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At least the guy made something of himself I failed to get into the National Guard and the army because of my extracurricular score for that worthless ass vibe and now I sit as a loser with a drug problem but oh well, the world is turning left me here it ain’t worth it for this country. This country is very unappreciative of people. We deserve better.
I just went through D&C this morning and looked for a video that I could relate to.. Thank you for sharing your story it’s similar to mine.. My son has trisomy 18 and also had issue with his heart & brain.. I’m still grieving for my loss son as it was one of the toughest decision I ever made 😔🕊️
Thank you so much for sharing your story....You made the best decision you could have, even though it was incredibly difficult. I am a caregiver for a girl with full trisomy 18, going against all odds and living now at the age of 17 after a long list of medical procedures. I have been taking care of her for 2 years now. She has no quality of life, it is truly the saddest thing I have ever seen. The toll it takes on the family is so immense....it is sad all around. We all love and care for her, but she is in pain daily, screaming from pain, has no cognition, or ability to move on her own. I was hesitant to share this story, but I know it is rare for someone with Trisomy 18 to live this long. I am sure a lot of people who decided to terminate, wondered "what if?". This is the what if. The girl I take care for lives a life that I would not wish upon anyone. I hope the best for you and thank you again for sharing your story.
Really great video. Your husband should be really proud of you. You did a great photog job. I am retired Army Officer, I have served at Fort Bragg North Carolina several short tours. Most Army wives look at these military pomp functions as annoyance. I am very pleased that you have enjoyed it. Also it is a really really GOOD TRAINING FILM to the younger wives both ENLISTED AND OFFICER who have never been to one. Someday when your husband is promoted to SERGEANT MAJOR OF THE US ARMY, please remember this video. Pass the this tradition on to others. By the way, this function is a very honored MILITARY TRADITION. It is called "DINING IN". It was always known as the TRADITION OF THE ARMY MESS FACILITY. The Dining Facility was previously call THE MESS. OR OPEN MESS. It had formal rules. YOU WERE NOT ALLOWED TO TALK ABOUT 3 THINGS <><> RELIGION, POLITICS AND CLASSIFIED SECRET INTELLIGENCE. Thank you again. Great video. Not too long and to the point.
I’m facing the same thing… I also decided to terminate, my D&E schedule is in next week.. I’ll 20 weeks by then… it’s so heartbreaking. I was trying to get pregnant for 2 and half years. And now this happen… It’s good to know that I’m not alone.. God bless all of those grieving mothers who had to went through this.
We did it to save money but we moved back to a house half a year ago. It was difficult for me too😅 but there is a lot of people they do it with even more kids
We had a abortion with our first baby girl. The test came back positive together with ultrasound abnormalities. I got pregnant again and had a healthy baby girl.
Hi Ela... It’s so nice to see your family .. God bless..... Can I ask you a question? I just lost a baby for trisomy 18 ... it looks like you have had the same experience and you have a normal baby after that loss , right? I’m searching the whole internet for people who have had normal pregnancy after tri 18 loss and I don’t see any. I’m asking this to you so that I can gather my confidence and hope for future. Looking forward for your reply. Thanks in advance
Yes we did. My doctor told me that we don’t have to worry about having another genetic abnormal baby. It’s totally random ( not even the age of the mother is a factor like with trisomy 21) I was not even considered high risk with my following pregnancy. And I got pregnant very fast after we lost our first little girl. Don’t worry. You will be fine.
@@ella6530 : Thanks a lot for your reply Ela .. This meant a lot to me . Hoping for the best. May God bless your sweet family with loads of love and good health.
im about to go through this my baby has trisomy 18 too and I feel just like you that I don't want my baby to be in pain so that's why im going the same decision but this put peace on my heart that im not making the wrong decision thank you so much
Would you not like to let the baby go naturally on its on, and maybe hold the baby and love the baby for awhile if its born alive.. I think that would be so special, Abortion can pull them to pieces as they perform the procedure. Just think about it some more before you decide... Sorry about your baby... no judgement..
That makes me so happy to hear that it helped somebody else to see my story. Don’t worry about anybody else you are the one who has to do what’s best for you and your baby. I still think about her a lot ( probably always will) but I am sure it was the right decision for me and my family. Hope you are doing ok 💜
@@ella6530 i ended up miscarrying at 12 weeks and made it so much easier for me and helps me be at peace. I found out she was a girl too and I know think bout her constantly. Will never forget carrying her. And they will forever be our daughters
It's a highly personal decision for each person, you say "no judgement" yet based on your graphic words selected to elicit a guilt filled emotional response, you're pushing a passive aggressive prolife agenda. @@averysgranny
