I really believe in co parenting.Its all about communication. But my partner doesn't believe that's where another problem comes in. This is a very wide topic. I wish I can record 😂😂😂😂
Setting clear boundaries and sticking to it without second thought. There are baby mamas who are dramatic They will call intentionally to cause problems. The pride in me can't make me cause drama 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 And it has saved me
Hi gals thanks for sharing this great insight into the drama, comming from the baby mama experience, first is one has to set clear boundaries, stick to it, provide for the child through the rightful channels, pay school fees and never tolerate any nonsense like calls past 6pm. Am one who used not to pick every call from baby mama everytime she calls. But am greatful it all past and now am free.
I agree with Kasozi. As long as the baby daddy is doing his part of paying school fees plus other responsibilities, the baby mama should be calm. However, if they are not doing their part, it becomes hard for the mamas to be calm since the wellbeing of the child or children is at stake. The victim part comes in when the man is actually not responsible right from the time they are courting the lady. It is a 2 way thing and really dependent.
I have always desired having an odd number for balance. So either 3 or 5. I always imagined that if they are two, it will feel like one is smart, the other dumb, one is beautifully and the other not. So i wanted a kid to be sort of in the middle to "break the tension" or create some balance.
I love what you women are doing! Actually you guys are on your way to setting a side hustle that eventually will turn to a very powerful business overtime if you guys keep going forward 💪💪💪
