Hmm sounds like my mom... and apparently its all my fault she lost her kids to cps because i didnt keep the house clean and i ate at the free breakfast program at school . Not possibly because she slept all day had her 9 yr old (me) taking care of her youngest babies, didnt cook or clean moved around constantly took strange men home all the time (most registerd child offenders) (married a child offender) and gambled away all her money fr the gov every month. 🫠
I'm so sorry ): Rib fractures usually heal on their own so that's probably why didn't have much medical intervention following. Not sure about the healing process for tailbones. It seems like you have overcome much ❤
That's exactly how cps treated me too... I always thought maybe if my parents weren't so careful about not leaving marks that someone would believe me but I guess probably not, my parents were just like yours in that they could act so innocent for cops and cps and I only got out when I went to college and even now they are still in my life and I don't want them to be
I heard a story of me being abused and a foster home which I had no memory of. And not until my 40s while seeing a doctor she asked me when did I break my collar bone. I said never! I had never remembered that happening only other injuries I got as a kid after my adoption. So apparently I had a healed collar bone. So I believe you girl! It's hard when I hear stories of parents who don't either admit they abused their kids. Or if not them abusing they don't listen to the child and talk down to them.
🤗 🤗 🤗 Wow, you were a brave kid, with proper integrity! I'm sorry that wasn't celebrated and you were manipulated to distrust your own power by the very person who should be your first steadfast advocate and guide - no one deserves that. You scared your mother rigid!! She couldn't face what she'd done and knew it was dangerous to cross you so tried to bury that integrity of yours. I hope you have managed to 'grey rock' these people, get out there and thrive despite them ❤ (this is the first video of yours I've seen) I love that adult you is advocating for kid you. You are doing important work and I am rooting for you 💕 keep standing in your truth, it's beautiful and hard won x
We call this a double falling angel, were I do silks. We love when your shift gets stuck in the not and you can’t get out because you leaned over and it’s hard to pull up. 💀
Put a diaper on her the ones that you can Tatch to the sidesAnd tell her ass to put it on you’re the mother and if she takes it off make her lay in it or make her clean it up trust me if you can make them do something they don’t want to do especially in the middle of the night they won’t do that shit no more they’ll put a diaper on and there’s ones out there that you can attach to the side and ones that look like panties I hope you got that plastic bed I’m pretty sure you do she’s three right
"Oh Crap, Potty Training" is the book that we used with both of ours. For bedtime we stop all drinks 1h before bedtime. Try to go 30m before bed and again right before. Personally we just had them naked from the waist down. Put a cheap fleece blanket down because if it gets wet she won't feel it or make the sheets a few layers so you can just pull off the soiled ones ans don't habe to wake her up when you change them. Wake dream pees starting around 10p and 2a and adjust until you know when she's peeing. Then push it, drop the morning one, and then drop the first when she's ready.
She has no control over her bladder while asleep until her brain has developed the signal to wake her up. This happens at different ages use a waterproof pad under her.
No drinks an hour before bed. And let her crack it her way. My three girls were dry day and night by 2-3 years old, but my son is almost 7 and still may wet the bed if he drinks to close to bedtime…..
I buy the ultra cheap ones from wal-mart or dollar tree. They say the cheap ones with the pipettes are the ones most closest to the ones the dr.'s offices use. It helps my wallet and eases my mind because I've suffered with hormonal imbalances my whole. Now, don't y'all go wipe out all the stock at these places since I put y'all on this. Lol. (Jk)
Ummm about 3 h after she’s been asleep carry her to the bathroom for a dream pee ! And before you go to bed! Put a pee pad on her bed to protect it, cut feet off of zipper or snap onesie, pajamas, and wear backwards. Finally, if you’re desperate, I’ve heard of people duct taping the diaper on.
PJs backwards can help @ 1st Limit fluids an hour before bed & make sure they goe to the bathroom before bed and right after shes awake. Put puppy pads under sheets and have 2 sets on the bed, so if thers an accident, its easier to clean in the night. GL
