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The only thing I will say is really know your partner and their parenting style. Also understand that the child is forever but so is the father. You will always have to deal with the father should anything ever happen to the relationship.
As a young person, I never thought I wanted kids. More of a There Are Enough People On The Planet kind of thought. I figured I might adopt. But when I met my now-husband in University, we had this discussion while dating, and I felt that if I had kids, I wanted it to be with him. I had very similar feelings as you've described, and I'm also an overthinker. Fast forward 10 years, I'm 28 and we're married for 2 years. We just discussed feeling ready, and I felt it was probably the time and I was never going to be more ready. So we stopped birth control and figured it would happen when it happened. After a year, nothing, and I started to get frustrated. Talking to my doctor, we started trying actively to get pregnant. Another year with negative tests, I was heartbroken, now desperately attached to the idea of something I maybe couldn't have. We started having tests done and found hindrances on his side and mine. IVF was a nerve-wracking experience, but I've got my twin girls (now 6 years old). I won't lie, it's difficult, and I know I'm not the most gentle-hearted mom, but I love my girls even when I also want to punt them into next week. ❤❤
Omg. I have more things to say on this topic than anything. I could write you a 10 page essay and not say everything. I’m not going to say anything about the feelings, because they constantly change. Don’t base an entire decision on a feeling. The advice I was given many years ago is this: if you and your partner truly have love between you and you both have room in your life to love MORE, then you are ready. If you and your partner have nothing but pure passion for each other and he’s literally all you think about, then you aren’t. You made me cry when you cried BTW…. I don’t think it was because you wanted to experience the joy of others, I think it’s because you wanted to SHARE your joy with others. Good luck with you decision. It is a big one, but coming from me - who was a mom by accident (and I never wanted children) it is one of my life’s biggest accomplishments. I would never change anything. I’m now 35 and a mom of 2. It can be trying, but it is so much more rewarding. ❤
i don't think you are overthinking this at all, having a child is a really big deal, so it's normal you think about it a lot. maybe you could try to imagine being pregnant without all of the extrernal factors: no family to tell the news, no cute baby tiktoks etc. it's just you and a baby, would that make you happy? and are you willing to sacrifice your time, money, sleep, energy, holidays, free time, festivals, space in your house - all of that? would that sacrifice be worth it, or does it sound straining and annoying? i think if the thought/feeling/idea of a baby outshines all of these hardships, it's leaning towards wanting a child. but if the idea of having a child and having to do all of those things and is solely leaning on the happiness and excitement of other people, it might not be for you (right now). but keep in mind this is coming from someone younger who does not want to have kids haha! good luck angel xx
I tell my friends this way: imagine you find out you're pregnant right now, are you happy? But you can't over think it, everything in your life is perfect and ready for a child (finance, a house, your job, is usually what people panic about) I wouldn't be because I dont want children. Just edited to add: thinking about being pregnant makes me want to cry. That's how bad I dont want children, a little silly😅
Based off what you are saying it seems you are ready to have a child. Especially if you are day dreaming about telling everyone. Also it sounds like you've already made up your mind and you are trying to convince yourself otherwise. I'm sorry if this comes off mean or rude, it is not my intention. I decided to not have children. I don't hate kids, I actually love them, I just know they aren't for me. I hope you find the answers you are looking for.
I feel like you really want to have kids and just trying to find 100% yes feeling, it's okay if you don't have that passionate I want to have kids feeling ❤❤❤
My son is 4 months away from being 2 and I turn 32 in August. I didn't know that I wanted to have a child until I was around 28, prior to that I was always on the fence. When I met my fiance 5.5 years ago he had a 6 year old daughter who is now almost 12 and having her in my life made me realise that I wanted a child in my life. I am one and done, I know that and I knew that from the moment I got pregnant. I don't have a desire to have more than 1 child myself even though so many people in my life try to tell me that I need to have more than 1
I can’t tell you how you would know you want kids. I know I NEVER want kids, and that is a feeling that never changes. I have never had a time in my life where I thought, “well, maybe I want kids.”
I feel like this is so personal for everyone and it’s usually going to be different from person to person. For me, it was a longing in my heart that I felt, but I’ve also been someone who has always ‘wanted’ kids and never questioned it until I was 28-29 and I thought maybe it wasn’t meant to be. so I started to feel okay with it not happening if that is what was meant to happen, but deep down - I still had that longing feeling I think. Then I got pregnant. ☺️ I wouldn’t know how to give you advice, but I’m sure you’re not alone in how you’re feeling and just take it day by day. ❤
I have been focusing on one of my lip products to use up because it is so close! I keep sharpening it and it just keeps going. It’s like your eyebrow pencil. It is about to be swallowed by the cap, but mine isn’t done yet 😩
You could try to scrunch out the crunch of the gel once your hair has completely dried. I do this after every hair wash & it helps with locking in moisture and wave/curl longevity. 👩🦱✨
Amazing update!! I am always so impressed by your panning. wow I absolutely love your new color story!! You did so well finding cohesive shades that also match the prompts.
I have watched this video four or five times, while I set up my own No Pan Left Behind sheet for next year. Thank you for breaking yours down so thoroughly.
I can’t believe that you’re almost done! Great job 👏🏼 When you start using that Twilight palette, I’d like to know how it is. I’ve considered it several times, but the colors look very dark online.
I haven't bought anything from colourpop in years there is a couple of things on my current wishlist though! When I first made my order I was like young me would lose it hehehe! xx
@@coleoftheball I swear these extra shipping fee’s and things love them but hate them🤣 they save us money because we won’t constantly order, but then once we do give in, they make it sooo expensive🥲
Let’s plunge into beauty bank debt together! I’ve been eyeing the same palette. I will say though- I’ve almost finished 3 lipsticks. By next month I’ll have them gone!
Ooh. Can’t wait for that repressing video! Even if you don’t want to work on the Norvina palette, you could always use those shades to franken something else.
