We created this RU-vid Channel to create content for Same sex couples who are also going through or have gone through a TTC Journey.
LESBIAN COUPLE TTC - IUI SUCCESS STORY
Katja is German and works as a stage technican and Hayley is English and works as a professional dancer and dance teacher, We both currently live in Hamburg, Germany. We have been married since 2019 and will be expecting our little miracle Baby February 2021.
We will be uploading lots of new and exciting content once a week to our channel, from Vlogs, Baby Talk, Days out, Questions and Answers etc....lots of exciting new content coming your way! We hope you enjoy!!
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Hi there, I'm a visual researcher for STALKR and I am wondering if some of the footage I saw on your youtube channel can potentially be licensed? Looking forward to hearing from you, thanks, Katarina
Sorry I know this was from a year ago, but the only changes I made was finding a different doctor and changed Sperm donor. I also used the trigger shot the day of the iui itself. But in terms of physical changes to my diet, I did nothing. I didn’t think I was pregnant this cycle. Hope this helps you x
Hi. I love your channel i hope you are fine. Im with my girlfriend since more than 1 year and we can't get past the step of telling our parents. Shes 34 and want to have kids but we have a lot of work to do. I am just really happy for you.
Nothing for the pain?? That doesn't sound right. I know some women opt for natural births (not me-I had an epidural within 4 minutes of arriving at the hospital because I was completely uninterested in feeling any labor pains whatsoever), but they will usually at least supply nitrous oxide or something to take the edge off for people who don't want epidurals. But then, I gave birth in Canada so, different, I guess? So sorry you went through that! I don't blame you at all for being traumatized or not wanting to do that again; I wouldn't want to either, had that been my experience! Thank you for sharing so honestly, and I hope you are recovered now!
Wow, Hayley, i think you look totally beautiful😃... you really have the mama-glow and I think your body really just begins to look „normal“ again. It’s only been 10 weeks, so I think you look great👌🏻😍. No need to panic😍 And btw i think it’s a dream Situation to lose all the hair down there 😂. No more shaving 👌🏻😊
Looking forward to your future videos, my wife and I are expecting I am 8 weeks pregnant 🤰🏻 I remember watching y’all while you were TTC. It’s amazing how time goes by congratulations on your baby. Definitely take care of yourself and do what you need to do to be happy 😃
Aww Thankyou , we really need to update and do a new video it’s been so long - I guess you are due anytime now (-: we wish you all the best with your birth xx and welcoming of your little one - time really does go fast ❤️
Firstly thank you. Thank you for sharing your story, that really couldn't have been easy to talk about. Secondly, I know you keep laughing it off and saying it probably doesn't sound traumatic... But no. Honestly you are completely and totally justified, it sounds absolutely horrendous!! I'm so sorry you had that awful experience. Your story makes me honestly angry that care providers could do that to you. I'm glad you're healing and you have your beautiful daughter now ❤️
Thankyou so much for you lovely comment 💕 and Thankyou for watching our video - I am glad I get to have such a platform to share my experience- hopefully others will then be more aware x
That corridor of death sounds like hell! I'm sorry you had to go through that. I think that's awful that you weren't allowed your wife with you all that first bit with such cold staff. Birth isn't meant to be something you go through alone! 😔 Your little girl is so beautiful and so worth all of it though 💕 x
It’l really was awful walking down and up all the time with such contractions- I honestly don’t know why they do it - the staff was so cold I put an official complaint in but I never heard back from them. Thankyou so much for watching 💕💕💕
I was exactly like this, never believed people when they said I would be tired, you don't realise the reality till it happens, so worth it though! Beautiful family 🥰
I am so sorry that your birth experience was not what you were expecting and defiantly don't say it sounds more traumatic than it was because that was traumatic and very real for you to go through it. You are one strong mama and you should be very proud of yourself. Your daughter is absolutely beautiful. Katja stepped in when she needed to and that is what a wife should do. I applaud you for sharing as it must be hard to say out loud. It really should be talked about more. Birth isn't really all sunshine and rainbows, so talking about your experience educates others :)
Thankyou so much for your comment - and for watching our video - I am honestly so greatful to have my wife that came and ultimately saved me - it would for sure of been a c section had she not - I don’t know how medial professionals can get away with it. In the end we are all happy now and I hope by sharing my story can spread awareness to others - Thankyou again for watching and taking time to comment x Hayley x
