you can look at the generator timers, if they are normal the other players are lagging and if not it's either your connection or the server which you can check by looking if there's a ping spike
I have a super important tip for Cant Touch This. INVISIBILITY POTIONS. When you have the wool, immediately rush mid and ignore everything else. Your bed doesnt matter, since dying isnt an option anyways, and you are not gonna fight anyone. So rush mid and spend all your emeralds on invisibility potions as soon as possible. You want to spend most of the game invisible. Once you get some resources, buy sources of knockback like a bow and especially a knockback stick. While you're invisible, you can sit on a bridge, and when someone runs past, pull out your stick and one-hit them into the void. Immediately run backwards, since most people will throw a revenge fireball at the bridge, which will ruin your run. I recommend also buying a bridge egg when you have the chance so you can quickly get to someone's bed while they're gone, since you have to break a bed to win the challenge. Basically, your #1 priority should be staying invisible, let the game play out while you stock up on emeralds, and break a bed when there are 2-3 left, then let everyone fight it out, and finally, void someone while invisible. There is absolutely no reason to not be invisible and let someone fireball you. Remember, take this to heart, your goal isnt to not die or to not start fighting someone. Your goal is to completely, utterly avoid everyone the entire game and make your presence as mysterious as possible. If someone randomly fireballs you, its over. If they tnt jump while you chase them, its over. If they place a golem, its probably over. do NOT engage in any combat that isnt an in-and-out instakill, and buy invisibility potions, it will make everything so much easier.
your content and bedwars skill is so entertaining, thank you so much for uploading despite having bigger priorities in life rn! (very relatable as exam season is upon me and bedwars is out of the question lol :'))