I do not have children because I never had the opportunity to have children the way i wanted to. I am identical to your views. I just want to say this, I also suffer from, and I apologize for assuming, depression and anxiety, and I am alone in this world as well. Again, not a parent. However, I think it is actually beautiful parenting that you are showing him how to process emption in a healthy way. He won't remember this, but if he did, what would his memories or thoughts be? Mommy was really upset, I know this because she is crying, and I feel that she is sad. Mommy showed me that by playing with me, being with me, snuggling with me, going on adventures with me.... made her happy. My mom was there. If you take it deeper, you showed him how: to procress, that showing and expressing your emotions are okay in a healthy way (crying, feeling it, not taking it out on others (instead going to those you love for support), going to therapy,) etc. You're doing a beautiful job. You're a good mom. You're a good person. You are so important. You are so special. And you're effing doing this thing, okay? You're not told enough, so you need to start telling yourself. OR I WILL!! Great things are coming because you are a warrior. 🫶
Unhappy people who don't try to take positive change in themselves or their lives love to hate on people taking action. Fan behavior. Just ugnore them ❤
Hi Denise, I've been thinking about you and how your pregnancy is going. I noticed you haven't posted in a while. I hope your doing okay ❤ hang in there girl. You can do it 💪
Hi there, I had a tough pregnancy not that I had all kinds of physical struggles but it was an emotional one for me dad wanted an abortion several times and I was so sad however I told myself I’m walking with God I cannot abort my child. Today she’s a happy 10 month baby girl. I don’t regret having her. Her dad and I tried to work it out but right now we’re going through a custody battle he’s in her life and is an active dad and present in her life. I am struggling emotionally bc I always wanted to have a family and for me it’s grieving that idea of being a family. You’re not alone! God loves your family and you! With much love, Lily from Fresno, CA
Also some ppl say get rid of it but having an abortion will keep you up at night and hate yourself for killing an unborn baby! “It” is a loving baby you’re a loving mama. Don’t think about abortion it’s not an option but your baby dad on child support once baby is born. You don’t have to go through financial distress alone you guys chose to have sex it’s not all you to carry all this stress. Also take care of yourself eat, take walks, find a support system whether it be a therapist through medical or a friend but don’t sit with your thoughts alone. Remember when you pass away God will open up those Heaven gates for you and save your soul. You have a calling and that is to protect your children my sister!!
I have two toddlers and without a double stroller I wouldn’t have gotten through the 2 under 2 stage. If you wanna take out the trash or take him to the store just put him in the stroller and put the groceries under in the basket, and it makes your life sooo much easier and less complicated. And my husband was gone for so many months because of the army so I did everything on my own for so long. It seems so difficult at first but the more you practice, the more confident you’ll feel and you’ll be a pro. Don’t worry, you can do it 🩵💛
Prayers for you love! I’m a single mom of 2 as well, my son is 15 months and my daughter is 2 weeks old. God knows what he is doing! Trust him! You’re stronger than what you think, you got this momma!!
Hey love i recently came through your channel and i would love to get to know you! i would like to provide you with help at least to have a person to talk to and support you as a single mom 🤍 theirs always light at the end of the tunnel keep your head up god is always with you ❤️🩹
I don’t know what city your in but there’s programs for single mom we’re the state pays for school and Day Care. I believe they also help you find a job…… I’m not sure how all this works but you might want to call your city and they might be able to guide you. Or go online and try to find a job. praying for you! 🙏🏻
Why would it burden him? He needs to take responsibility for his actions. I’m a firm believer that abortion is not the answer. But leaving your responsibilities and your children behind you as if they don’t mean anything is not okay. He needs to support you and your children. When you create a baby through an act of love you need to be open to life and the responsibility that comes with that.
We can't always see what God is doing in our lives. He will take the most broken and terrible thing and make it into something absolute beautiful. Please have faith, that God is working it out for you!! ❤ please look into local resources as well! Don't feel embarrassed to use them! Praying for you 🙏
I feel for you love . I say do what your heart wants and needs but I’d consider the one thing you don’t want to do and use that as a reason to bust your tail to get the life you want and need . Then go to school etc… Or keep it and kick butt , you sound very determined and you are young. You keep saying what kind of person would I be ? A single Mom that needs to keep things good for the one she has . Now if you have family somewhere , move home . That’s my best advice love .
Maybe this will push you into a new world, and you'll be making more money than you ever dreamed. You really never know, stay positive and keep the faith. For sure, 100% please please think of this moving forward for when you decide to have another baby. Please have these conversations with the guy AHEAD of getting pregnant because it's also not fair to the new baby or new babies you bring into the world for them to not have a loving papa. Either way, like you said, you asked for this and obviously the guy felt strong enough to cum in you and all of that, so it's also on him for just deciding randomly to walk away. So messed up. Sounds like it's the same baby daddy from before too..and ya'll lived together and he suddenly decides to leave..that guy has mental issues for sure. Please please keep the faith, if you're gonna keep the baby, keep it, and be the best mama ever to both babies but for sure be more responsible for any new babies up ahead. Maybe talk to the guy and really get him to decide before he impregnates you, whether he will be around or not. You're both to blame, but it is what it is now. Stay strong hun.
Praying for you! 🙏🏻 your emotions are valid and you need to go through them. We always tend to focus on the negative but try to remember all the positive you have like your health, your son’s health and a beautiful blessing growing in you. It will all work out and you will look back at this obstacle in life as a proud person who overcame it ❤
Hey love, I’m new here but haven’t started vlogs yet. I just wanted to take the time and say sometimes when we ask God for things we have to be prepared for when he does grant our wishes. And watching your journey feels and reminds me of my journey that I’m preparing to share. I believe once we receive what we ask for regardless of the reality the first steps would be accountability, acceptance, and looking at the positivity in your new reality. Yes go through the emotions, yell, shout, cry and once you do let’s look at the positivity and let’s give life to the new birth. We got this sister. I pray that God gives you the strength, clarity, guidance, support and love on your new path. I love you sisters through Christ & here🫶🏾 For nothing will be impossible with God Luke 1:37
