Question: could you be crazy jealous because she didn't have to share him to keep him? I could never share my husband or myself with others and still call him my husband. The whole "thing" of marriage to me personally is our commitment to each other. (Forsaking all others) ❤ but you do you boo!
Swinging is a way to show you aren't committed and not really a true marriage! If you loved him more than any other you would be jealous of him sharing something that is supposed to be sacred between a Husband and Wife! This lifestyle is a Lie straight from Satan!
Yeah, you’re selfish. Feel sorry for your husband and kids. Banging other people isn’t a “passion” it’s just gross and living on your base instincts. Some people’s passions force them to look at themselves in a difficult light and persevere through hardship. The best you could come up with the sleeping with other people 😂
Oops, his gift prompted her to spend at least 30-60 minutes recording and posting about it and her feelings, before even getting to enjoy (cold) fish & chips Then maybe working on the book. Social Media ftw……..
One of them wants to sleep with other people and the other one has low self esteem and agreed. God is very clear that marriage is between one man and one woman. These people are just playing house.
I get the point of the communication. It IS great! I love that she worries and holds space to care about her friends safety. I do however notice a weeeeeee little red flag in there- bare with me- She made it a point to consciously play out a non existant scenario/ future, where YOUR character-you- would be focusing upon fulfilling sexual needs with someone who isnt your husband rather than being present for friendship bonding time. Now, unless yall have some unspoken words regarding you doing such MANY times before in her presence- She is placing HER morals upon you under the claim of "care". Its disguised under layers that she may or may not realize, could be subconscious. But, it is there. The primary question is: Why is THAT what she brought to you? Out of everything to bring up, it was focused on your agreed upon open marriage. I hope you see where this line is and don't blind yourself to it... lol. There may be underlying feelings of disagreement of your life choices or perhaps some jealousy issues surrounding her own marriage? Idk, but there IS something. Good Luck!
That's so wonderful. :) Having an open marriage teaches you communication skills which you can use in all aspects even outside of your marriage. I hope you all have a lovely time in Mexico!
A. It's not cheating if her husband and she agreed to an open relationship. You don't get to decide what is right or wrong for someone else's marriage. B. She literally said she isn't going to hookup with anyone because she'll be spending time with her friends. I couldn't do an open relationship personally, it's not right for me. But that doesn't mean that everyone else thinks and feels how I do. So I don't judge others for what they do or don't do with their lives as long as they're not hurting others.
It's so nice she worries so much for you, and you both feel so comfortable having that conversation in such a straight forward manor. ❣️ By the sound ofnit you and your friends shouldn't have any issue with this but still make sure, on both your end and your friends, no one feels that certain boundaries and such are too controlling in their opinion.
So does she think you are a slut???? What, you just hook up with anyone with no concern for your own safety or health for that matter??? I get your point but I probably would have been a little offended. But I’m glad you are ok.
So you don't have any precautions or safety rules that you have for yourself when going on vacation? Because it sounds like this is just a safety concern more than anything
@therinplumb1833 not even just vacation. We go to the club together, we're responsible for each other and keeping each other safe. That's the only way to make it in this world.
Having a day to yourself is priceless. Peace be upon your adrenals ❤ The euphoric feeling fom the cold plunge is your adrenals releasing a ton of adrenalin. Your body has to immediately thin your blood to fit through your newly narrowed veins. Then the liver has to mop it up and process it. I hope you had a nice vacation.
I say this sincerely - it’s not cool to promote loose morals. Fulfilling selfish wants is not the key to happiness, or a clean and healthy lifestyle. Anyone attempting to convince themselves otherwise is lying to themselves. If we try to normalize fulfilling our every desire… where do we draw the line? What if a person has strong arson tendencies? Although they may not outright kill someone or themselves, should we normalize them fulfilling their selfish desires because it makes that person feel good… ignoring the negative effects or risks they put themselves and others at? Sleeping with multiple people while raising a family is not a safe and stable place for the kids, you also put yourself and your mate at health risk, not to mention emotional instability for everyone involved. “Alternative” lifestyles is a different way to phrase someone who is lost… this is not the key to a happy & fulfilling family life.
There are many different types of ethical non-monagamy including non-sexual and long-term relationships. It's not just sleeping around unless that's what you want it to be. Being open allows you to make better decisions about protection and getting tested regularly unlike many people who realise they are being cheated on because they develop symptoms. It is not considered ethical if it is irresponsible. Ethical non-monogamy isn't comparable to arson because it inherently requires consent. Just because you don't know where to draw the line does not mean other people don't know where to draw the line. If you don't feel this would be safe or stable for your family, nobody is forcing you to try it and nobody that tries it is ever forced to continue because again, consent is a requirement.
@@perregrine Getting regularly tested doesn’t protect you or your partners from STDs… only sleeping with the person you’ve vowed to be dedicated to does. Having consent from all parties doesn’t make things ethically correct. We all have desires - but fulfilling every single selfish desire puts ourselves and others at risk. The “traditional” family dynamic works when Bible principles are applied. When those principles are ignored, those involved feel empty and unfulfilled. Sadly, they begin to fill those voids with (although being aware of the risks and giving consent to) harmful alternatives in the long run.
Sounds a lot like when I would be on deployment for the military. I would post about where I was and what I was doing a week or two after I was no longer there or doing *that*. It's called "operational security" (OPSEC), and maximizes safety. I also have kids and have never posted their names or faces online. It has zero to do with my relationship status and everything to do with the sheer number of perverts out in the wild. Good for you.
That's awesome. It's better to have two, three, four parental figures that get along harmoniously than two screwed up parents who fight and screw their kids up. Much love happiness and respect to you
Women are not capable of discipline and they are not trustworthy when they are worldly.... I can see google is trying to mess with me by having this nonsense in my feed.... why do they feel the need to spread their garbage? Or is she just an alphabet agency .... I want i want i want I want okay demon
If it works for you, it works for you. Just make sure you are both getting tested for STDs on the regular and have a plan for if there is an accidental pregnancy. People are saying this because it is many people's lives. My (ex)fiance suggested it because he had already cheated. I was devastated. But I do know a gal who told her partner very early, like date two, that she was worried she couldn't really be monogamous and I know for a fact she had no one else. Usually you can tell the difference by asking if it is just poly for one partner, or asking if you found someone would it also be allowed for you. Someone who is really able to experience love with multiple people are apparently pretty unbothered. And since they are pretty unbothered, I'd imagine their internal reality of it must be real, I suppose.
