He could've been crazy or gay or violent or a cheater ? Like the first thing you think is its the woman's fault? I think men who are this harsh on women have been rejected by women and hurt a lot You didn't get the girl you really wanted So now you're just bitter
This is BS!! The double standard that some people have is ridiculous. I know a guy who told that his wife and I were better people than him because we helped to raise our step children. He said if the situation was reversed he didn't know if he would have stepped up and took that on. Everyone has baggage. If you can't handle that get ready to be alone.
Black men have never been traditional they have been incarcerated Black women have had to learn how to never rely on a man because yall have sucked and not been men You don’t know what traditional is
That is true for some. When I was 22 yes I went for a job interview and I was so vibrant and ready for the questions but at the interview a member of the panel asked me, “Who are you?” I froze. Well that changed from that day. I was given an assignment to get to know me and return for the interview in 1 week. It’s similar. Nothing is wrong with questioning ourselves and answering them. Nothing is wrong with being in touch with who we are. We get better results in our lives when we know who we are, our fundamental values, and purpose. I love this discussion.
We too busy worrying about what men want or woman want, there are 6 billion ppl on the planet, worry about what you want in a mate and worry about what that person want. Your only goal is to please that particular person, if you are modern, find a modern man, if your are traditional find a traditional man.. the problem is when you want 50/50 on the bills but wond do no house chores or help with the kids. Find a lane and stick to it. Marriage does not work when one side is lazy and selfish, either male or female , in 2024 no one is staying in a miserable relationship.
@@Qwinbee7 actually over 8 billion…nonetheless, appreciate your comment. Make sure you’re subscribed and notifications are turned on for more conversations and full episodes.👍🏾
It’s funny how a man can say he “protect and provide” and end the conversation for a husband. But if a woman say I cook and clean, he will say that’s not good enough? You actually don’t want a traditional woman, stop pretending that you do💯
@@Thebigdevide All women has said it since this weird topic surfaced, and guess what?? There is no right universal answer for women & most men asking it are clowns 🤷🏽♀️ A traditional man will accept cook & clean… but non traditional men cannot and do not. That’s why most get nothing.
My beautiful, 20s aged, college educated, nieces with great careers, tell me that MOST men these days meet a woman and automatically assume that they're looking for a Sugar Daddy to pay their bills and buy them things (especially if they're pretty - It's assumed theyre stupid too). Independent women find themselves having to explain early on that they're not like that. Those women are looking for a partner to walk through life with (a Husband). It doesn't mean that they're not traditional in many ways. I'm retired now, and we've been happily married for 40 years. We had eachother's backs through college and careers (sometimes I made more money and sometimes he did. It all went into 1 account, and we discussed spending ahead of time with eachother, and still do) and we split our household chores. However, he did the more traditional male things, and I did the traditional female. We didn't discuss it, we just naturally gravitated that way. I happen to love cooking and cleaning, and doting on my hubby. (i.e. making lemonade to bring out to him when he's working outside). He loves working on cars, renovating our house, doing the lawn (I do the gardens), and helps me with the heavier work, like shampooing our carpets inside, putting up shelves, miving furniture. (otherwise it's pretty much my job to maintain the household). He does many little things just to make me happy too. I always made our lunches for 40 years (now, just his for another year until he retires too) and we both took the time to council and be romantic (take care of eachother's physical needs). A marriage is a partnership, and both people have strengths and weaknesses, so you adjust accordingly, and that means that sometimes the lines get crossed between what would have been just female/male roles years ago. Because of the womans libbers of the 50s, our economy is now build on a 2 income household, so unless a man is making extremely good money, it's impossible for a wife to stay home "barefoot and pregnant" as they used to say, even if the husband/wife wanted it that way. For those blessed with money and the wife wants to be a full time home maker, she needs a break from her routine too (like the husband gets vacation days, a wife and mother never has a day off). A husband needs to understsnd that and give her some breaks (Me Time) sometimes by taking the kids out for the day or overnight, etc. A marriage constantly goes back and forth with roles. If one is sick, the other picks up the slack and takes on their roles too. It's how life is, and how marriages work.
So prioritizing having your own, as a woman, over a man is a bad thing? So men want a woman who doesn't want to build herself up and be in a place where she can meet the type of man she wants?
My woman can! She holds me down. Cooks. Cleans. Does laundry. Allows me to help her because she likes it a certain way! She works her ass off. She WIFEY
That is dope! It still stands that a lot of WOMEN cannot name the qualities of a wife. Appreciate your comment, make sure you stay. Connected with us by hitting that subscribe button! 💯
Send them to Saudi Arabia you will be a wife or get the big Chop! My students would tell me Ma'am I cannot read tonight I must cook for my husband he said no books tonight! I respected my women students, and we did all assignments in class!
What Alfa male podcaster is she trying to pacify with this ? Oh look I'm submitting to you but to show you are a good Leader you should kinda submit too ... that how you end up with a guy that you need to fix and that you have to walk on egg shells around , I want a woman that can talk to me not servant that I may or may not reward by not treating like shit if she pacifies me and that can take her own fuking decisions...I'm not her dad , and even then if someone told my kids should submit to me I would be like ishhhh...not even obey or listen to ? Fuking submit ?
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🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 submission definitely goes both ways. Lead by example is another way to put it. If one mirrors a leader there's two leaders! Two leaders are better and stronger than a leader and a follower. I don't want to possibly lead you off a cliff! I want your leadership abilities already activated to help detect all possible cliffs ahead!💪🏾💪🏾
@@Thebigdevide nobody is committing to someone who thinks the role of a wife/husband is dictated by how much money you make. Those new requirements she listed in the video aren't hard to find; if she prioritizes them in the beginning instead of looking for superficial and materialistic qualities. But we've learned a woman's standards change depending on the situation. That's not a standard. Women will treat a man, they make more than and choose to be with, a certain way and treat a man who makes more another way. Like I said no one is committing to that. Ive been married and have been the breadwinner for 80% of the time. Never once did our roles or attitudes about our roles change depending on who was making more.
I love how every single video involving a womans preferences gets a bunch of comments berating the woman and saying shes gonna die alone lol... She literally just said she wants a good guy with a hammer 😂 not THAT rare, is it?
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