Sometimes you really need to provide basically the lore of a problem-solution scenario because that’s the way to find a more accurate diagnostic. It’s not that you’re an idi°t, it’s just that there are times where men & men as much as men & women need to sync into something to get out of it or find their different perspectives around an issue
‘Respect’. If a man opens up or shows vulnerability to his partner she loses respect for him so we have been sexually selected to be stoic. It’s toxic femininity not masculinity that’s made men this way.
No Don't worry about it. There are much harder times coming and we will only think of turmoil. Then simply you shall see a simple man protect the ones he loves. Trust me that these times of internal FRIVOLOUS monologue are soon to be over. Give it 12- 16 years.
Because if a man would show a struggle, the females are going to the next so sophisticated lier, as they choose respective to gain money, might, wealth and stability. Which isn‘t completely wrong, but it excludes the mans needs totally. Man: stay away from wimen! They aren‘t good for your health! At least as long they can take profit from it. Otherwise you will be dismissed like a Porta pottie.
Hit the nail right on the head. Anticonformity is not freedom; you are still slaves of the patriarchy as you still let it dictate your every move, even if those moves are the exact opposite of what it wants!
Pretty accurate. Lot of wisdom there. It's also important to remember that a lot of guys aren't necessarily denying or burying their feelings -- many just don't feel things as intensely as women, or their most intense feeling relate to the external world (like politics or their work), not their interior experience, their relationships, etc. Not all, but many.
If the girl allows you to take photos of her, that's a good sign. If she is instructing you to help with her modelling photos and have multiple angles in revealing clothes, she is not doing it for you and you should dump her.
Honestly thank you, but another reason we don’t open up is because it just comes back and hits us in the jaw in some way. Most of the time it’s better to suck it up and deal with it than be knocked down
I'm in a happy marriage for 13 years, we have 3 children. And I say: if my wife wants do go out dressed like whatever... that's her bussiness. I'm not insecure. I'm not owner of my wife. She is a person who can decide for herself. She could even walk down the street naked if she chooses to. It's her bussiness, it doesn't have to do anything with me or our relationship. AND it doesn't mean that anyone is allowed to do anything to her. She decides what happens to her. I usually like your sketches, but this one, I don't
Sadly in my experience (im 48) a lot of women will weaponise any kind of honesty from men. It may not be immediate, but sooner or later theyll drag you for it, next day or a decade later, its easier to be stoic and just get on, "society" has ruined relationships....
When I shut down it's because I want to gather and organize my thoughts and not let my emotions dictate my actions and words. I know myself well enough that I know how I am when emotions are running high. Let me just cool down a bit and I'll talk to you. Otherwise you'll just annoy me because you're interrupting my proccess of self reflection.
Why can’t I find a woman like this? I found one so many years ago, and I had to walk away because she had to fix parts of her that I couldn’t. All I wanted to do was treat that woman like a queen for the rest of her life. Better than a queen. Treat her like she should be treated… As the most important thing in my life. I have children. My youngest is in high school. I’ve had people tell me that I’m bad for wanting a relationship while I should be concentrating on my kids. I love my kids to the moon. I have sacrificed my career, my social life, I live in a place that I don’t want to and where I have no friends or family for my children, and I was so busy taking care of them I haven’t had a lot of time to make more friends and family here. The few I did moved away because they were from the East Coast like me and had a hard time living here too I just want to fall in love again. I want to find my one and only and I’m not too old yet. I do feel the years starting to creep up though… women like this, give me hope. As for anyone who’s going to try and say, I shouldn’t be looking for a relationship while I have children, screw off. I will never stop loving my children or doing everything they need, even if I find a woman who takes their place as number one. That last statement got some really upset. Your spouse should be your number one even if your children came first. My children and I have open, honest and respect filled relationships. They already know that I’m seeking my one true love. They also know that my love for them is completely different and I can love a woman and have her be my number one without abandoning my children. I don’t know why people find these concepts so difficult or offensive. Just my opinion.
I'm 16 and i got stubble kinda thin and few thick goatee or whatever you called and damn i look ugly as hell my stubble and goatee is so orange and i am southeast asian
There are very few women like you left in the world. I tried online dating for a while, didn’t meet anyone like you. I would say you missed out on one small point and that is women often weaponize their frustrations against their men. They don’t forgive and forget, rather, remember and bring it up on a regular basis often leading them to filling animosity. Men can feel animosity too. It starts with communication. A man who understands romance, understands it because he recognizes that romance is an individual thing. He hast to take the time to listen to the woman he’s with. She will communicate to him what she needs. A man will do the same. if a woman takes the time to listen and offers her man the very things that he needs, she will be treated better than a queen. She will be treated as the one thing in that man’s life he cannot live without. Just one guy’s opinion.
I have no drive, I'm not interested in joining the hamster wheel bullshit where nothing is ever enough, especially not for some wack ass, pathetic modern chick who doesn't understand loyalty. I do have "permanent contentness", I'm grateful for what I have, because I've lost way more than most people, and that taught me a few things💁🏻♀️ I would never go through some chick's phone, because I don't care, and I already know she's talking to other dudes, because modern women are children. I would never allow a woman to ever touch my phone either, just on principle. With that being said, I'm 6'5", naturally athletic, a deep voice, I love to fight, and I have the jaw line of Superman. I'll do whatever, and whoever, the hell I want, and I'll take any of these girls seriously💁🏻♀️
