Hey Ben. Come back. We wanna know how are you, how is life going. But if you don't want to, be happy, be a good father. You seem like a nice guy. Have a good life.
Ben, you are missed! Come back. It's okay. Jenn uploaded her new chapter vid, you should too❣️ Your new chapter, with your son in vids or not. Just living life, being a Dad, cooking, playing music, etc. We love you!🥰
What I learned is do not marry, the moment you find out you are pregnant leave him . Some may think this is cold but they didn't witness the beatings I went through and the two years of stalking when I tried to get away with my child. The marriage laws , having family in the justice he got MY child despite the multiple reports of abuse
As much as I like Jenn & Ben as individuals in how they present themselves, their separation has truly allowed me to reflect that social media is 100% a career and a job to do and nothing more. This is the case for every other social media influencer as well. Everything is curated and crafted for the audience to consume. There is a lack of genuine action and thoughtfulness to do it solely for each other ("we need to film and get paid so let's film a date" versus "lets just have a date for ourselves"). It is setting up cameras, and then going back to walk in front of them to add the effects that it's live. For them it is a job, it is not real and it does not truly represent their authentic relationship or way of life. Obviously no one films the bad, so it is acting and fiction. I am not saying they did not love each other and weren't authentic (of course they were), but what they displayed on social media is a façade and an idealism of what they believe looks great for their audience to consume. Ben posted this 8 months ago, and rumors started to emerge that they separated 6 months ago; two months later from this "PERFECT" date video. They had to appear perfect to get paid. It is deeply disingenuous and we should not forget that and never compare ourselves to social media influencers.
Ha! I guess I'm gullible or naive. I did buy into this relationship as genuine. They seem so happy. One thing I always did think about Ben was that he based his whole life on Jenn's career. I've aways wanted to tell him "do something on your own and not tied to Jenn" because if they do split up, he will have nothing. He will have been a videographer for Jenn and that is about it. I suppose this channel is Ben's deal but perhaps not the big income generator as Jenn's channel. There was this quote I heard in another video which was Jenn saying how much Ben sacrificed. This is true. He did sacrifice a lot. He left England to live in the USA, he left his role as a bandmember. And he never really carved out his own career in the USA. I felt he would eventually grow resentful. Perhaps that is what did them in - the imbalance of it all. Also, I heard Jenn in another video say "I bought a house." not "we." And I think this was already after they were married. So that said something about their relationship too.
Watching this now after Jenn's public announcement about your divorce and this makes me so sad 😢I have been following you guys since day one. The videos about your long-distance relationship and the proposal will forever be my favorites. Just wanted to let you know that I loved seeing you together as a couple and I will always enjoy watching you both as individuals. I hope the healing process isn't too painful and that you both find happiness like never before. Sending both of you a huuuuuuge hug!
Ben I’m vegan and so is my fiancé. Sharing this crucial value I feel is so incredibly important especially when it comes to us one day having a family so we can be on the same page with feeding and educating our child. How are you and Jenn managing this? I notice Lennon eats meat, including red meat. Does that sit well with you?
Your advice is always so thoughtful and I really appreciate the effort you put into every single video, Ben! Thanks so much for sharing this advice, i found this so helpful!
Was enjoying listening until the part of the queuing up to get a bloody covid test. Probably would have got sick standing in a 2 hour queue like the rest of the sheep who where in line aswell. Sure if anyone had any sense of awareness they wouldn't have went out and got there poison shots thinking it was our way to freedom and health. It's also good become awake in this fake world we live in aswell as finding our true self that can be disconnected to the ego we carry along with us.
Running has always been one of my most favorite activities, for cardio, just to clear the mind, sometimes just to be in the moment and really be present with myself as I put myself through this challenging exercise. But I have found myself to put it aside for a while now, and just watching this gave me the motivation to get back into it. Keep up the amazing work Ben! Love your videos! And I definitely enjoyed this specific style for sure! Can’t believed it been a year, and I missed it😭 Much love from NY🫶🏼💪🏼😁
