Don't get why does this post say this was 11 years ago why are the comments here old listed from years ago checked online just before I posted this all sources I found list her as being born in 2007 but how can that be it would make her 4 yrs old according to this post
i dont know if anyone will see this but i still love this. i was 13 when i first saw it and 22 now it's still an amazing video and i come back every couple years and rewatch. thank you for uploading
The video reminds me of the narcissistic and toxic relationships I used to have. Its really fantastic and helped me healing a little. Thank you so so much for this beautiful peace of art~
I'm glad that lolita fashion is gaining more recognition and support in the comment section, but I think some of the comments have missed an important point. I'm speaking of the comments that are implying that lolita fashion is comparatively acceptable to more mainstream fashion styles of women who wear more revealing clothing, such as "tube tops" and "booty shorts" and styles that are influenced by "Kardashian" or "Britney Spears". I feel ambivalent about this way of thinking. Some of these comments imply that it's acceptable to consider women who dress in a way that shows more skin "slutty" or "skanky", but that's reiterating the very same patriarchal, oppressive criticism that many lolitas encounter. There's no need to uplift one fashion style at the expense of another, even if that style is not to your taste. And there's no need to uplift one woman at the expense of another woman. Just because lolita fashion is often misconstrued and isn't mainstream in comparison to more revealing fashion styles, doesn't mean that women who wear less modest clothes are free from denigration by society. It seems that whether we wear modest or revealing clothing, people will always find fault in what we wear. People often mistakenly assume that women adorn clothes solely to attract the male gaze and don't consider that we are simply dressing for ourselves and like what we wear. So I implore you to do away with this kind of thinking, and instead of making value judgements based on personal taste, ask yourself if the clothes a person wears makes them happy and let them be happy.
People think it is related to fetish wear because Lolita fashion is exaggeratedly feminine and plays with ideas around femininity and child-like innocence. the Japanese glam & goth looks have surely evolved from glam, punk and post punk fashion from the 70s onward. You can't keep fashion and culture in little boxes - the author loses control of the interpretation and "meaning"(whatever that means!) of their work as soon as it is published or indeed, worn in public.
