3 answers for OP to cycle through for those harassing him: 1. "Leave me alone and go pester the baby-daddy she was cheating on me with." 2. "You help the lying, cheating, wh()re." 3. "You seem so invested in ensuring she gets help. Is that because you're a lying, cheating, wh()re too? Does you boyfriend/husband know? Birds of a feather and all that." 4. "Not my gf, not my child, not my circus, not my monkeys."
Whether he shows up or not, leave the hospital and move on with your life the second you're healed. It's obvious that he trusts his psychotic mother more than you, I say it's time to press charges and let the police take over.
If she has done something in the past which is causing her HPV meaning that "something" must have effected her by that the partner has to accept the fact that the "something" in the past has caused her HPV The individual has nothing to do with it since they have insured that they haven't cheated on their partner and of course the partner would blame on the individual because she can't accept that she has caused her own problem caused by herself So, it would be better if you talked about the partner's past because that can be the reason why she had the disease now
A message to the original poster's sister. Maybe if you don't want someone's help, don't tell them you're struggling. Simple as that. Sorry, your sister freaked out, but you could've talked to her instead of bottling it all up until you couldn't even look at her. Of course, she was worried, you were moaning about your ailments to your anxiety-ridden sister and needed to have surgery, which you then refused to let her be there for you during.
Eh almost every reason for divorce is valid. If you're so unhappy you want a divorce then something is obviously wrong enough that tryna continue the marriage won't make anyone happy
No. He seems to be trying really hard. This lady gets a lot of lady’s nights out and it doesn’t sound like it’s equal. So unless he is leaving stuff out, then he is NTA. I don’t understand why both sides of the family is mad unless he wants to leave his son behind too.
I'd say that if OP is that conflicted, he should step up as the kid's godfather since it sounds like Jane was the closest thing he had to a real friend growing up. Now, if that builds into them starting their relationship over from square one, that's up to them, they're adults and can make their own decisions. But it sounds like Jane's asking a little much, expecting OP to willingly jump in as her affair baby's stepdad without doing serious work on her end for even the slightest chance at fixing the relationship.
NTA. Sounds like he just misses being appreciated and not taken for granted, and that’s understandable. Seems less about wanting to be single again and more about not actually being happy in their marriage. They should’ve gone to couples therapy instead of a “hall pass,” but it’s too late for that now. However, he should be ready for how difficult this could become on the kids, especially since he clearly loves them, and how much less he’ll see them. Is he ready for that? These are real questions he’ll have to take seriously when deciding if he should go through this divorce or not.
These Ai voices are funny. Had a whole clip running in my head about someone doing very loud I.T. in their apartment. "what do you mean they files didn't compile?"
Clicking on this I genuinely thought it was about someone doing home-office IT and I was curious how they could be doing that in a way that's so annoying that the roommates forbid it 😂
OP, what you should do is tell her friends to cut the gaslighting 🐂 💩. They more than likely knew about her cheating and it’s no one’s fault but her own for putting herself into this situation. She should’ve thought about all the consequences when she decided to cheat, and yes, going behind your back and cheating for 2 years was not a mistake. It was a choice, and a choice that she was going to keep doing if she knew she wasn’t going to get caught. Lastly, tell them that it’s incredibly ironic that they’re expecting you to step up, and you should ask them why don’t they pitch in if they care so much.
It's not the fight, it's him just leaving her alone with the kids, not joining their kids event and all that without even talking about it with her. While she shouldn't write that to a random person, she is absolutely in the right about thinking that way.
nah she is on to something. She clearly wasn't happy and didn't feel like he cares about her. Yes he did a lot of things but something like love languages exist. She clearly felt like she is put on the back burner, and the bf didn't take the ultimatum serious. It was the last straw for her. He just thought she wouldn't go through with it and thought his relationship was safe. Clearly he didn't care enough to too, so they are better off without each other. It's just how it is.
This is why I've never been married. Women and some men are quick to go to someone else. Well that's been my experience with Women. The ones I've dealt with were quick to call it quits or go to someone else. That's why I have dogs. Atleast they are happy to see me when I come home. And they are better companions than most humans.
Men have a list of things of why they want to keep a relationship which they review before making a dumb decision like that. Women can toss that list at any day depending on how they woke up in the morning and how they feel.
Spare the rod and spool the adult child, but if you don’t then you could end up in prison for the rest of your life, or dead. Society has created a situation which is lose, lose for you. Better to divorce her now and have custody of the children rather than being framed as a bad father and forced to pay alimony and child support with no custody or visitation.
How do I put this delicately? OP is straight up stupid. How do you hit someone and expect them to not escalate? I am not saying what he did is ok. But please if you are reading this, do not think that if you start a physicals altercation, the other person will not finish it because you are a woman or are smaller. Please, for your own safety do not be stupid like this woman.
Save up a secret escape fund. If he asks for anything, tell him you're broke. If he complains about you being poor all the time, start shouting and tell him it's his fault you're poor. And peel out of his driveway when the time comes. Send the divorce papers in the mail.
Gotta work on why you need to settle down when you don't know your spouse enough. But really, the thing is, knowing your spouse takes a lifetime of slow tempering process. You don't just quit when things go sour. What's the use? And please remember that the kids aren't there as decorations. If you forget why you get married in the first place and start to think your spouse is your enemy........... you shouldn't have planned for kids. Or fix your mindset and take responsibility for your kids' sake. Stop thinking how to avoid responsibilities and instead work together to keep the family intact.
Wanting an open relationship is the same as saying you don't want to be in a relationship. You essentially become friends with benefits with your partner.
