It sucks being this women, and ppl assume ur "bad or mean" when actually they just draw assumptions. And you can't even talk to anyone about it. It's so lonely, and isolating. Other women always hate me off the bat, but it's only been men throughout my life that have ever been nice to me, (the ones that weren't intimidated by me/ or scared that is, or drew assumptions) but the Real men, were never intimidated by me, and would actually be the only people who would be brave enough to talk to me. I still self isolate due to trust issues. But I enjoy the times that I am able to interact with real men and they just treat me like a person, and talk to me like normal. ❤ the only one that would actually hear me and see me", rather than just my exterior, that ppl assumed I was sexy or bad". (It actaully made me turn the compete opposite by the way so I never dated.) SO many times I had friends teachers, relatives, accuse me of trying to "seduce someone" or people assume I some 'sexual siren' (and it actually hurts my feelings alot when I tried so hard to blend in like an average girl, and to be seen as a "good girl", just normal. I didn't want to be a sexualized anything. I wnated to be seen as the one who got good grades and was kind to everyone, and devoted their time to taking care of the community. I really tried so hard my whole life to be seen as good, only to be labelled as a badfie" when I tbh didnt want to be seen or labeled that way. But just got stuck with it. (I have a resting bitch face so that may also be part of it.) or have fake friends accuse me of "wanting their man", when I wouldn't even know theyre man", and had no interests in seeing ppl. It's isolating, and sad, to have random women immediately start hating you for no reason. Nobody understands it but what makes it even worse is if your not eveb a 'real baddie" 😢 but just get labeled that way. 🤦♂️ sometimes i think about actaully just becoming one at this point, cuz apparently that life chose me. (However i really ahve no inrrest in 'being a baddie still, i feel like it goes agaisnt everything i actually find meanigful or want to live in life. Ive never had any ibtrest in getting attention. Its 100% really just my energy/and maybe my demanor, or how I carry myself, that possibly throws people off. Anyways sorry for the rant. I'm greatful for when real ones recognize real ones atleast. 🙏🙌🫶 #steviewonder #lightworker
Personally i dont agree, and scientifically and logically this makes no sense. Why is that women are more dangerous verbally than men and also better at friendships than men? Because historically women still compete like men. But men compete in the physical arena, while women compete in the social arena because they dont have physiology for combat. Their best tool is influence, not the fist. Many women tend to have more quantity of friends, but less quality of friend. While mens friendships are less, but can be last a lifetime over and even stretch to their offsprings. Womens friendships can be based purely on utility. Mens friendships be based purely on commonality. Ie- sports groups, etc. A woman can combat with another woman purely through side pressure influence, ie influence the group against another woman to ostracize her. Hes only 28 so i get it. But id tell him to be careful with this line of thinking.
Personally i dont agree, and scientifically and logically this makes no sense. Why is that women are more dangerous verbally than men and also better at friendships than men? Because historically women still compete like men. But men compete in the physical arena, while women compete in the social arena because they dont have physiology for combat. Their best tool is influence, not the fist. Many women tend to have more quantity of friends, but less quality of friend. While mens friendships are less, but can be last a lifetime over and even stretch to their offsprings. Womens friendships can be based purely on utility. Mens friendships be based purely on commonality. Ie- sports groups, etc. A woman can combat with another woman purely through side pressure influence, ie influence the group against another woman to ostracize her. Hes only 28 so i get it. But id tell him to be careful with this line of thinking.
Us men are wired like that. We'll take a 5,6 or 7 over the 8-10's especially if she empowers us and and makes you feel like a man and loves you for you. We'll go ro war against the world and bring back the stars and moon for women like this.
That is the problem with black folks All the young man needs is some guidance not to be bullied and it's easy for a coward you talk shit to a chilet's see how you do with somebody else's partner
I mean she’s not wrong lol look at Kim K. No one is wifing her up, the only ones who wifed her up were men who wanted to control/use her. But the media/world will have you think she’s happy & confident. Not true at all unfortunately.
facts : the more body count u have your value as a human being goes down no matter how much money u make, as a human u have no self respect and honor. if cant respect n protect your own dignity how do you aspect other humans to take you seriously. value is not money, value is morals
Very true. If you want to be seen as a strong woman then do not let yourself be dragged into the sexual work. You are viewed only as an object if you do.
It amazing women they need someone to rely on for the decisions they have to take that are good and bad about their own lives,friends,family ,brothers,hey your brain must decide and also to think how good can it be for allowing all men to inter into you,you designed like men that alone should make you think on your own
This literally broke me I have a 21 yrs old son whose currently locked up because of his so called friends his Father died two years ago but previously was in and out of jail his entire life I'm praying my son gets it right I pray for him often ..... may God continue to bless that young man and keep him covered at all times ❤❤❤
“It’s one thing to give tough love, but where’s the love” Sometimes hit you suddenly in a place you don’t expect and it reminds you that not everyone in this world is in the same mindset as those who brought you up.
What she said about men is true, but I disagree that one gender is more loyal than the other. Women are better at hiding unfaithfulness and men get caught more often but all of us to some extent are looking for the missing pieces of our lives in others and we will not find them except in Jesus. Find Jesus and then find a person who loves Him more than anything or anyone else and you have a chance at being whole again.
