Dont understand why you watch Matthew Hussey's videos( I came from one of your comments). You could get any man if you wanted to 🤔. You are a good looking woman and honest about yourself which are both good things.
I just like his videos. I’m actually married and have a baby now. But I sometimes agree and sometimes I think I should write my own book for women. I think telling anxious women how to change for avoidant men, isn’t creating happy relationships. That’s what most coaches teach.
@@TheMissyMoser Yup, I breezed through your insta and I'm happy for you 😄, just didnt feel like deleting the comment. Yes you are right, women who change for the man ALOT, that is not good for them, mainly because, the man is not going to respect you. If anything he will be repulsed by it but will love the power over her. The man will love the control he has on the woman, but at the same time he will grow less respect for her, as he knows she is ready to do anything for him and can be easily manipulated. I find myself doing it unconsciously, now that I recognize it. Women who throw themselves at me ( it happens rarely) , I dont know what it is, but I automatically grow less fond of them and dont feel like pursuing it anymore. This is in the initial phase though, like when you just start talking or just over the "crush" phase or very very early in a relationship. Ofcourse after the initial period which for me would mean a couple months, I would love to be all over her, and would love the affection to be reciprocated. But it shoudnt be like your selling your soul or bending too much for the others affection because it reeks of insecurity. A smart person would move on if they feel they are carrying the most of the relationship and their affection is not reciprocated. Infact if anything, that would bring the man to his senses, and understand that she is an equal and cannot tolerate bullshit. I'm not saying you should hide your insecurities. No. We all have them. And only when partners are completely transparent about themselves with the other, can the relationship last. But it shoudnt translate to 'I've got no dignity, self respect for myself, so I'll do anything for you king". No thats not right either. A balance is necessary. The book sounds like a good idea 👍🏽
Seems, 180 from your most recent post, happiness is around the corner yea? Somewhere over the rainbow, it’s not really an illusion now, this pursuit of hapyness :)
Hey missy... I wanted to ask if there was a way I could email you about Lana Del Rey.?.?. Please get back to me;) mention me in a comment if you answer❤️ thank you...
Very impressive -being on stage is WAY different than singing in a private room... great to see you can also handle much more demanding material so well - congrats!
