Marrying who God has not ordained you to marriage is the problem that I see. Marry who God shows you to marry stop just marrying who you want. Fasting and praying asking God if this is the spouse for you. I believe God will reveal if the man is your husband or not.
I'm just here because of tiktok.🙃 There's nothing wrong with Zae choosing with her free will to stick it out with this man. But everything she touched on about the aftermath is why I divorced my EX. If God has forgiven him for cheating and treating another woman as a pawn in his brokenness. He will forgive the woman who could not stay married to someone who would do this. My EX got caught cheating after 13 years. I prayed on it. We went to consueling. But I ultimately decided to divorce him. I'll never regret that decision. God is still very good to me. I'm remarried to someone else because I believe in the covenant. But plenty of us ain't staying after infidelity and / or someone physically putting their hands on us in any way. As your husband explained, when women do stay, these things get normalized. They shouldn't be.
unfortunately men who grow up with single mothers expect women to be super women and find it super difficult to be the man of the house. Hopefully he can find a community of God fearing men that can bring him under his wing. Zae seems to have a submissive spirit but he doesn’t know how to lead or love like Christ yet.
Keep sharing yall story and being vulnerable your story is what helped me and your vulnerability was a blessing. May the Lord bless you and your family!!! ❤
Hi Zae, the children should as equally listen to Mom. Now men do have it easier b/c they don't have too do much, lol, but once you are Consistent with the rules and consequences you put in place, the children will know Mom means business as well. So I would encourage you to read some books or even take some advice from Moms who are strong in that area. I highly recommend this book called: **"Have a new child by Friday" by Kevin Leman.** This will greatly bless your marriage and husband when the children are well behaved and you can run the household well even if he is at work. Blessings to you and your fam!
I have a situation am passing through my marriage,,,i found out my husband when he’s sleeping with another woman, but thank you for sharing really it has give me hope that everything will be well in Jesus name
That devious smile he has on his face just tells me he’s gonna do this again. He relish’s in your envy and jealousy of the other woman. This man obviously adores the idea of triangulations.
@@corlissfelder1927 watch what you speak and who you speak about. You are judging unrighteously and you will have to answer to God for every single word.
@@zaehudsonyou cannot even have peace in this situation. Your mind can never settle because he doesn’t want it. You continue to re-traumatize yourself for his benefit/ego. But you’re 100% right most women nowadays won’t take this type of man back! Glad you have him♥️ you aren’t God. You are delusional. Not in a good way.
My situation is similar to how yours was. Except I'm in your shoes my wife is in your husband shoes. And I'm just standing for my marriage, and this is very encouraging to stay after God's heart and stand for my marriage.
Hey sis! Just about an hour ago I saw the devil doing his best to tear you down for sharing your testimony. Just know that there is no condemnation for those of us in Christ Jesus. Greater are those who are with you and for you than those who are with them. TikTok can be a very demonized dark place. It’s all just spiritual opposition. Testimonies like this aid people from being delivered from adultery and bitterness. And not just adultery from cheating within the marriage, but remarrying all together due to people not knowing how seriously God takes it. The devil is BIG MAD! But keep going sis. God is not mocked ❤ and the Lord is proud of you. And as a sister in Christ, I commend you for holding your head high in the midst of it all. I am praying for you!!!
@@zaehudson can I ask, If your husband had bought you an incurable disease from his cheating, would you still believe that god loves you and would want that for you?
I am going through the most difficult marriage problem, specifically cause my wife thinks it’s God taking to her, she wants divorce, but I don’t know what to pray about, it’s been almost a year for me,
Hi, Thanks for sharing and continued blessings to you both and your family! Try increasing the volume or speaking louder. It's a bit difficult to hear hubby.
This is truly amazing Zae!❤ You started me on the journey of standing for my husband. So I came across this video right before I'm about to go into prayer asking God to help me with my food addiction, what I've struggled with all my life! This is another sign from God that I can do it! Thank you both for sharing this! Anytime I see your name it catches my attention. I will never forget how you helped me after I asked God to send me help and here yall are one again. I love you my sister in Christ. Continue to be a vessel for the Lord. Thanks again for sharing this. It was right on time for me!🙌🙏❤
God my marriage is in trouble we need ur strength 🙏 courage he just came home 7 months ago it was great then 4 monts he started moving different chesting so i left i didnt want to be hurt God i pray u fix our union our bond
I watched this video the other night. When I tell you, God used it to help me heal in so many ways. Just to understand and see both perspectives. Don’t ever feel “stupid” for doing something God has called you to do. God bless you & your family. 🥺♥️
Ya'll just keep praying & putting God/Christ *FIRST...* because those thing's that you're going through, irritating you etc... is just the enemy trying to get a foothold in & bring division, arguing etc... I believe you're aware of how the enemy works: So be sober, be vigilant... Watch & Pray. You are loved. *BE WATCHFUL OF THE TACTICS OF THE ENEMY.*
He needs to rebuild trust with Dreamy. Quality time, cuddling, playing together. Wife seems exhausted. Where are the men who are ready to adult/commit/not cheat?
