. Anyway keep praying God wants you to be close to him. And believe me I know it’s hard try to be as positive as you can. Talk to your family or someone close to you. Do whatever makes you feel good. Maybe God wants to change something in your life. And NEVER give up. God will heal this. I’m praying for you. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Great video.my son has been battling anxiey since last sepyember. All your tips are great and i have been encouraging him in a few of them. You have shared some new ones, thank you so much for sharing. I know God will heal hom totally in His timing🙏❤️
Thank you! I needed this. i was stuck in an abusive relationship because with holding sex was used as a punishment to control me! If i didn't have sex i would have left
Thank you. Just…thank you. The church’s advice in general on panic disorders is awful. I was told for years- YEARS- to pray harder, that my faith wasn’t strong enough, I might not be saved, I needed deliverance from demonic influence. I found ACT which has helped enormously, but is missing the spiritual aspect. Your advice here shows that you’ve actually been through it, you accepted it AND you walked it with the Lord. I’d forgotten God is with me in it, and stopped praying for healing. Thank you so much for this video.
Im a 33 year old man and ive never been confident in my looks. But recently ive noticed things more since ive been changing my diet and exercise for better health and to be a better example for my 2 little boys as they get older. But during this positive journey of bettering myself ive become more aware of what i dont like about myself. I have a few bad things going for me that i cant change such as being short, shaving my head for years because i started balding in my 20s and as a kid i had bad teeth and didnt look after them which has resulted in me having crappy teeth as an adult. Theyre getting whiter since ive been using better toothpastes and stuff but ive lost most of the enamel on the front teeth and this can make them look a little transparent rather than nice and white. And to top that off, today i chipped the cap on a front tooth whilst brushing, leaving me even more insecure. Ive finally got to a point i have a balanced diet and i exercise more often and im loosing weight, ive also started making an effort to dress a lot nicer. But despite those things i still feel like i will be looked down on for my teeth or my height etc.
I have ADHD, so I really struggle to care for myself independently, so I'm really worried about going off to university. However, my family dogs have always helped me keep a routine, and weirdly enough help me study, because I do a thing called 'energy breaks' and they get a 10 minute or so walk/run every half hour during my study hours, because it helps me to focus and reduce my social anxiety when I go out. (I'm not really interested in college parties and stuff). For these reasons, I really want a dog in University, but I live in the UK so a lot of places are no pets allowed and the cost of living is so insane, so although pet prices are roughly the same, rent and food bills certainly are not. I don't know whether it is worth it, but getting my own dog has always been an absolute dream of mine, and dogs are just my everything and I don't know how I'll live without one. It's a really hard decision for me, honestly.