It's a right of passage for new mum's to have a mini shit show happening in the home till getting a minute!!! They grow so fast she will sleep through the night when she is ready well done girls enjoy the journey take care👍👍🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈
That hospitalstory sounds really bad and traumatic. I really have the feeling they were so disrespectful to you and I am very sorry you went through that. Of course, they could have given you something against the pain. When i was in labor, it was a long time too, cause my cervix wouldn’t become open. They gave me medicine to have more contractions and then alternating they gave me something against the pain. That is a shit hospital. I really must cry when you tell the story. It’s horrible. I have wished you a much more beautiful experience of giving birth😘 and hope you can get over and forget that. She is so beautiful and cute ❤️
Thankyou for your message , yes the hospital was really bad - we got the file from the hospital to read through, It’s an experience I don’t want to do again that’s for sure (-: so good they gave you at least the right medications and helped you - I don’t know why mine went so wrong )-: xx
Thankyou so much , I know im so Lucky - I wish in a way I would of just left the hospital and gone to another one - but I’m so glad my wife came to my rescue xx
No I wouldn’t consider a c section I would definitely choose a different hospital to give birth in that’s for sure and do more research on looking at reviews of the hospitals - I would never choose an induction again over a suspected big baby - I would maybe only consider a c section if baby’s head was measuring bigger again. But not an induction.
So sorry you had such an horrific time, yes, you are totally right in everything you say about what made it so traumatic, being ignored, etc etc, and I expect they lost your notes on purpose. Thank you so much for sharing, and look after yourself, hope sharing it helped relieve some of the pain.
Thankyou so much for your comment , sorry taking me some time to read these on here - I’m so glad I could share my story hopefully it will help others in the future in decision making - I have put a complaint in with the hospital - I hope to hear back from then soon , although I’m not quite sure what I expect to happen with it //: xx
I made it only to 2 min dear, sorry I have to skip this one! I am currently pregnant and cannot bring myself to hear this.. I have heard one too many horror stories already and I cannot handle it right now! You have every right to tell your story of course and I hope the experience of talking about it was cathartic! Why dont you look for some psychological support? Like maybe talk to a therapist? there is no shame in talking it out with a therapist, I did it in the past for something that was emotionally hurting me and it was a super positive experience!
That’s no worries I understand - this is why I did a trigger warning❤️ I know it’s hard to hear the negatives when pregnant , I’m sure you will have a much more positive experience then me xx
I am so sorry to hear you're story! And please don't say it does not sound as traumatic. It sounds so traumatic and just horrible. I hope you can somehow find legal, something like this can't possible happen in 2021! It must be so traumatic not being heard, I also don't think it sounds right that they did things to you without you're consent (like cutting you etc.). It is really brave of you sharing you're story and I hope you will never experience something like this again! Luckily you have you're beautiful daughter and she is well.
It’s crazy I actually never even thought about that part / them not asking consent before cutting - I know they didn’t ask for consent before they gave me the sedative during labor - I just thought it’s normal not to ask if they need to cut you /-: I am happy Emmi is safe and sound, although it was traumatizing for me, I hope I can get over it one day - and try to only focus on the good parts like the moments I seen my baby for the first time - hopefully the bad memories will fade. ❤️ Thankyou for commenting and Thankyou so much for watching xx Hayley
Really the care factor of the nurse's ect unbelievable it seems they enjoyed seeing people in pain actually my eldest was 8 pounds and a bit I had stitches but was given injection to numb the area so it wasn't so bad at least a beautiful baby girl at the end of an less than pleasant experience I don't blame you I wouldn't go again either take care enjoy being a mum👍👍👍👍🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈
I so wish they had given me an injection to numb the area was so painful , sounds like you got the right looking after - I honestly don’t know what happened with my hospital- I put a complaint in although I’m not sure they will care to read it xx thank you for watching our story xx
