Giving my all to inspire and motivate others to chase the best version of themselves through fitness, self-improving, and bettering the mind. My only goal is to spread positivity and love throughout this world. We can always be better. WE GOT WORK TO DO!
Sir i have used porn all throughout my teenage years. I never really got invested into no fap, i liked my energy being drained, being conpletely honest. Cause yeah it feels good. I am lucky. Cause i never had a problem building relationships, but i was afraid of sex. I kept my lust pent up. I come from a family that would speak openly about sex, my brother is trans and many sex related concepcts were very second nature to me. I'd never pressure anyone into doing something they wouldn't like. This is a very tangential comment, but the most important thing is what happened when i started being with my girlfriend. She and i both had no sexual experience, but i had become less shameful because of her. I just kinda... stopped watching porn, there was less time and we started preparing for many months to have sex, because i felt it surely was gonna be difficult. And it was, at first she had trouble relaxing and then after some half year later when we started that "journey" , i had realised-"this is embarrasing i had never nutted that quickly", and actually porn helped me with that. It wasn't really that stimulating, the porn i mean, and i really wished it to be her. So i just kinda went through a bit of her photos, which are all very beautiful of course. I dont feel any shame in it now. And we are very happy together, both of us have been through tough shit and we have found sex to be something that brings us closer to eachother. Masturbation is good, pornography has its uses, but as much as this might seem like a contrá to the maker of this video, it really aint, have fun in life but dont let the things in your life that made it fun become vices in bad times. If you are struggling seek help, from someone or from yourself, mr. Swole is in a gym for a reason (to talk to us😂) and maybe that is something you can do that would help you, go to therapy or friends if youre lucky enough to have those. There are always ways you can make your life satisfying. You right man, nofap is pretty stupid,im pretty sure it was made to keep men in a state of low selfesteem, and so was porn, which to be honest pisses the fuck outta me cuz i like men. Porn is also not good, supporting that industry is an ethical problem on its own, and using it can indeed cause shifts in the way people percieve relationship (mostly heterosexual men and women) but lust can also be good. Lust for your partners, or the people you date. As long as you dont set aside their other assets, of course we feel lust for beautiful people, but we also lust for kind people, and smart people. Lust isnt something that allowed our predecessor breeding, because we arent breeding animals, it drove us towards our sexual partners. A person that can exhibit many amazing traits, besides their oh so amazing traits.
Introduction: Stop Doing No Fap - 00:00:02 The Cycle of Relapsing - 00:00:52 The Impact of Guilt and Shame - 00:01:39 Change Your Identity, Not Your Streak - 00:02:31 The Negative Effects of Watching Porn - 00:03:24 Objectification and Relationships - 00:04:15 The Energy Drain of Fapping - 00:05:05 The Absurdity of the Habit - 00:06:01 Replacing the Habit with Productivity - 00:10:33 Self-Improvement Over Instant Gratification - 00:11:28 Avoiding the Path of a Loser - 00:12:26 Breaking Free from Lust - 00:14:24 The Power of Self-Control - 00:15:19 The Impact of Fapping on Social Interaction - 00:16:10 The Reality of Depression and Loneliness - 00:23:05 Becoming the Best Version of Yourself - 00:24:05 Final Motivational Words - 00:25:01 Conclusion: Stay Locked In - 00:26:03
Salute from 🇬🇧. Just started watching your videos. Thanks for motivating me bro. I’ve been so inconsistent with working out. Broad chest skinny arms and it’s hard to build my arms. I need your advice on that. And also I love going jogging so you think I should focus more on the gym than running?
Yup its us v us some people have that degree and get that job meanwhile us we have that degree and wind up having that ant man job focus on discipline and work on that peaceful mindset
Dude the thing is to improve yourself for YOU AND ONLY and not having your mind if yourr ex gfs that they made a mistake or whatever ... what kind of random bullsh@@t advice you can see on youtube .. jesus
That’s how I know you didn’t watch the full video. You just came here to talk nonsense and spread hate. I clearly said in the video 2-3 times that you should want to improve for YOURSELF. Instead of being a random online spreading hate, get on your grind & focus on yourself.
9:56 Reminds me of that interviewer trying to act like she was homies with Michael B Jordan, when she made fun of him in school. No shame and self-awareness whatsoever.
being jacked alone is not enough. women will also look at the home, cars, vacations you go on, personality, profession etc. (never ending list of fems).
You are correct having muscles isn’t all you need because you still have to have a personality etc but when they see you at first they mostly go based off of looks